I understand. And that is true. Can’t remember many times he reacted the way he did like with this incident. This was probably the first time something like this happened. I have issues with distorted thinking and I will sit there and obsess “Omg he’s abusive he’s abusive” over and over again and it takes away from me confronting my abuse.
Jessica is an ass and your hubby sounds v reasonable and lovely to you. I picked mine and he was an abusive, terrible man. As I get older I realise theres no one way to do these things and if you and hubby are happy then who gaf what other people think. Do NOT apologise to Jessica. I actually like the high five in the face idea but that's just me.
I understand. And that is true. Can’t remember many times he reacted the way he did like with this incident. This was probably the first time something like this happened. I have issues with distorted thinking and I will sit there and obsess “Omg he’s abusive he’s abusive” over and over again and it takes away from me confronting my abuse.
Jessica is an ass and your hubby sounds v reasonable and lovely to you. I picked mine and he was an abusive, terrible man. As I get older I realise theres no one way to do these things and if you and hubby are happy then who gaf what other people think. Do NOT apologise to Jessica. I actually like the high five in the face idea but that's just me.