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Does he normally make you feel secure and happy? Has this friend been mentioned before? Have you met her?
Is he good at communicating and respecting you? Is he good at compromising with you?
If I were you, I'd be sitting him down and asking him more details about why. Explain you've spent so long being excited… it's going to take some convincing rather then … 'just because my female friend is going'.
As he's talking…. listen carefully. If he's like a kid a Christmas where he's all glossy eyed and describes all these things he wants to do with you …. then talk more and compromise. If however, he says …. eerr I dunno … I just do. There's no planning or effort to Google it etc. Then he says things like … oh my friend has done this and my friend suggested that …. my friend, my friend etc …. then I'd lay the boundaries down.
See where you go from there.
Santa isn't real? Next you'll say the tooth fairies isn't real! They lies to me . 51 yrs .
This was a relationship that you were unhappy about BEFORE you found out he cheated. How does him cheating actually make you want to stay?
I imagine it is difficult to pull the plug on such a long relationship which, i hope, had some moments and memories for you. But he was not willing to put in the work and you were tired of carrying him so it is time to let it go.
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My (30sF) husband (30sM) started therapy about a year ago to deal with some issues related to growing up. Nothing crazy, fairly run of the mill baggage from your family. The issues had started to creep into our relationship so I asked him to please get therapy. He obliged and found a woman (late 20s to mid 30s maybe) who was covered by our insurance and seemed to be a good fit for him.
I’ve been in therapy on and off for about 10 years. I suffer from depression and anxiety but it’s all pretty well managed. Point being, I (think?) know how therapy usually goes.
The first thing I noticed was that she regularly goes over time on his sessions. It’s supposed to be 50 minutes but she’s never kept it to under one hour, and has gone as long as two hours. Nothing particularly crazy is happening in these sessions where she goes long, I would understand if some big breakthrough was happening, but he says the conversation is pretty normal. I’m not stalking his sessions, by the way, this is stuff he shares with me.
She also always reminds him to text her if there is an “emergency”. He doesn’t really have mental health emergencies. I know some therapists text and I think it’s a nice offer, but she seems to want to have a very open line of communication. She also texts him to remind him about his appointments (seems perfectly reasonable) but then will also include a little something extra like “I hope your week was good!” or a smiley emoji. My therapists have never texted me, which I’m completely fine with and it’s always been expected that I will remember my standing weekly sessions on my own.
Lastly, she’s offered to be our couples therapist AFTER slightly hinting at us maybe getting divorced. A divorce is not something either of us want. We’ve had some bumps in the road but definitely nothing catastrophic and we’ve openly told her that that feels way out of line. She also tends to therapize me even though I’m not her patient and she’s only talked to me briefly.
I in no way want to control who my husband sees for therapy and he does genuinely seem to be getting something from their sessions so it feels wrong to disrupt that. I should add that he thinks it’s possible that she has a crush on him and that he’s not attracted to her.
If he has an issue with it, and is making zero effort to overcome it, then you’re simply not compatible. But it’s never valid to make someone feel shitty for their “body count.” It’s ok to have preferences but not to use them to be cruel. If he can’t handle it, he shouldn’t be pursuing you. His insecurity is not valid, he knew what he was getting into and he’s using it to be cruel
Your fiance signed up for all of this so talk to them. If they can't help you through this then they won't be able to carry you through other hardships.
I think it's one of those times when it depends how much it bothers you. Some people would consider it harmless, but if it upsets you or feels inappropriate, talk to him.
You need to have that same energy about your ex (or a female coworker) and btalk about her non stop to your friends etc so your gf would know how it feels.
Sometimes I come home tired with a headache. Being able to just sit down and have something cold to drink in silence is priceless. The thought of coming home in those circumstances and finding an outsider in my home and having to be nice to them would definitely suck. You weren't rude but you also weren't polite. But who cares?
Girl run