Then they don't get the opportunity to love either of them. Like seriously who in the hell would think like this? It would still be their daughters child.
But OP doesn't need to dig into if her fiance shares these feelings. Something is really fucked up here. Is this truely the family you want to marry into?
That sounds awful and tbh I can't imagine why you would choose to be with a person who views you like this and treats you like this.
Then they don't get the opportunity to love either of them. Like seriously who in the hell would think like this? It would still be their daughters child.
But OP doesn't need to dig into if her fiance shares these feelings. Something is really fucked up here. Is this truely the family you want to marry into?
Going through her messages is only going to make everyone involved feel shitty. Stay out of her private business and learn to trust her
Most of the time, the breakup comes after