You're not ridiculous. Not at all. Things that may seem “obvious” to people on the outside are never as clear-cut when you're the person in the situation. But if y'all already have a child, that definitely needs to be considered. Sounds like he's dressing abuse up as trying to be “kinky” but it's still abuse. And if he'll abuse you, what's to stop him from potentially hurting y'all's child.
I wish you all the best. Please be careful. And like I said, you're definitely but ridiculous. Don't beat yourself up. You're going through enough without having your mind tell you you're being crazy when you're not, this is serious, and honestly I think you're under-reacting. Take care ❤️
You're not ridiculous. Not at all. Things that may seem “obvious” to people on the outside are never as clear-cut when you're the person in the situation. But if y'all already have a child, that definitely needs to be considered. Sounds like he's dressing abuse up as trying to be “kinky” but it's still abuse. And if he'll abuse you, what's to stop him from potentially hurting y'all's child.
I wish you all the best. Please be careful. And like I said, you're definitely but ridiculous. Don't beat yourself up. You're going through enough without having your mind tell you you're being crazy when you're not, this is serious, and honestly I think you're under-reacting. Take care ❤️