A relationship is not always 50/50, both people in a relationship should be giving their 100%, from what it looks like to me you’re sort of his mother in your house, he gets back from work and does nothing besides game. You cook for him, you wash his clothes and maintain the house. You’re legitimately in the position of a mother of a prepubescent kid.
Not to mention the complete disregard for your emotional/physical needs, which should never go unmet in a healthy relationship between two adults.
He is either depressed or he started viewing you as a sort of mother. You state this has been happening for the past month, thinking back at when it first started, does anything of relevance come to mind? Big events, or even small and apparently irrelevant ones, for example? Both good and bad. It is strange for someone to completely change their routine in such a drastic way, and i can’t help but think that there was a catalyst, of sorts, that pushed him into this new unhealthy routine. Not pointing fingers, I’m saying to consider everything, his work, his family, his friend circle, your relationship, various aspects of his life.
If you, after some consideration, believe that he just stopped caring and started seeing you as a mother, then it is your decision to make about what the best course of action might be for the two of you
What are you getting from this relationship?
A relationship is not always 50/50, both people in a relationship should be giving their 100%, from what it looks like to me you’re sort of his mother in your house, he gets back from work and does nothing besides game. You cook for him, you wash his clothes and maintain the house. You’re legitimately in the position of a mother of a prepubescent kid.
Not to mention the complete disregard for your emotional/physical needs, which should never go unmet in a healthy relationship between two adults.
He is either depressed or he started viewing you as a sort of mother. You state this has been happening for the past month, thinking back at when it first started, does anything of relevance come to mind? Big events, or even small and apparently irrelevant ones, for example? Both good and bad. It is strange for someone to completely change their routine in such a drastic way, and i can’t help but think that there was a catalyst, of sorts, that pushed him into this new unhealthy routine. Not pointing fingers, I’m saying to consider everything, his work, his family, his friend circle, your relationship, various aspects of his life.
If you, after some consideration, believe that he just stopped caring and started seeing you as a mother, then it is your decision to make about what the best course of action might be for the two of you
I wish you luck