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Your wife is the best!
OP had better be in the tiniest-ass of tiny towns, or else nothing in this story makes any sense.
This isn't true and of course it's being upvoted
What?
Those comments would give me the ick so badly that I could never let this guy touch my nipples again. On another note, six weeks is very soon to be spending all your time together. It's better in the long run to take it slowly, so you're not as invested by the time they show you something ugly.
Your grown adult son still being supported is a sad excuse in the first place. Anything you fail is a responsibility of your own and he should own up to it.
You shouldn't even support him in the first place, nevermind a child that's not even within your own bloodline. Their decision to have an open marriage, your decision to support him. Know what's right for yourself
My friend, if your boyfriend is willing to set your future on fire to keep him warm, he’s not your person. Your future is far more important than his ego.
My friend, if your boyfriend is willing to set your future on fire to keep him warm, he’s not your person. Your future is far more important than his ego.
Ya honestly dissapointed they weren't reaching out to tell him she was pregnant!
I'd have walked. My phone is my personal business.
Yes much differently
Why do you want things to work out with a manipulative person who is secretly planning to move out and put you in a difficult situation?
Nothing about these interactions make me think the girl is interested in you. It reminds me a lot of a situation I was in, where a classmate was clearly crushing on me, I had no interest in him but kept things friendly cause we were in the same class. When he “confessed” his feelings, he listed off scenarios that were totally innocent from my point of view (like texting about group projects) and he twisted them into flirtatious moments. They were not.
Also, we both follow the same religion, I’ve just recently decided that I want to be more committed
This is simultaneously one of the best and worst comments I’ve read on Reddit.
I have been gradually reducing the number of full meals I cook and letting them take over to help them prepare for life. All of them had at least one meal they could do well by about 15. I was cooking family dinners at 16, several times a week.
You're an adult. Your mom has done her time. You're enjoying the financial benefits of living at home still, but that doesn't mean she has to coddle you.
Personally I'd have advised her to actively teach you how to care for yourself. However, even if she didn't, you can learn. The internet is at your fingertips– you can find tutorials for just about anything, including cooking.
I know like is the area they on-line in super expensive? Because 12k a month is a lot of money. I’m a SAHM and we get by good on a little over 2k a month. And once I start working again it’ll be even more.
Even with the prospect of her being a SAHP they would have plenty of time to put back savings.
So… You're quite happy to punish a child for the actions of its father? Cool, cool. Big up to you, you're really showing that toddler you're just as childish as him.
I thought this too immediately, felt my stomach sink reading the “get on board” line. Men don't OWN women, that notion needs to be completely erased from society. I don't think women should be forced into having kids, but I know that in itself is a controversial topic, which shouldn't be. Flipped on a man he'd say “no way in hell”, but anyways, I hope a somewhat peaceful resolution happens between OP and her husband but, big oof, that would be a very hot situation to deal with. 🙁
I’m not married but my parents are and they find love all over the place outside of their own marriage. Love is a lovely action we all engage with on the daily.
If “love” ever tried to break the promise they vowed to each other then that’s not love … that’s something else in disguise.
i feel like im losing him and i dont want to lose the opportunity of having a relationship with someone like him?
“I have recently felt like you are drifting away from me and spending less time with me. I feel like I'm losing you and I don't want to lose the opportunity of having a relationship with someone as great as you.”
Good luck ?
Hence why truly clean people moisturize w lotion after their shower. Showering everyday means your ass is never unwashed. Negative ghost rider ; shower every day or it’s gross
I'd clean him out good financially and come home with some luxury stuff. Let them regret ever saying something so petty again.
Um, no. You're only doing it bc you're pissed she won't leave him. If she's really gone that much, I wouldn't be surprised if he already knows something is going on. This girl's bf possibly being left in the dark somehow annoys me less than you being a petty asshole. You're only doing it for revenge. Just, nah.
No.
Loyalty is the most attractive and important quality in a woman
I know your feeling and I think I would feel the exact way in your shoes but it seems like it was harmless to me and the fact that she was honest about it with you and their past seems good.
Looking as an outsides seems like you don't have anything to worry about.
that's a nice idea actually if they can efforted it
Exactly my situation too! Thankfuly I look exactly like my grandfather so I don't have much doubt. I could have done without my father's side genetic predisposition for arthritis though.
Wait, you got raped last night and this is your biggest priblem??
You already know the answer, face the truth, break up and move on, it's not that difficult.
Oh boy, this is a very hot pill to swallow. How does lasting change happen? Can I help him somehow?
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Dump the bigot. His views are killing his kindness. He is espousing some pretty hateful views and it’s clear he consumes a far right conservative content. He is going to get much worse once he is living in the US and it will be miserable to stay with him.
You're 24, you don't need an older brother at work. Back off. And everyone, stop hanging out with married people if their partners aren't ok with it. End of story.
Fuck that, tell them you refuse to mutilate yourself
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It's one of those cases where one parent has to make a judgment call, based on their best guess on how the other parent would likely see it.
I have to say that your reaction to it – although entirely within your rights – is a surprising one. I expect it's quite uncommon. Your wife acted reasonably, but guessed wrong.
Luckily, it really isn't a big deal.
Wtf is that first sentence of your comment
Partnerships and relationships are supposed to be about making your life better and improving your chances of meeting your life-goals.
Is he doing that? Sounds like not.
You're making the right choice.
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Okay that is fine for her to think it's a SO holiday. Just because I don't and i want to spend it with a really great group of guys doesn't make me a shitty human.
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Exactly! It’s not friendly if you had to lie to get there..
Idk why you’re being downvoted for this, if she has literally a hundred reasons to change and do something different to accommodate your (yes weird) nose then I don’t see why she doesn’t? It’s so easy to switch heat protection and tools especially since the person with the issue is willing to pay for it. Like you have the issue and want to fix it and she’s being childish. I’d say sit her down and force her to talk about it and decide if it’s worth breaking up over ya know?
Have you ever considered that most people don’t just go around forcing their farts out? If I have to fart, I’m not going into the other fucking room. It’s a normal bodily function and holding them in can make you bloated.
Of course he does. She’s bringing up her problems with the relationship. If he has problems, he should bring them up too. If paying the bills alone is a problem, he should tell her instead of ranting to us
Always trust your gut with situations and people. You did the right thing.
Be courteous, say hello, but don’t engage in a conversation.
Like, acknowledge her presence, show that your polite but that’s it.
Be courteous, say hello, but don’t engage in a conversation.
Like, acknowledge her presence, show that your polite but that’s it.
“Not your therapist?” Is she serious? In normal relationships, partners are there for each other. This is just human empathy. It would be different if you were taking up hours a day with whining, but that doesn’t sound like the case.
Your partner has essentially told you she is not interested in supporting you emotionally because she is not being paid to do so. What does that say about her? Why should you have to put up with her angry lashing out, while at the same time not being allowed to voice your emotions at all?
I’m in my mid 30s and would rather sit on a box of carpet tacks than date someone under 30. The life difference is way too much and likely women in that age bracket are looking for a commitment.
. But how, and should I, trust him again?
For now, you simply can't. In your shoes, I'd get some individual counseling too to have someone neutral to talk about the relationship as a whole, as well as your bf's lies and money issues.
The therapist fell asleep in one session and this upset him, so he did not return. He was delving into a lot in therapy and I could tell it was a lot for him. I obviously don't know the details. His therapist was not very apologetic about falling asleep.
Furthermore, this sounds like a very weird excuse….were you present at the session, or was it what your bf has told you?
Would you like to know if he had done the same?
Break up lol do not believe “he is like a brother”
It's okay to feel disappointed and hurt about a relationship ending, even if you aren't madly in love with someone. That's normal. It happens even with friends. It sounds like you know that you're not a long-term fit for each other, and it's a bummer that you aren't going to be friends after but you still need to do what's right. You still had a nice time with her and you're moving on to the next stage in your life. It's a bummer, but it would be far worse to stay with someone you don't really want to be with.
I don't understand why you are pushing her towards someone she already decided she doesn't want to pursue.
You should really learn to understand that people developing feelings towards someone else is normal. Just because you didn't find someone yet for whom you became infatuated doesn't make it any less normal. And your wife decided against pursuing those feelings. She decided for your marriage but you are stomping all over it.
Good luck ruining your marriage on bad reddit advice.
If he even bothered to look up flowers, he’d see that most come with a vase. But he didn’t even take the two minutes to look at a florist website. I have at least a dozen vases and they all came from having a partner that buys me flowers occasionally.
thanks man i really appreciate you a lot. i will keep doing what i’m doing and try to give her some space and breathing room like i have been doing, and not try to overly plan outings and things to do. We aren’t officially dating but that’s my goal and i think it’s going fine overall. I am a good person if i say myself and if this doesn’t work out then it’s her loss i guess
you should really add to your post that you raped her after she withdrew her consent, because your post is making it seem like that wasn’t the case
I don't. I know I fucked up and I am to blame. I deserve every feeling I feel rn and his whole anger when he finds out. I'm no victim, I deserve no sympathy
Tell him to use the money on penis enlargement ?♀️
I don’t think it’s too much to ask for, especially from a safety standpoint. Honestly she probably just forgets and just wants to go home to sleep.
Honestly, unless he has commented on a specific thing he wants, adults really don't need much. Why not cook a nice dinner with a new recipe? Plan a date night instead? Buy him something he needs like clothes. Does he have any quirky hobbies or interests?
It was a card game.
I agree whole heartedly, the whole situation is just very strange
She brings nothing to the table. Send her back home to her family.
I’ll be honest – if you have deep seated insecurities and you’re dating a pro athlete in the public eye this might not be a relationship for you. I am sure you are well aware with the reputation for WAG life since you’re in it – message boards and eventually cheating rumors are likely going to be in your life – it’s a tough spot even if he is faithful.
If he is 32 does that mean he will be retiring soon? Are you prepped for this for the long run?
It is a pretty interesting tattoo itself, the symbol is incorporated into a bigger piece.
Just to add, with the furniture against the door comment, you would definitely know someone was trying to get in your room regardless!!
Yes, along these lines.
Make some quality alone time for just the two of you. Hold hands or show her physical affection without being overtly sexual. See if she warms up to you.
Of course a direct conversation about each others needs and wants is the simplest way to understanding, there will always need some behavior changes to make it work.
He’s been awful to you all along and he cannot accept anyone calling out his shitty behavior. Absolutely DO NOT reach out to the ex and say the things he wants you to say. Her feelings are 100% valid—do not tell her she’s wrong because she’s not. He’s traumatized both of you and now he wants to use YOU to hurt her even more—that’s absolutely disgusting. You should definitely be running away from this guy for good. He’s toxic, blame shifting, and has a pattern of treating women like garbage and making them feel bad about themselves. You see how fucked up he is, yes?
I am very, very sorry that your mom is not your ally.
I am very, very sorry that your mom is not your ally.
Yes, he’s a guy. It’s in the title, and he also refers to himself as a “big brother” in the post.
If you want to dip your toes into renting vs diving in, then rent out a room (as in, get a roommate) instead of renting out the whole house. And do it with a short-term and/or month-to-month to start.
Then, if either the test run or the roommate/rental idea don’t work out as planned, you’re not long-term locked into either. And if they do work out, then you can assess from there – from a place of better info and experience – how you want to proceed.
No. I’m literally asking a question. Okay??
This is a really good point. If you are constantly only touching me to get sex, eventually I start to resent sex and avoid being touched by a partner. I know from friends i'm not the only one.
Sometimes I just want a hug or massage or hand on my waist/ leg/ arm to just be for comfort and not “Penis needs attention”.
I really appreciate the advice.
14 is too old to be seeing your junk. Just make a rule, that if you wouldn't wear it outside you don't wear it inside. Shorts with underwear is fine (for all), as are tank tops. Women wear either tank tops, sports bras or t-shirts. Men wear either tank tops or t-shirts.
Definitely don’t walk around in just boxers with a teen girl in the house. Shorts at a minimum!
As far as the rest goes. Need a shirt? Must wear trousers? No fuck that! Especially if she’s expecting you to be ok with her not following the same guidelines. Never allow double standards, if it’s modesty for one, it’s modesty for all.
im just saying its weird to suggest a young person being in a relationship with someone their age like, means they shouldve anticipated being mistreated. teenage boys are even more immature and often shitty but i dont go around telling every teenage girl who has a shitty partner that she shouldve expected that for dating a teenager
Your BF is a dick. And why are you with an 18 year old??? Gross!
That does not seem controlling to me.
I do think with regard to your intrusive SIL, it might also be appropriate to privately ask her the same thing! To lay off asking about your SO's ex so everybody can focus on the present company.
all relationship has its psychological games. this one is yours. he pokes you, you react, he plays victim, you apologize. back to start.
if you cannot see a councelor, you can still change the game. don't apologize, scream. don't fight, go away. refuse all contact for 24h the next time he poke you. when you fuck, stop to poke him.
it will changes the dynamic, which will change the trigger of your psy game.
Sacred? LoL Jesus C
Fly you fool
Give her some space mama she will come back. This is a lot to process. Just make sure she knows you love her and you’re waiting for her. She will come around. Good luck and lots of love your way!
I agree, her reaction is also quite natural. My comment is more about all the people talking shit about the bf because he froze.
hire male strippers. when they say “who's the lucky lady”, your wife raises her hand. Then, the strippers bring you out so you can perform your lap dance on her.
Good on you for being strong enough not to just let that kind of thing go. That is really awful of him.
My parental grandfather was like this: he would marry a woman, get her pregnant, then abuse his powers as a judge to dissolve his own marriage. Rinse and repeat nine times, accounting to my father and his 8 half siblings. An absolute sleazeball.
The size of their anger directly correlates to the size of the titties/vag combo they are hiding
Whenever she invites someone, just say “actually I'd really like to just spend time with close family” or “actually, I've only budgeted for us, but she's welcome to join if she's willing to pay for herself.”
Didn't you stop to think there was a reason you hadn't met his parents after 4yrs down the line? Leave him be to process what has happened and deal with the consequences of what you forced him to do. When and if he is ready to talk to you he will. I wouldn't be surprised if he now doesn't trust you cause you didn't respect his boundaries and also possible he could break up with you which would be justifiable imo.
Holy crap grow a backbone. Take her off of your gym membership asap. Do whatever you want. Go wherever you want. You’re an adult so start acting like one. She’s a manipulative, guilt-tripping crazy person and you’ve wasted enough of your time and effort with her as it is. Ghost her. Block her. Move on. You deserve someone better than she’ll ever be. You shouldn’t have dated her in the first place. She clearly has too much baggage (a kid) and she’s nuts.
Do you want her locked up or something. Are you 14?
I used to have a lot of bed.
Man, how I miss that California King. Sigh.
It’s a good sign if she’s talking about you to her family. At least try! Otherwise you’ll never know what would have been.
I can't believe OP is 36 and not 16.
“I'm okay with porn”
But I'm going to write a scenario where I'm not okay with porn . Because I want him to prefer me to porn.
Have you considered that your lack of declared expectations and acceptance of porn isn't a good thing? It makes you sound like a cool and understanding girlfriend but it obviously isn't working.
I guess i may be worried to say no. Sometimes he makes me wait weeks just to have sex. And he always has an excuse.
Do i love her?
My gut reaction is no.
I’ve dated other people who, when I see them, I feel instant sparks. Fireworks. I don’t feel that with her. Never have.
I don’t know if those feelings are simply associated with young love that I’ll never feel again, or love In general and she’s just not the one.
But I know if someone asked me to say something I’m proud of her for, I couldn’t say anything. That thought is what settled it for me.
Oh love, it exists and it’s wonderful. Just go slow and pay attention to what you need. Don’t be too nice and don’t be too selfish. I got clean and sober. As I sobered up, I realize that I wanted something more substantial. So I didn’t date for a year and then when I started dating, I did it the old fashion way or we went for coffee or we talked for a little while, and got to know each other before we ever did anything. I move slowly I married him and then had a baby with him at 41. And he died when my baby was six years old. And I have somebody I love now who is better than anything I’ve ever imagined, but it’s different. It’s like he’s stoic it’s got a sense of humor but it’s sort of old fashion and he’s kind of like a Dr. Spock kind of guy. Except he’s not at all he’s a I’ll be with you no matter what I’ll come to you when you’re sick there’s real love just keeps going.
You do not owe him sex. This is rape. Marital rape is illegal in all 50 states.
You’re a human being. Not a flesh light. You deserve someone who loves and respects you and listens when you say no.
Your husband is not a good man. He is an absolute monster. Someone who loves you would never do this to you.
thank you. I feel like my sister will have to be the same way. she won’t leave until she gets left. and she’s been like that in every relationship she’s been in unfortunately.
It's next to impossible to convict someone of rape, and most cases never go to trial. You'd have to be incredibly naive to think that being acquitted means you're innocent.
He’s shown you over 8 years he isn’t interested and doesn’t care that you want it. Time to ask yourself which is more important, him or the wedding plus everything else he’s going to drag out till he gets his way….
So I should sell the boat? Lol.
He's making a divorce list girl. That “stockpile of things he holds over your head” is a list of reasons he's going to claim when he divorces you. And if you can't prove cheating, then he can't be held accountable for it in your state.
Hire a PI. Get your proof. Divorce him.
Get a watering pail that you can fill from the bathroom and pick up takeaway for yourself on your way home.
Then just let him fend for himself. If he doesn’t cook, he doesn’t eat a home cooked meal. Therefore without dishes, he doesn’t get to cook.
I’m not quite dealing with this, but there isn’t a clean plate in the house because my husband hasn’t done the dishes for two days.
I physically can’t do the dishes (post surgery not allowed to lift or bend much).
So we are at an impass. I’m stuck and the dishes are starting to smell.
You are UNDER reacting.
I'm 5'5 and 140, 5'6 and 180 lbs of out of shape body mass is definitely not a good weight. That's fat.
It’s very possible to be in love but not be compatible. All I’ll say is that you don’t want to resent her.
Brother and girlfriend aren't on the lease, you can have the police remove them.
Brother and girlfriend aren't on the lease, you can have the police remove them.
I dont know how too use reddit, I can't see the comments people are leaving, someone please message me and tell me how too view the comments.
Thank you for your input! I think I just need to reinforce that this is the norm rather than anything abnormal, and it's been very hot to realize that because I'm just used to a college dynamic and I haven't started working full time, but I'm sure once I start I'll realize that it's the normal thing to do and it doesn't mean my relationship is deficient
Yikes man! What was her explanation?
That’s some pretty sociopathic stuff like others have said.
Why does that bother you?(I can see many reasons how someone could be)
Addressing that before you decide how to handle this will help you a lot.
You like dating people who are having sex with other people? That's fine for yourself
Nooooo. Go through the phone and delete your photos. Facebook stores everything you shared with someone in a messenger chat. I just found a photo I sent 4 years ago because I'm seeing that guy again
Some much older man who has authority/power over you is behaving inappropriately to you in your workplace. Some would call that “flirting” and some would call that “sexual harassment”, but what you call it is up to you.
I’m not sure what else you want to know.
Yeah, I sometimes still catch up with my ex via message and there’s even a multi day event every year, which both him and me with my current partner attend as part of the same group. My partner understandably doesn’t like him all too much, but he trusts me and knows there’s no future for me and my ex (we broke up years ago because he wanted to be childfree and I wanted a family eventually; now I have a child with my partner).
Don't let anyone question if you are good enough or not. Dot let a guy seed insecurity in you. You are perfect the way you are.
By the way this picture is gorgeous , i love your smile and the energy you radiate ❤️
My gf has ADHD.. this has never been an issue
You're doing well considering all this.
They want you to consider family when you are considering your family. I'm sure it's very hot, even harder for the husband to know he's never welcome (I was on that situation, even until now with my wife's family).
It'll be a really big relief to have your spouse to have your back, throughout the years. Someday they'll hopefully understand how wrong they are.
I wish you had dumped his ass right there and then.
She still knew he was married and a father of two, she has no excuse.
I disagree with this:
if a parent truly care about their child, they wouldn't meddle in their child's decision
That is dangerous. If a parent sees red flags, they certainly should give their opinion on the matter. Any person who cares about another human being doesn't sit back and allow them to make an ill informed decision.
Brown eyes being common doesn't make them less beautiful! These two are not mutually exclusive.
I don't think there's more to say but I'll give examples of other common, yet beautiful, things. I see the sunset almost every day and yet I'm always mesmerized and take pictures because it's so beautiful. Cats are one of the most common pets, they're beautiful and adorable. Colorful leaves in autumn are so plenty and last year I was on a walk where I collected leaves to dry them. I couldn't stop picking them up because all of them were so beautiful.
I hope you don't let what your boyfriend said get to you for too long. Know that your brown eyes are beautiful (I say that with brown eyes myself)
What does rarity have to do with it?
You deserve to be with someone who perceives your beauty.
Tell her that she's a bigger liability than an asset and that it's over.
Annoyingly in the last year he's been going to the gym 3-4 times a week. He infact struggles to put ON weight. He's 78kg (his heaviest ever).
Yeah I see your point, I'm already losing weight. I just dont think it's for the right reasons (for him, and not myself). It's making me resent him somewhat.
I stand corrected ?
We’re in the same time zone, just in different cities
Okay I’m gonna say something but not sure how accurate it will be to your situation. I do think it’s possible for him to have had a lot of anxiety and thought the best thing to do was to break up. And have been wrong about that.
I do think it’s possible for this to still work. But only if you guys approach this as a team. Having problems in a marriage isn’t a sign things need to end it’s part of life. But that’s only good as long as both people want to work towards it. Therapy, chore redistribution, and coming up with strategies of what to do next time he gets flooded that aren’t BREAKING UP are a must.
Personally I would be like next time he says divorce- it’s done. But if things are otherwise mostly good idk I would work towards it
She can be really sweet and respectful specially to my family and I think she would make a great mother so I want to on-line my life with her but she makes it so difficult sometimes and I did mess up in the past so she has a tendency to blame things on me. I do feel I’m too old for this childish behavior but I want to do things right not just break up with her because she’s emotional.
Thank you so much for your help ☺️ Yeah I do journalling which does help me and it is definitely very hot to ignore the feeling of jealousy. It's almost as if once you start feeling jealous, it's extremely nude for you to not only stop but to also remember to consider the other person's feelings
Thankfully I have managed to not let it affect me in any other way. I even am on holidays right now. In fact, shes motivating me with my studies too. Its just the situation I am in right now which bothers me a lot. I am a little mentally disturbed by it though…
Put it in his trunk he probably being g sneaky too. Or take it out.
If he isn't paying for food, then you shouldn't be cooking for him. Cook what you like, stop buying what he likes and let him waste his own money eating out.
Say it w me gf: “bullet dodged.” He did use you. But it’s not you, it’s him. He didn’t choose a better woman, hell, you don’t even know if he actually chose to be monogamous with her. He’s just gotten all he can and now you want more so he’s out. You’re young. Plenty of fish and time. “Bullet dodged. Fuck him.” That’s your motto, queen.
Wtf are you even talking about? Is English your native language? I said nothing even close to that. It so funny how I can clearly and concisely make a statement and women hear something totally different and run with it.
ADHD definitely exists on a spectrum so while someone with ADHD may be able to do all that others will struggle.
I do agree that it’s up to individuals with ADHD to find ways to work with our chaotic brains than to just give up entirely.
I’m big on shadowing/body doubling so I really appreciate having someone (like a partner, family member or friend) around to keep me on track while I’m cleaning whether it’s asking for updates over instant message or cleaning alongside me.
Checklists and treat motivations are also huge. Sometimes ADHDers benefit from shit like personal sticker charts and x number of stickers = treating yourself to a purchase, manicure, etc.
Baby will be happier when mom is happier, I promise.
Yeah I love gaming too but I'm not a massive asshole when indulging in it.
If he's $20k in debt with debt collectors calling, I doubt he has the credit to get a loan for said car.
Say no, this isn't your responsibility.
>>i would know that they had one on, and that would make me feel uncomfortable.
You lost me here. Your partner has offered a great solution: That they will wear it when they are not with you. You just knowing they have one on and feeling “uncomfortable” (what does that mean, by the way?) is a sign that you really need to get therapy, because you're treading into territory of controlling another's out-of-sight action with your feelings.
I may not be the best person to respond because admittedly, catching my partner masturbating is my biggest turn-on, but even putting that aside, I have never understood why people get so pressed about this.
You need to have an actual talk with her – none of this “I need to process this” BS anymore. Yes, body autonomy is real – you can do what you want in terms of self-pleasure. I think you need to determine what her actual issue is – is it the masturbation or the porn? I don't believe either should be an issue if it isn't affecting your intimate life with your partner, however when I was younger (like in my 20s), I wasn't as liberal when it came to watching porn.
I never had an issue with my partner's masturbating. I did have a problem with one ex's habitual porn watching. It wasn't affecting our sex life at all, but at the time I simply wasn't as secure with myself as I am now. I gave him a TON of shit about it, even though he wasn't doing anything 'wrong', plus I watch porn and watched it back then as well. It had NOTHING to do with him and everything to do with my internal self-talk.
It could be the same for your gf. You didn't mention your ages, but many women have these unspoken insecurities when we are younger (under 30). She may be worried that you prefer watching porn to her, she may feel insecurities about you comparing her to the women in the video, she may just be anti-porn, but until you sit down and have the talk, you really won't know.
No matter the reason, you are entitled to masturbate without guilt, shame, or fear of hurting or angering your girlfriend. Good luck to you
This seems completely up to you.
You can call that move a dealbreaker and move on with your life.
You can try long distance to see how that works. Some recommend this type of “stress test” to see if the relationship can truly survive situations of a strained relationship.
I don’t think it’s unreasonable for her to ask you not to jerk off when she’s around
Even when she's asleep? He wasn't choosing masturbation over sex with her, she was literally unconscious and he was too worked up to go to bed, so he took care of it instead of interrupting her sleep.
It's fine for her to say “I'd prefer you wake me up first and if I say no go ahead and take care of yourself,” but I do actually think it's unreasonable to say that he needs to just deal with an erection keeping him awake because she's in another room.
If you’re having so many disagreements, then it’s not a good fit.
I’ve been with my partner for years and we have had maybe a handful of disagreements. You’ve dated a few months and it’s a common thing. Move on, this isn’t healthy.
It's sometimes astounding how many people who really need professional help will rage out at loved ones who aren't psychologists over a “lack of support”. So maybe tell your sister that just as you're not qualified to remove her appendix you're also not qualified to treat her mental illness. Urge her to get real help instead of trying to rely on amateurs for a service that people train for years to be able to do.
OP mentioned that there have been other “pranks” so I wonder if it could be a pattern of escalating behavior
I totally understand that.
I totally understand that.
Well dude if you’re gonna fall head over heels on the first date then at-least write a few fucking foot notes about the person you’re in love with.
Are You really are so self centered that you don’t see how hurtful your requests to open a monogamous relationship are?
All you see is me. Saying she is understanding is probably her shock and betrayal that you would even ask to fuck other women after 5 years of marriage.
She either is quietly seething or unbearably broken; maybe some of both.
r/attackjohnsteinbeck
Look at it like this. Were all Germans Nazi's in the 1940s? Absolutely not. But it's the silence they gave in response to the Nazi's that was the biggest issue and why so many Jews died. Your boyfriend being silent about his friend's racism speaks louder than Steve ever will. Your boyfriend is 100% supporting a racist. I'm gonna guess he himself is racist. And you are no better staying with a man like that.
Defend him all you want, make excuses. Your boyfriend IS racist. If you can sleep at night by telling yourself he doesn't like confrontation then fine. But he's showed you how much he cares about you by not standing up for you when he knows you need it. You'll always be second to Steve. If you can on-line like that, so be it. If you can sleep with a man who supports racism, then fine. But is that really a man you want to build a family and a life with? A man who'd be silent if his child was a victim of hate because he doesn't like confrontation?
I am failing to see how it’s your problem that she doesn’t like the ring she picked out.
He also seems to blame stereotypes for his issues communicating emotion. Seems he needs to brush up on emotional intelligence and the importance of being able to communicate coherently…