I'd recommend taking pole dancing classes and showing him he don't need them strippers when he got the good stuff at home. It's very physically demanding and a great workout. I don't know your level of fitness, but I can say from personal experience that getting fit and dancing does wonders for your confidence. Then, take some talk therapy for those insecurities and talk to your husband about boundaries and make sure he respects yours and you respect his.
Personality disorder?
She’s fine by herself but then has difficulty being around people.
Dudes gonna go on a serious bender and probably needs it.
I'd recommend taking pole dancing classes and showing him he don't need them strippers when he got the good stuff at home. It's very physically demanding and a great workout. I don't know your level of fitness, but I can say from personal experience that getting fit and dancing does wonders for your confidence. Then, take some talk therapy for those insecurities and talk to your husband about boundaries and make sure he respects yours and you respect his.