– If he's single, he's going to go for her even while you are there.
– If she starts constantly staying on her phone or going out with the guy best friend then you know its over.
– The relationship is one-sided. So you don't feel comfortable hanging out with other girls (even when it's platonic) because of her but she could be hanging out with him not caring about your feelings.
To be honest OP, you really only have two options. Either you can end it now and avoid the hassle of possibly being cheated on or losing your girlfriend. Or, you can keep going and see what happens, for all you know, she might respect your feelings and not hang out with him without you. But, this leaves you at the risk of watching her slowly lose interest in you; and being honest, that feeling really really sucks.
I’ve been pretty regular on checking his browser history, deleted history, emails, incognito, etc. I just didn’t know he had the Reddit app on his phone.
I mean, I'm bi, if my partner had an issue with me seeing friends I could hypothetically find attractive, they would freak out every time I see *anyone*.
So yes, I am not comfortable with that sort of mentality. Either your trust your partner, or you don't date them. You can't stop someone from cheating if they want to by trying to control their social life anyway, there will always be opportunities for them to be unfaithful.
There are a lot of blatant red flags here.
– Hid that her best friend is a dude.
– They went on dates.
– If he's single, he's going to go for her even while you are there.
– If she starts constantly staying on her phone or going out with the guy best friend then you know its over.
– The relationship is one-sided. So you don't feel comfortable hanging out with other girls (even when it's platonic) because of her but she could be hanging out with him not caring about your feelings.
To be honest OP, you really only have two options. Either you can end it now and avoid the hassle of possibly being cheated on or losing your girlfriend. Or, you can keep going and see what happens, for all you know, she might respect your feelings and not hang out with him without you. But, this leaves you at the risk of watching her slowly lose interest in you; and being honest, that feeling really really sucks.
Be yourself
But he doesn’t have to know everything about you immediately
Pro tip
I’ve been pretty regular on checking his browser history, deleted history, emails, incognito, etc. I just didn’t know he had the Reddit app on his phone.
I mean, I'm bi, if my partner had an issue with me seeing friends I could hypothetically find attractive, they would freak out every time I see *anyone*.
So yes, I am not comfortable with that sort of mentality. Either your trust your partner, or you don't date them. You can't stop someone from cheating if they want to by trying to control their social life anyway, there will always be opportunities for them to be unfaithful.