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So…he was pretending to sleep and therefore aware of you crying, and instead of comforting you, he uses the moment as some completely insane and asinine “gotcha” moment? Wtf
You broke one of the biggest rules you guys established in order for the poly side of the relationship to work. He requested condoms. You got pregnant and have no idea who the dad is. Him leaving you due to this is the consequence of your actions. You can't “talk sense” into him, he sees all the sense and has realized you don't respect him and thus he's out.
Pot meet kettle
Dude, she likes your attention. Move on bro, you’re acting like I did when I was younger. You’re making yourself too available. You need to ghost. She don’t want you.
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He just came off a long relationship, maybe also got abused in some ways. It messes with your head.
Through my last experience I'm finding manipulation in EVERYTHING a woman does now. Idk if he had a very bad experience or not, but it could explain why he's very cautious and sees things differently.
Don't forget; the same situation can be interpreted very very differently. In either way; op should fucking communicate. Lol
You should look into tracking macros as opposed to cutting certain foods out. It isn’t that those foods are bad, they’re just easier to overeat cause they’re not as dense. This is coming from someone who used to compete in bodybuilding shows and my husband is a coach with a masters in exercise physiology. If I were you I’d just eat your maintenance calories and focus on being active throughout and start tracking your steps. I don’t really support the extreme cutting foods out of your diet thing as it’s more likely to push you into binging and feeling restricted. It’s mostly about being mindful, conscious, and intentional. Anyways, sorry your wife said that to you, but human bodies evolved to adapt and change and not look 1 way forever.
lmao when my kid was born he was basically the spitting image of my wife's father. Once he got past the newborn phase, he looks so much like I did as a kid. Kids change, especially at that age. Hell, even during his first year he'd go from looking just like me, to just like my wife within weeks. He's seemed to have settled now on a middle ground of looking like both of us.
She’s shown you who she is and how she feels. The only thing to do now is believe her, and behave accordingly. For some people that means low or no contact. For some it’s naked boundaries. And for others it’s just acceptance & “dealing with it”. But it’s up to you.
Gonna be honest
This is what you get when you choose to online with someone you have only know for a couple of months
Jane is immature
You are immature for moving way to fast and for not ending your previous relationship completely before hopping into another one
This is doomed to fail and I think you know that
Honestly she could be just researching those kinds of porn to see how she reacts to it, and if she likes it or not.
And if she is into it, and interested in trying it, she might be a little scared to bring it up, as not everyone is into that kind of stuff.
Just talk to her, let her know that you seen it in her search history, and wanted to see if she was interested in talking about trying it, and learning how to do it safely together.
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My relationship is still pretty new. We've been together for over a year now. She moved into my place after about 8 months. Before she moved in I had just got out of a 3 year relationship. The time between the relationships is about a year. In that year I had finally become content with being by myself. I was happy, played video games with my brothers and worked out frequently. I met her because we worked together and I thought she was cute so I talked to her. She's not the first girl I've lived with but I'm her first everything, she's never had a bf or anything. I think that's why she's SOOOO attached to me. I can't play video games, I've had to stop going to the gym and if I do any of those things she get really emotional and starts crying saying she just misses me. At first I thought it was sweet. I figured letting her move in would help because maybe she would get tired of me. It's had the opposite effect. She's super sensitive to everything that if I even take a stern tone she cries. I can't take it any longer. I'm tired of walking on egg shells and I miss my old lonely life. The nude part is I don't know if I'll find all her good qualities in someone else. She cleans and cooks constantly. She's also in college to be a nurse. She's loving and caring and would make a great mother. She's what I prayed for in a woman to build a life with I just need space. She gets too emotional when I ask for it tho.
Sorry for the poor grammar was never the best at punctionation.
No, just do not get on this hurricane
but man look what this woman did to you, theres nothing that resembles a family when you stay with her, ''Proverbs 19:14, NLT: Fathers can give their sons an inheritance of houses and wealth, but only the LORD can give an understanding wife.'' this is not the wife god have reserved for you man, you need to get out her ASAP.
“Hey (landlord) I noticed the older gentleman across the street staring at the house at inappropriate times of the night, including hours after midnight. He's creeping me out and I don't feel safe knowing he's watching me at all hours. Since you have his contact information, can you ask him to not stare at the house like that?”
He won’t stand up to his boys for you.
I was 20 when I met the 22 year old love of my life, and he couldn’t even defend me in front of his own mother, so now I’m 33 and divorcing.
You’ll still think of this 13 years from now, and it will still cause a twinge of distrust. I can almost promise you that for certain.
I really hope you didn't tell him about the abusive relationship you were in
“…it’s not something we need in an otherwise good marriage.”
No. This is not “otherwise good”. This is maybe a great roommate situation. Maybe you’re great at coparenting (though I’d disagree, more on that later). But having one partner heartbroken, with emotional and physical needs unmet, while the other is just trying to figure out how to have it entirely her way, is not a “good marriage”.
Next up… the kids are already paying the price. You don’t think they notice your distance? You don’t think your emotional detachment already impacts them? You don’t think that what they are seeing now may impede their ability to build an actually good marriage later? I guarantee you, children would rather come from a broken home than online in one – and if you’re great coparents, you will both show up for your kids in a more positive way if you’re both happy. Obviously you’ve chosen your religion over all else when it comes to functionality, but you don’t have to force that to be your children’s future.
Lastly… go to therapy. This is far beyond “sex isn’t my thing”. Maybe it isn’t, but that’s not even the biggest problem here. Your emotional detachment is. You’re living a half life and instead of living fully you’re asking your husband to be happy with half too. He deserves better… but so do you.
Dude I’m asexual.
Thankyou for your response, I wish it was that simple but my daughter adores her mum. I also work full time and wouldn’t be able to afford childcare. She’s had the police called in her several times in a drunk state and always manages to play it off so well that nothing ever gets filled. I don’t feel like I can give my kids the life they deserve.
That's great that your daughter adores her mother. She will enjoy seeing her at her supervised visitations.
Or are you saying that you would rather leave your daughter with her alcoholic and drug addicted mother who has become physically abusive?
amen
I think he'd just like to be friends with you. Actions over words.
The serial killer John Wayne Gacy did stuff like this to young men. Starts out like this and then escalates…
Oh, this is a good comment.
Counseling only works if the party or both parties are willing to see it through for the better or reach an understanding or both want to have the same outcome of the relationship.
Hell, you're also banking on having a good, sane, competent therapist. Those aren't easy to find nowadays.
I tried to see a doc after my mom died. She kept forgetting that my mom had died. She also mocked her other patients to me, got mad that I thought her local friend was creepy, and freaked out about dumping me as a patient because I questioned once if I was autistic. (Fun part is, I'm not. Just weird. And related to someone who is.)
Tried to see another doc for PTSD a while before her. Said doc apparently has DID as her pet issue, and tried to convince me I had it. I don't have any symptoms of that. She went through a questionnaire, which confirmed that no, really, I don't have any symptoms of that. She then tried to proceed as if I just had it anyways.
I don't even want to know what an incompetent couples' counselor looks like.
And the amount of damage they could do here.
You’re both playing silly games. It’s over man.
Luckily she's channeling all her demonic energy on her husband alone so that's all well and good.
Does he not have a credit card or saving for emergencies??? Idk how people go through life like that. Definitely be direct. “Hey so remember that cash I gave you for your repairs? When can you pay me back?”
Listen to your gut. I’d cancel the wedding personally
She’s over reacting.
My husband and I did long distance while he was in the Army and the only boundary I imposed was to tell him I prefer monogamy, so if he couldn’t do that then please be respectful enough to communicate to me that monogamy wasn’t possible at the time. Beyond that- it was up to him to decide. If I found out he had cheated I would simply make the choice to leave as my boundary had been violated. I wouldn’t tell him “you can never speak to a woman other than me or I’ll leave.” That’s not a healthy boundary. We actually did agree to stop our exclusive relationship for a while because we both felt iffy about long distance. It worked out in the end and when he got out of the Army, we picked back up where we left off which was possible because there was always respectful communication about our relationship & no one ever got hurt.
Boundaries are meant to prevent people from doing things to you directly. What she’s doing is attempting to control your actions to prevent the possibility of cheating completely. Not healthy.
Side note- anyone who breaks up with their s/o as a form of punishment is toxic. She must have gotten back together with you if you call her your gf still, so just consider this: do you want a girl who doesn’t trust you? doesn’t respect your autonomy & freedom to make choices? weaponizes your relationship by breaking up / making up whenever you “mess up” rather than engage in a conversation and communicating like an adult?
Women can be abusers too and this is a pretty stereotypical behavior pattern of an abuser. Isolating you from people you care about, controlling who you can speak to, gaslighting you into thinking YOU are the one who’s always wrong and damaging the relationship, she’s making you question your own perception of reality. And she’s got you stuck in an on again, off again roller coaster where she holds all the power. Relationships aren’t about power. They’re about respect. She needs to work on herself. This is pretty typical behavior for a young woman, but she’s taking it to the crazy side a bit much.
You’d be better off telling her that she said it herself- she can’t trust you- so you are going to end the relationship. Y’all can remain friends if you want to. you can tell her maybe down the line when distance isn’t a factor that you guys can try again. But this isn’t healthy for either of you.
Don't waste your 20s with this person. Remember that how he is now is very likely the best you'll get with him. You deserve so much better. The tactic he uses during these conversations is called DARVO, look into it. He turns the situation you bring up back around on you in order to make himself the victim so that you feel terribly and like you've done something wrong. Sounds like it worked.