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You are being absolutely ridiculous. What's next, blind folds when you are at the beach or poolside? Horse blinders for when he's on a sidewalk?
I think the best thing is to get out of your comfort zone a lite bit, but you should never do something that's totally the opposite of what you want. It's always good to try new things, or to meet new people if you want to get more experience with dating or just meeting people in general. But getting out of your comfort zone also has its limits. And it's up to you to know how far you want to push yourself out of your comfort zone and what your limits or boundaries are. I hope that helps ?
Let it lie you are art and they found it beautiful enough to display you in their home as-well id take it as a compliment to be honest but whatever you decide is fine aswell
Move on, that's done. Never be a person's plan b. That's disrespectful to yourself. Even if they want to be with you, you will know that they choose someone over you.
You only supposed to bathe a dog monthly that’s the only thing I see is wrong
Talk to a school counsellor the first chance you have.
Trust me, and I say this from experience… You get involved with an unhappily, married woman, and you'll be dealing with the fall out if she leaves him for you. I was the unhappily, married woman, and I did just this … For the right reasons, but in the wrong way. Luckily my current partner is not scared off by the idea of having to deal with my angry ex-husband. Still, I wouldn't recommend going down this path.
Yes it’s my apartment I pay the bills he’s not on the lease thank goodness
Then talk to him.
If he keeps avoiding things, then more serious discussions may need to happen as I can really only imagine that unease may increase over time.
He's a man who views porn as wrong, so he could possibly understand the concern, yet it's something he doesn't want to talk about much.
Is there anything else in the relationship that has been rough, or has it just been the characters?
I mean, you're right about marriages losing it before anything else, im a prime example of that. Right now we're back to being friends who have lunch together at work and all.l, so ill take what i can get.
I may start dating a bit, see if what im feeling is just her or maybe being lonely. My kids love her, so if anything i dont wanna scare her away from them.
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Neither honestly, just someone to spend my life with. No interest in kids, have nieces and nephews, which is plenty kids for me. Marriage, eh, if the other person is set on it, fine, but I don't really care.
That gif implies that you're seeing something bad.
I’m sorry you’re going through this.
With all due respect, I don’t think anyone can advise you on how to navigate this situation. Everyone has different thresholds of tolerance and acceptance.
I don’t know many people who would be willing to take back a man who admitted that he wanted to (or did) cheat because you’re no longer physically attractive to him and you don’t pleasure him enough. I’m not sure how you communicate, but we know for sure that he doesn’t know how to communicate or he simply doesn’t care enough to do so.
However, if you’re intending on working through it, then you will have to learn to forgive this (with therapy and time, of course) in its entirety if you plan on building trust again.
Yeah really, every guy knows goblin mode is only for the chips and snacks aisle.
If she was doing it in good faith, she wouldn't have hid it from you. She would have spoken to you and said something like:
“I am having a nude time finding work that won't interfere with my education. I was wondering if you would be okay with me engaging in no-nudity sex work? I feel like that would be both very lucrative and non-disruptive to my education. I know this is shocking, so please take some time to really think this over, and do not hesitate to ask whatever questions you have before you answer.”
Instead, she decided unilaterally that this was right, and that makes it wrong. She fid not consider your feelings in any way, and that is fucked up. She neither trusted you enough to have the conversation, nor respected you enough to tell you the truth. And now we have to wonder if she is telling the truth? How do we know she doesn't engage in very hot cam siting from time to time? How do we know she was planning to save up for a home? How do we know she would have just remained in virtual sex work? What she did is wrong, and would be a hot red line for me.
Just go away. And for your own part. Just forget him. Being angry only hurts you
I don’t want to break up unless I have actual solid irrefutable proof aka a bag of coke or seeing texts from a drug dealer or seeing him do it at an inappropriate/weird time
You're confusing the evidence required to convict someone with reasonable suspicion in a relationship. He has all the signs of being a coke addict and you already admit that he lies about doing it. So you're very unlikely to get the “smoking gun” evidence you are looking for.
I know it's not the end of the world if we don't talk for 1 day, or even a week if they need to, I don't mind that. But they should be able to communicate that. and it wouldn't have made a difference the way she's done this before is she goes silent for days and ignores my text / call. And the funny thing she would get even more upset if I don't reach out at all for days. and it happened EVERY single time she was upset, it stopped for almost a year and she would instead say something like ' I'm mad at you I don't feel like talking atm '.. then she's done it again. which I saw as really disrespectful.
You don’t really want to be alone do you? Well maybe you do.
I don't mind being alone.
You're absolutely welcome to disagree with me, and your point about there being other explanations is well taken.
That's why I casually said “bpd vibes.” Is listing 2-3 symptoms of BPD really promoting a stigma? It's obviously not a formal diagnosis, nor is it an accusation. I'm just taking part in the discussion.
Please fill in the blanks, OP:
________ speak louder than _________.
I wonder how many relationships have been ruined because people think they're expected (and allowed!) to cheat at these parties. “This is my last night as a bachelor(ette)!” No, your last night as a bachelor(ette) was the night before you became exclusive with your partner.
What a garbage tradition.
Sorry, OP. Don't forgive her, no matter what.
And the reason why your sister hasn’t reached out is that she knows that it wasn’t because they were out of their minds, it was because they decided to do it, they probably have been flirting with the idea for a while (if it is the first time)
Yep, came here to say this. I would venture a guess that it wasn't the first time.
Even better, tell that to the person making the comparison 🙂
She's so full of sh*t! Do you for one moment think that if this situation was reversed and you'd done to her, exactly as she's done to you, with a man, that she'd be fine with it “because it was with a man”, and that it wasn't you cheating and deceitfully trying to manipulate her into condoning it openly by way of introducing it as a 3some for her benefit? Yah right!
She definitely needs to go no contact with this woman. She's her affair partner, ffs. Whether it's only emotional or has gone physical already, who can say. She's trying to manipulate you into a 3some so she can cheat on you with your permission. Just do a search on reddit for how many of these offers of 3somes turn out to be infidelity sh*tshows.
Couples are never always happy all the time and every couple gets annoyed once in a while. It’s natural. I think you’re thinking about it too much, and maybe the annoyance on FaceTime means you need to just shorten the calls a little. Remember you’re still two people. No need to think you have to agree on everything, do everything together, and become some kind of mutated hybrid creature.
When I point out his manipulation he gets violent, that’s why I’ve to bow my head and listen to whatever he’s saying but it eats me up inside. I’m out of ideas on what to do to make him believe me but at times it feels like he really truly hates me. I’m also getting drained mentally and financially and I don’t know what to do anymore other than breakup.
There is no need for you to put up with this kind of treatment from someone who is supposed to care about you. End the relationship and enjoy all your new free time.
You broke his trust but more importantly…do you love him? It sounds like you feel tied to him but you cheated just a few months in. Take that as a sign this was not meant to be.
How can I convince him that me texting a guy shortly after we broke up doesn't mean he means any less to me?
Explain to him, then, that you weren't really breaking up with him. You were just trying to show him how desirable you were to other guys, and to make him jealous, so that he would try harder. I'm sure he'll believe that.
So what's the issue here? You bring up that you're resentful for splitting the expenses 50/50 when your ex makes more money but you know that a good chunk of his money goes to court costs and things like that. So, why are you resentful in that respect? He's not squirreling away the money or something he doesn't even really have any to spare, seems not great of you to resent him when you're the one with the ability to have spare money.
As for the car, just buy the car. If you have the money then buy it. I don't see the issue. If your partner doesn't have the money to buy the car he shouldn't buy the car. Either you buy the car or you give your partner the money for other expenses.
What would you tell your sister to do?
It sounds like she’s not interested in the relationship. Forget her and have fun!
There are so many stories out there about opening up a relationship ruining that established relationship. We don’t see as many stories about it ruining the friendship with the third party, but I’m sure they’re there. You don’t want to ruin this friendship either, so be respectful of both your long term partner and your new one.
FWIW I’ve only ever been monogamous. I suspect I’d be cool with polyamory / ethical non-monogamy and wouldn’t be jealous, but I don’t feel that I require it, polyamory seems like too much scheduling work for me (lol!), and my partner is definitely not polyamorous, so I’m cool with monogamy. So I don’t have personal experience with this situation, just with other close friendships.
I doubt he is extremely intellectual if he has a problem with someone's reading genre.
From his comments we know that he could see that she was scared and crying, but he chose not to get off of her “until she surrendered.”
That is not continually giving consent. That is panic.
Again, I did talk about it at some point that maybe a free-use thing was something that I might have been into. So what I personally found most unbearable was why he did it after I told him no. I'm just so crushed.. I was sure he was my soulmate, and he's the kindest man I've ever met at all other times. Sorry, I'm just so freaking heart-broken, scared and feeling like their must have been an explanation for why he did it.
Dude thinks he taught her a valuable lesson. He's not sorry at all.
Hope she gets away from this creep
Agreed
Cut him off.
We only heard one side of the story and, even at that, a very small portion of it regardless. You are going off very little information. I am arguing that there is definitely more to the story. I am sure OP would agree since I highly doubt he has gone this long without knowing even more details about her past relationship with that guy. You are taking everything at base level and assuming the worst of OP's wife. I am giving her the benefit of the doubt because a) she isn't here to defend herself and b) OP likely is not a moron who did not realize the timeline intersecting. Furthermore, I actually want OP to be able to move past this and salvage his relationship. Filling his head with unfounded claims about her will not serve that goal. I can promise you, accusing your wife of willingly lying about her past (when he himself even admitted he asked her about past relationships, not sexual partners) AND being a cheater, is not a conducive way of demonstrating maturity or love.
It's reddit… We aren't her therapist. They said the truth and wasn't calling her names, they were just honest and harsh and blunt. Don't post something on Reddit or the Internet expecting everyone to coddle you. That's life.
I wouldn’t go. They aren’t treating you like family anymore. I’d also ask your mom what prompted her to remove you from their home
Picking up strangers is how you end up on dateline. His values are dangerous.
I briefly met one of her friends just while dropping her off at the train station for about a minute, what I don’t get about this whole plan b thing is if you need that in your life why not just dump me. I think she only has platonic feelings for this guy. We came to the agreement that she can go see this group of friends but if this guy crosses any platonic boundaries she must tell me and cut him off. All I can do is trust her really and I do.
Oh no, he brings so much to your life, whatever will you do without him.
Nothing wrong with not wanting to get married. But if it’s not for you, move on.
They're extremely controlling. They're not entitled to dictate how you spend money you are legally entitled. They have no right to your SO's bank statements, him doing that is a mere courtesy, and it sounds like they're just salty they didn't get the money.
Wanting your partner to have healthy oral hygiene is not shallow. Your mouth goes on his mouth. Your tongue very likely goes into his mouth… his mouth is on your body if the sex life is as good as you claim. It's your business, and it's not shallow. That said, you either put up with it, break up, or literally be very honest with him and have it be awkward but also possibly fix the issue.
I think it is time for a better BF! Partners discuss and come to an agreement, not interrogate and berate.
Yes you should be worried. Do not give her access to your finances in any way. Don’t buy a house with her. Don’t co-sign any loans.
People who can do coke once or twice without problems exist. But they are rare. I had a friend who thought he was one. He was also smart, had a great job with a mid-6-figure income, and from a good family. He lost his wife, his kids, his dog, his house, his job, his extended family, and for the last couple of years has been a member of a cult, because they give him a place to stay and something to eat.
It’s no joke. And casual use is only casual until it’s not.