Anything I say would depend on how you think he should hold him accountable? You already said that you don’t want him to cut him off so do you think he needs to tell his friend that he’s wrong?
(Shrug) you can in Missouri. Just because someone hasn’t been sentenced yet doesn’t mean the charges against them stay hidden. I worked with an old guy about 5 years ago whose house got raided for child pornography, his charges have been available to view since day 1 (and since he still hasn’t gone to trial, they’re still there to this day). I suspect this is what OP’s situation is, and she could easily look up those charges even if her boyfriend hasn’t been formally arraigned.
No you are in middle life doldrums and reminiscing about a time when your life was stimulating. If you married the wrong person it would have been obvious much sooner than now at age 48 or 20 + years into marriage. IMO to leave would be to go off chasing a rainbow
Yeah what I want out of my life is my ex and her friends reporting to each other what I post so they can talk about my emotions. Y’all needed to split so let him split. He’s trying to move on.
What are you talking about? I think OP has every right to have his boundary, just as she does. You all are ridiculous, we all have our right to our own boundaries, including me.
I don't think anyone ever wants to be somebody's “safe” option.
I sure sure wouldn't. In fact I would cut that person loose and find someone who actually values me, instead of just uses me for security.
Anything I say would depend on how you think he should hold him accountable? You already said that you don’t want him to cut him off so do you think he needs to tell his friend that he’s wrong?
(Shrug) you can in Missouri. Just because someone hasn’t been sentenced yet doesn’t mean the charges against them stay hidden. I worked with an old guy about 5 years ago whose house got raided for child pornography, his charges have been available to view since day 1 (and since he still hasn’t gone to trial, they’re still there to this day). I suspect this is what OP’s situation is, and she could easily look up those charges even if her boyfriend hasn’t been formally arraigned.
No you are in middle life doldrums and reminiscing about a time when your life was stimulating. If you married the wrong person it would have been obvious much sooner than now at age 48 or 20 + years into marriage. IMO to leave would be to go off chasing a rainbow
Yeah what I want out of my life is my ex and her friends reporting to each other what I post so they can talk about my emotions. Y’all needed to split so let him split. He’s trying to move on.
Honey these men are giant babies who never grew up and they are taking advantage of you. You deserve so much better.
What are you talking about? I think OP has every right to have his boundary, just as she does. You all are ridiculous, we all have our right to our own boundaries, including me.