justify it all you'd like, but there's no difference, to me, between cheating on someone/lying to someone, etc, and going against their boundaries and right to privacy and looking through their phone.
why do YOU get to do the shady, lying thing? why do you justify that to yourself?
if you don't trust your partner, you have to leave them.
one quick search through the phone and you discover cheating? ok, sure. you're gone. one quick search through a phone that doesn't find anything? that isn't going to fix or address that issue. you are not going to suddenly trust them. you will still be suspicious and probably justify looking again or doing something else.
justify it all you'd like, but there's no difference, to me, between cheating on someone/lying to someone, etc, and going against their boundaries and right to privacy and looking through their phone.
why do YOU get to do the shady, lying thing? why do you justify that to yourself?
if you don't trust your partner, you have to leave them.
one quick search through the phone and you discover cheating? ok, sure. you're gone. one quick search through a phone that doesn't find anything? that isn't going to fix or address that issue. you are not going to suddenly trust them. you will still be suspicious and probably justify looking again or doing something else.
all roads lead to break up. so break up