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this sounds like it may be a surprise to you but a relationship isn’t solely about having your needs met. she doesn’t talk to you all day, then tries to engage you in a conversation about something that interests her at night and you can’t be bothered because you’re tired. so you want to ignore her all day and also have surface level convos during the one time a day you talk. sounds… not good. if you love someone you compromise and make sure their needs are met too.
it’s not going to be better with someone else because you’re doing less than the absolute bare minimum. relationships don’t exist just to fulfill your needs when you can be bothered.
your SO probably has some (childhood) trauma/ topic that was triggered there… they should dig into their own feelings and find out what triggered this objevtively unjustified level of anger
Your dad is write,best not to leave him the company at all at this point, from the sounds of it, it seems your side of the family is very wealthy and that is why they are trying to keep some semblance of a relationship. If your brother is expecting the company from his step father, he will have to keep up some sort of relationship to make sure he gets it. Maybe get your dad to announce that he has changed his mind and he is leaving the company to you and your sister and see how your brother reacts, that would be telling
Well, we sort of knew we both were extremely different people when we got together. We both like travelling and food… but that was it. However, during the initial period of us getting to know each other, we did get into each other's interests.
If I am being dead honest, the fear of ending up alone and looking at how convoluted the dating world is – it's naked to leave a relationship where the other person cares about you and is willing to show up whenever you need them to.
The funny thing is, a lot of my lady friends keep telling me I will have 'a lot of dates' and women will just 'happen', but a big part of me never really trusts that advice.
Now, coming to that story bit! I am so sorry! I know the paragraphs got mixed up because I wrote all of this in a hurry on my notepad and then it made its way to Reddit. Anyway, here's a glimpse of my story with this person:
– In June (2021), we meet as complete strangers during our own travel journeys. We connect over phone.
– We spend the next six months in our own cities, texting/talking almost everyday.
– Around January (2022), we confess to each other that we have feelings and decide to meet in February. This is when the honeymoon period flies high.
– We meet, have crazy chemistry and decide to see each other every other week even though it is quite expensive.
– As these months pass, the feelings fade away, and my longing to see her starts going down. We decide to do the next crazy thing:
– During August or so, we move in together. We knew the long-distance was certainly a problem so she decides to come on-line with me for a while. That's when I realise that even proximity isn't solving my doubts, insecurities, etc.
– We part ways in September, and after weeks/months of not talking properly, we have a conversation about the possibility of couple's counselling. That's how we end up here.
Hope this timeline makes more sense now? I genuinely laughed so naked at the acid/drugs part you mentioned x”D
Video game addiction. Is addiction. They rarely get past it. They become defensive if you mention it. I feel so bad for this generation of (generally young women) who have to suffer with this nonsense. Ask yourself if this is how you want to spend your twenties. And thirties. Find a non-addict to date. I myself spent much of my twenties dancing at clubs. It was awesome.
Tell him. Let him know that your son is happy and in the grand scheme of things that's all that should matter. I've always been the type that wants my loved ones to be happy above all else. When they're happy everything just seems better. There's no worry about them. There's just a smile on your face because there's a smile on their face.
Oh, the classic “we hadn't defined the relationship” excuse, huh? ? Listen, buddy, I'm no Dr. Love, but maybe it's time to ask yourself if your “GF” is truly worth all this drama. I mean, c'mon, a secret rendezvous at a concert you both attended? Pure Shakespearean stuff! But hey, you do you, and if you're up for a lifetime of surprise encounters and “innocent” dating app shenanigans, then who am I to judge?
this sounds like it may be a surprise to you but a relationship isn’t solely about having your needs met. she doesn’t talk to you all day, then tries to engage you in a conversation about something that interests her at night and you can’t be bothered because you’re tired. so you want to ignore her all day and also have surface level convos during the one time a day you talk. sounds… not good. if you love someone you compromise and make sure their needs are met too.
it’s not going to be better with someone else because you’re doing less than the absolute bare minimum. relationships don’t exist just to fulfill your needs when you can be bothered.
your SO probably has some (childhood) trauma/ topic that was triggered there… they should dig into their own feelings and find out what triggered this objevtively unjustified level of anger
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Op, you have strong codependent habits. Look it up, also see r/codependency
That sounds more like a drug dealer than a secret lover unless your husband gives off a ton of gay signals where that’s an actual possibility.
Your dad is write,best not to leave him the company at all at this point, from the sounds of it, it seems your side of the family is very wealthy and that is why they are trying to keep some semblance of a relationship. If your brother is expecting the company from his step father, he will have to keep up some sort of relationship to make sure he gets it. Maybe get your dad to announce that he has changed his mind and he is leaving the company to you and your sister and see how your brother reacts, that would be telling
Well, we sort of knew we both were extremely different people when we got together. We both like travelling and food… but that was it. However, during the initial period of us getting to know each other, we did get into each other's interests.
If I am being dead honest, the fear of ending up alone and looking at how convoluted the dating world is – it's naked to leave a relationship where the other person cares about you and is willing to show up whenever you need them to.
The funny thing is, a lot of my lady friends keep telling me I will have 'a lot of dates' and women will just 'happen', but a big part of me never really trusts that advice.
Now, coming to that story bit! I am so sorry! I know the paragraphs got mixed up because I wrote all of this in a hurry on my notepad and then it made its way to Reddit. Anyway, here's a glimpse of my story with this person:
– In June (2021), we meet as complete strangers during our own travel journeys. We connect over phone.
– We spend the next six months in our own cities, texting/talking almost everyday.
– Around January (2022), we confess to each other that we have feelings and decide to meet in February. This is when the honeymoon period flies high.
– We meet, have crazy chemistry and decide to see each other every other week even though it is quite expensive.
– As these months pass, the feelings fade away, and my longing to see her starts going down. We decide to do the next crazy thing:
– During August or so, we move in together. We knew the long-distance was certainly a problem so she decides to come on-line with me for a while. That's when I realise that even proximity isn't solving my doubts, insecurities, etc.
– We part ways in September, and after weeks/months of not talking properly, we have a conversation about the possibility of couple's counselling. That's how we end up here.
Hope this timeline makes more sense now? I genuinely laughed so naked at the acid/drugs part you mentioned x”D
Text or email her. Then you might get proof in her reply…
Video game addiction. Is addiction. They rarely get past it. They become defensive if you mention it. I feel so bad for this generation of (generally young women) who have to suffer with this nonsense. Ask yourself if this is how you want to spend your twenties. And thirties. Find a non-addict to date. I myself spent much of my twenties dancing at clubs. It was awesome.
Your age gap is too big for you to ever be anything more than just sex. You’re not old enough to bring anything else to the table.
Tell him. Let him know that your son is happy and in the grand scheme of things that's all that should matter. I've always been the type that wants my loved ones to be happy above all else. When they're happy everything just seems better. There's no worry about them. There's just a smile on your face because there's a smile on their face.
How would you feel if tables were turned?
Why keep posting this?
Oh, the classic “we hadn't defined the relationship” excuse, huh? ? Listen, buddy, I'm no Dr. Love, but maybe it's time to ask yourself if your “GF” is truly worth all this drama. I mean, c'mon, a secret rendezvous at a concert you both attended? Pure Shakespearean stuff! But hey, you do you, and if you're up for a lifetime of surprise encounters and “innocent” dating app shenanigans, then who am I to judge?