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1. I'm sorry you're going through something so awful.

   Firstly, with respect, are you actually sure she did? Someone you've never met and only spoke to on a particular app, and her friend just sends you a text message, within how long waiting for a reply It very much sounds like a thing some people would do to make you feel bad, a way of getting back at you – especially someone with borderline personality disorder. Are you in touch with her family? Do you know anyone else who knows her?

   Either way, as others have said, therapy is what you need here. Reddit can only get you so far. This isn't your fault at all, and you can't blame yourself for it.

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2. What someone has been taught since childhood is part of their identity. He’s not going to change.

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3. My take on infidelity is that a relationship can survive it under three conditions, and you really need all of them.

   The guilty party confesses without being caught, and it needs to be right away. Without this happening the other party won’t be able to trust them going forward.

   It has to be a one-time lapse, not a pattern of behavior. One fuckup can maaaaaaybe be excused, multiple will lead to an unmanageable amount of resentment.

   The guilty party has to commit fully to doing whatever their partner needs to rebuild trust. Open phone policy, unlocking their laptop, reporting in, whatever the partner needs within reason.

   I’ve seen couples recover from cheating if all three of those conditions are met. I’ve never seen it work out without them.

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4. Your girlfriend is insisting on playing Russian roulette with pregnancy – there is no reason for you to accept this.

   Unprotected sex (with someone who is fertile) is just waiting for the pregnancy announcement – and her acting surprised.

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5. Also his not wanting her to work could be a way to have her financially dependant on him. ?

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