Just because the child doesn't look like him, it doesn't mean he's not your boyfriend's son. I don't look like either of my parents. They were both darker than me. I look like my maternal grandmother, so his excuse is weak. You need to get a shut up test, aka DNA
Do her a favor and break up. You can't handle a kid. And she can't handle someone who isn't her partner. If you get all Snappy with her cuz she's interrupting you playing a game of chess what are you going to do when a baby's crying or when a toddler starts yanking on your leg cuz you're on the phone not giving them attention, are you going to kick him across the room? Sounds like you both need some growing up. You're not emotionally mature since you've never had a relationship before her and neither is she. But she just wants to be treated with respect which doesn't seem to be happening.
Sounds like there's something there, who knows what she was going through to engage in risky behavior. Could have been a coping mechanism even.
Just because the child doesn't look like him, it doesn't mean he's not your boyfriend's son. I don't look like either of my parents. They were both darker than me. I look like my maternal grandmother, so his excuse is weak. You need to get a shut up test, aka DNA
4 years is the difference between a freshman and a senior. I see no problem here.
Do her a favor and break up. You can't handle a kid. And she can't handle someone who isn't her partner. If you get all Snappy with her cuz she's interrupting you playing a game of chess what are you going to do when a baby's crying or when a toddler starts yanking on your leg cuz you're on the phone not giving them attention, are you going to kick him across the room? Sounds like you both need some growing up. You're not emotionally mature since you've never had a relationship before her and neither is she. But she just wants to be treated with respect which doesn't seem to be happening.
“What a rude thing to say”.