24 thoughts on “Melany-hiller on-line sex chats for YOU!”
Oh man there’s a great how I met your mother episode about this. The ‘right now’ part is the hook she’s keeping on you. She enjoys your emotional availability but is not serious about you as a long term option unless her life falls apart.
She is first and foremost an addict. So long as she's in active addiction/still using, that will be her primary relationship, not you. It takes several months of recovery and self work and reflection to be able to have any kind of meaningful relationship, she's nowhere near that point yet and will in all likelihood continue this behavior if she's so far deep that she's having sex for drugs. She needs inpatient therapy!!! She not only disrespected you and your relationship, she put your life/health at risk. Addicts and dealers who engage in this kind of trade are rarely safe in doing so. You have been exposed to everyone she's done this with, whoever the dealers have been with, and so on. End the relationship and GET TESTED!!!!
I hear ya but also clearly didn't think it stupid at the time. Unfortunately I don't have a reddit comment section on my shoulder telling me not to do things 24/7 hah
Why would you stay with someone with glaring red flags, I’m starting think they should teach people the importance of breaking up with toxic people in school or something. How can so many people skip this life lesson?
If he’s that comfortable being DISGUSTING in front of you what is he hiding? If he’s that comfortable boldly blowing through boundaries when you tell him to stop, what else is he capable of?
Leave. He sounds like pervert and would make a rotten partner
It was something that was none of your business since you weren't exclusive at the time. Not that she was maliciously hiding it from you, it was just not your business.
Sounds like you’ve been through quite an experience. If you are unhappy with her as you mentioned, then you are obviously better off without her. Your feelings will take a little longer to come around.
But once you are free of her, you can find someone less toxic.
Yes, I understand the aggravation of not getting sleep. My point was the loaded term “consent” which suggested it was another form of SA (amongst the other 10,000 already newly developed).
I know I’m in the minority here, but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with snooping on their phone when you have a suspicion or they’re not telling you something.
He gaslights you and cheated on you. Why would you stay? You‘re a grown woman who should know her worth and know it‘s over when you‘re constantly being disrespected.
Yeah you need therapy. He is your ex. Hai actions have nothing to do with you. He told he he didn't want to be emotionally involved with you by breaking up with you. Find a new job and a good therapist.
Im sorry. I do realize that what i do was bad and i really regret staying with him for years because i was scared of what he could have done to me. I want to fix my mistakes. I begin by cutting him off but i dont know what to do now, and im feeling awful for leaving him where he is at his lowest. Whatever i do i feel guilty and im so lost
Oh man there’s a great how I met your mother episode about this. The ‘right now’ part is the hook she’s keeping on you. She enjoys your emotional availability but is not serious about you as a long term option unless her life falls apart.
Scamper
She is first and foremost an addict. So long as she's in active addiction/still using, that will be her primary relationship, not you. It takes several months of recovery and self work and reflection to be able to have any kind of meaningful relationship, she's nowhere near that point yet and will in all likelihood continue this behavior if she's so far deep that she's having sex for drugs. She needs inpatient therapy!!! She not only disrespected you and your relationship, she put your life/health at risk. Addicts and dealers who engage in this kind of trade are rarely safe in doing so. You have been exposed to everyone she's done this with, whoever the dealers have been with, and so on. End the relationship and GET TESTED!!!!
signed, A child of addicts/ex-wife of an addict
if you're not going to do anything about it, nothing will change. Which means that you're going to have to deal with his kids there.
I’m tired reading it ? She is showing you who she is…believe her ???
We’re in corporate. I know. I want to maintain a good friendship with her and not act on these.
I hear ya but also clearly didn't think it stupid at the time. Unfortunately I don't have a reddit comment section on my shoulder telling me not to do things 24/7 hah
Why would you stay with someone with glaring red flags, I’m starting think they should teach people the importance of breaking up with toxic people in school or something. How can so many people skip this life lesson?
If he’s that comfortable being DISGUSTING in front of you what is he hiding? If he’s that comfortable boldly blowing through boundaries when you tell him to stop, what else is he capable of?
Leave. He sounds like pervert and would make a rotten partner
You’ve only been dating 8 months. Do not marry someone who will get mad if you can’t have sex.
I was with you until you suggested hiding it. Just find a partner who's on the same page with you about such things.
Was gonna type this lol.
Literally gets nothing from it outside of thid odd app. Im so glad theres not a market for reddit accounts
It was something that was none of your business since you weren't exclusive at the time. Not that she was maliciously hiding it from you, it was just not your business.
Sounds like you’ve been through quite an experience. If you are unhappy with her as you mentioned, then you are obviously better off without her. Your feelings will take a little longer to come around.
But once you are free of her, you can find someone less toxic.
waves hands condoms
As soon as you suspected him you should’ve discreetly added inside cameras to catch him in the act.
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Yes, I understand the aggravation of not getting sleep. My point was the loaded term “consent” which suggested it was another form of SA (amongst the other 10,000 already newly developed).
I know I’m in the minority here, but I don’t think there’s anything wrong with snooping on their phone when you have a suspicion or they’re not telling you something.
He gaslights you and cheated on you. Why would you stay? You‘re a grown woman who should know her worth and know it‘s over when you‘re constantly being disrespected.
Yeah you need therapy. He is your ex. Hai actions have nothing to do with you. He told he he didn't want to be emotionally involved with you by breaking up with you. Find a new job and a good therapist.
Im sorry. I do realize that what i do was bad and i really regret staying with him for years because i was scared of what he could have done to me. I want to fix my mistakes. I begin by cutting him off but i dont know what to do now, and im feeling awful for leaving him where he is at his lowest. Whatever i do i feel guilty and im so lost
Lol they said she was making her wedding about her. Almost like that might be the point.