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I would go if I felt better back home. Though north in the winter is not the direction I would want to go lol. You're young and have been together 4 years and how did you end up in his state?
Thank you. I did not mention, I but this is right from the beginning, but i ignored it, thinking it will get better with time.
Practical: something he uses everyday. Something that he will love, a book of homemade sexy/spur of the moment coupons that he’ll use to his heart’s content.
from someone who is borderline crazy with massive trust issues – you are being unreasonable.
According to your last post 12 days ago you broke up with him because of the same girl. What made you get back together with him?
Definitely keep going to med school. If he can’t support you through this then he won’t support you when you’re an actual doctor.
I was blind. There were so many red flags. But I ignored everything.
This sucks, but be glad you found this out about her now, at 25, and not 10 years down the road.
Hold your head high– she is the one that carries the shame here. And don't take her back when this fly-by-night relationship of hers ultimately fails.
It sucks now, but you'll get through it. You're still very young. Happy Birthday, OP.
Here in Panama we have a say:
“God gives bread to those who don't have teeth”
I'm sorry you can't enjoy what life is offering you right now. That girl is going to be gone soon son.
Yes very illegal. And if I were you I would deal with it by speaking to his supervisor as well as the police. Some people are crazy, if he finds out where she lives and follows her when she leaves, and from there… who knows what he is capable of. This is scary. I’ve been stalked before, by an ex boyfriend so I would take this very seriously. Beautiful women are often targeted by predators.
If you keep up with this romantic relationship you are wasting time (yours and your partner's). You will not be alone forever, and you can also keep being friends if she's okay with it, but if the relationship is not fulfilling for both you are wasting time. It's been 3 years already.
You already had a relationship, you might be in a better one in the future. Stop stopping BOTH of you from searching for something else. Also think about talking about this fear of being alone with a therapist, that's not a good thing to be worried about bro.
I would suggest you just don't get intimate with him at all till he clean himself up first.
I agree with you that thinking that would be the end of it when his professor pulled him to the side to talk with him. That he would at least make a change about it. o-o
You already talked to him.. He already had someone pulled him to the side to tell him about the BO. Now it's up to him to figure it out that it's a problem..
I have a job, but its low paying as I’m still in training, plus, where I live, the houses are so expensive… I’ll provide more context, he challenged my father when he offered up our spare bedroom (which is directly next to mine and the door faces mine) up to refugees from Ukraine without asking me and my sister if we were comfortable sharing a floor (and a bathroom) with some strangers, I pay rent within the house, utilities etc
They don't like each other enough to be in a committed relationship so he doesn't really have a right to be pissed about it.
If you had sex and their boundary was sex with no one else then he could have an issue with her. You guys only had a kiss though.
All that being said, he might feel territorial and react badly anyway. However, I don't think you done anything wrong.
Damn you kinda awful lol
You paid for your own gift and then you paid for his and then he sulked because he is a spiky child? WTF?
If my girlfriend was tracking my location I'd go to my bros place and get blackout drunk too. Prob never come back tbh lol ?♂️
I'm single to clarify. She is married.
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So like you said she trusted the co-worker when she chose to go into the room right? She trusted that all they were gonna do was make out.
THAT is the decision that caused her to become a cheater and anything that happened after that, whether what the co-worker did was rape or not, she lost OP as soon as she made that decision and she doesn't get to expect sympathy from OP amymore and the fact that you're trying to force him to sympathize with her is disgusting
Say the sex never happened and all they did do was make out, OP would still be feeling just as betrayed, hurt and confused because that is the main issue
Trying to shift the issue into being helping her with her possible rape is wrong
She is playing the victim, but you are the victim. If she was r*ped, she can report it to the police. (She wasn't, though.) She simply flirted, got drunk, and had sex with the guy. Unless she was blacked out and found her clothes off (not her story), she cheated.
Dude, all I am going to say is do not get married to her unless you are comfortable sending A LOT more to her family. Once married, she is just going to take your money to send to her family. This very well could, and probably should be a deal breaker for you.
Here is three easy steps to improve your relationships. 1. As an adult be autonomous, getting to and from work is your responsibility. 2. Move out into your own place, and start paying food and board contributions if you don’t already. 3. Don’t leach off your parents, ask them for anything, but instead figure out how to give back and enrich them. Maybe cook a dinner for them….
I would literally just ask if anyone is interested in what I'm making.
As someone else said I meal plan for the week and my kids (who are 16, 13 and 11) can all decide if they want to eat what I'm making, most of the time they do, but sometimes they won't fancy what I'm making or just don't like something. I'm not in the habit of cutting out food in the house because someone doesn't like it and even cook things for them and eat something different myself when I don't like what I've made them. If they decide they don't want something that particular day I buy enough to make the rest and buy whatever they want as a replacement meal which I either make alongside if it's ready enough to do so, or they make themselves if they're out with friends/it's a time consuming meal when I'm already doing a time consuming meal. All my kids have been taught to cook.
You could meal plan and ask who would be interested in what/what days and buy accordingly.
This means you know who to cook for, there's no waste and there's no pressure if noone wants anything and you are just cooking for yourself.
it’s only dumb to ask/answer that question if you’re in an unhealthy relationship. people can be generally attractive without you being attracted them over your partner
Leave him alone. The irony is that you and your parents thought you were better and that he was the inferior person. Now you realise that you are a substandard person and wife who didn't even have the decency to stand up for a wonderful man who loved you and your son. You don't deserve him. Let him go and find a woman who is worthy of him. I feel sorry for your son. At least your ex has the chance to find a better wife (and that's not a high bar). Your son is stuck with you as his mother.
No I wasn’t mad, I’ve burned a lot of bridges in this thread and gotten a lot of hate, I assumed some might think I’m a guy or sexist based on the backlash. I just thought it was funny.
This obsession will grow more towards that person , just saying this is not healthy , plus the age gap what you should concern about .
Do whatever you feel right, though personally I find this very off putting. I don't personally tend to find attractive those who don't have their mind organized and their ideas clear. But it's really up to you.
The sitting in our shitty kitchen and we’re signing a prenup parts very much stand out to me.
OP you’re very fixated and bitter about the apartment. It is what it is, it is what it’s been since you met your fiancé. Nothing has changed except your entitlement to an asset he didn’t provide to you. You obviously feel some kind of way about both it, and the fact that he gave it to her as well as that he’s cutting off your access to that and future assets via the prenup. Obviously he didn’t sign a prenup with her.
He could have left the apartment to his daughter and you’d have zero right to it as well, you need to give up that you feel you should have the apartment. Focus on the fact that he’s decided you’re lesser than she is for whatever reason. You cannot fix that, where you live won’t fix it, getting married won’t fix it, having kids won’t fix it. You need to accept it or move on with your life. He’s a closed book to you and you need to make decisions about your future based on that.
Yeah I've seen it tons. I think it depends on the type of friendships tbh. Like people tend to have issues with some of the opposite genders, but not everyone. It really depends on why that is.
Sounds like if she wants him back, he's gonna take that chance. That's not a man i would marry.
It sounds like she has decided to change from being highly sexualized in past relationships and has overcompensated, especially in prioritizing things other than physical attraction. Give it enough time and she will be making a post here about “not being attracted to my husband even though he's a great guy.”
Don’t stay with her. It sounds so sexist but women are meant to have sex with their man. Not giving sex to a man just destroys a man and it’s cruel. Why would you be with someone you’re not gonna give yourself to. It’s stupid af. You respected her and waited and she won’t ever change. She ain’t worth you leave her please
Idk if this is fake or not but the first thing I would do is ask your husband to get you into see the best gynecologist you can find and tell them about the painful sex and see if there's any test they can run about that. Having children and letting your body growing up can be a game changer for you. I would also look into basic sex education live when you get a moment if you haven't. You obviously weren't aroused when you had sex for the first times did you guys use lube? If you're having trouble with pain and have unbearable periods even without having sex look into endometriosis. There is just so much to explain your pain for the first times. Also pain the first couple sometimes you have sex is completely normal however you describe such excruciating pain that you really need to go see a doctor to see if it's something more or if it's just because your body and mind was not at all ready for sex yet.
Second your husband sounds so accommodating you can ask him to first get an STD test and then ask him if he's willing to slowly start experimenting with sexual things. No penis in vagina sex but start with light touching and making out. I know it's emotionally painful but the fact that he has more sexual experience will probably help now that he knows what he's doing. You could also start using the Friday nights he's gone with experimenting with masturbation. Also there is a lot of men married in committed relationships that have wives with very hot limits on some of the things the husband used to like to do with other women and they are just fine going the rest of their lives never doing a lot of those things again. But baby steps. You never know if you'll like any of those things if you don't start somewhere and you might be fully asexual.
If that happens to be the case, and you still want to remain married, and you still want him to be able to “be satisfied”, you'll need to work on your jealousy or you can work on detaching from him. The only other options I see are you tolerating all of this and remaining and paying every time he leaves to go get his needs filled or you getting a divorce and co-parenting amicably.
Get therapy with a sex positive therapist NOT a religious one. There are actual sex therapists out in the world (I just don't know how to find them) that could lead you better down this path. Doing couples therapy would probably help a lot at some too.
Finally if you know in your heart you're not going to leave, him tell him you love him. Because otherwise he's going to go through this whole life without knowing you love him and that he is loved. Being in love is giving somebody the ability to break your heart and trusting them not to. Love isn't all rainbows and Sunshine Love is heartbreak and working through things and communication.
I am going to wish you the bestest of luck. And if this was fake it was a very entertaining read.
Throw this one back.
Is he asexual but tries for your sake but can’t perform? Ask him. If he is then you two aren’t compatible and your whole relationship will be a cycle of disappointment and rejection.
we did it so we both had the same personal money left each month
100%. I think now that they don’t work together, I convinced myself that it was just like a one-night stand. But no you’re right.
these kinds of posts are always messy with cis people not understanding a lot of complicated minutia in being trans. theres a reason why trans people are often scared to come out while dating cis people, because for us its often risky and dangerous. people can react excessively with verbal abuse like you, or worse they can even be violent and that often sadly ends with trans people being assaulted or killed. this is an unfortunately high statistic for us. please do try to absorb that and the high rates of discrimination we face that make normal things like daily life and dating difficult
that said, her method of telling you isnt okay either. she shouldnt just take someone and force them to touch her genitals, that wouldnt be okay regardless if she was cis or trans. thats not a good or safe way to come out to anyone and she really should have spoken to you about it. she wasnt being coy or playful, just reckless
you dont HAVE to get back with this person, personally i would say you shouldnt because its clear this isnt good for either of you. thats not wrong in itself. but i do think its worth thinking about how badly you reacted to this too, your thoughts of how you were “really” dating a “man” (you werent. you were dating a woman who is trans) and your thoughts to immediately misgender her and this visceral disgust you feel for trans people. its worth examining that prejudice moving forward and being a kinder person, or at least more accepting in the future
She’s being incredibly unreasonable and acting out in immature, insecure ways. If this is her way of dealing with some trivial social media following, do you think she will suddenly be mature and considerate in other major debates?
Yes, yes, yes. You’ve made him your entire social life. Even a great guy can’t make that work.
Personally I don’t think anyone has right to demand things from others. If you were not helping around the house, neglected her or chose your family over your relationship with her then I might see her point some… sounds as if she doesn’t like your family and wants you to cut them out.. which is unreasonable. Let me ask did she stop her hobbies for you??? Why are you even with this person???
Why specify African American instead of just Black lol? But no, not definitely. A lot of Albino Black people have racial physical features that mark them as being Black. But I'm sure that there are some that would definitely be considered white, too.
If you want an example of an African American who's white, the singer Halsey is one.
The reason why light-skinned Latinos are often considered white is because they often have mostly European heritage and don't look any different than white people. You can't be a POC if there's no genetic or physical difference between you and white people.
You felt giddy for a reason, don’t discount your feelings. You are valid. You know what you need.
First problem is you asked. You have no need ask. You own the house. She is a renter. You are an adult you can make your own decisions w/o asking. You were so kind to take time off and had no plans to ditch her. She is in the wrong.
You can't be a man, when you're still acting a child lol
So they think you’re an idiot. I think you know that message means they had sex. Maybe it’s because she’s afraid of losing you but if your gf doesn’t have enough respect for you not to insult your intelligence…
Dump him
I have tried therapy in the past and it simply did not work with the therapist I was seeing at the time. I dont know how to find a new one plus I admit I procrastinate a lot. I don't have any specific interests since I never have had enough passion to pursue anything + I tend to indulge in apathy for some reason. The only thing I do in my leisure time is charity work to help people struggling with loneliness ( ironic I know) but it's something I am not allowed to talk about due to privacy so that doesn't count as a conversational topic 🙂 I also babysit my niece from time to time but mostly my leisure time is spent doing house chores,spending time on social media and taking walks in the nature when I manage to find the energy to do so
Me and my boyfriend are 23 and 24 and have been in a relationship for 2 years, so similar ages and relationship length as you. Neither one of us would put up with this. We’ve only had a handful of major disagreements and they’re always resolved within an hour or two with no yelling and a compromise that satisfies both parties. You’re still young, I would cut your losses and find a healthy relationship because they’re out there. Your current situation is just crazy town, I can’t imagine subjecting myself to that.
Be careful you don’t catch one of those red flags in the eye.
Sometimes pure honesty is not the best policy, sorry but sooner or later you’ll learn that, especially when it comes to your past, his brother should have kept his mouth shut, unless she cheated on him then he should have just kept quiet , especially since he never even sees him, so it’s not like he’s always around someone she’s had sex with.
Just sending some love and strength your way ?. Healing will get some time and energy, but you'll get through it. I only wish you the very best, you deserve it and you'll get it!
Try to not lose too much sleep over trying to understand the How's and the Why's, as you can't explain erratic behaviours. It will be difficult, but cry when you need it, have some well deserved rest, heal, move on, and be ready for real love. ?
Thanks for the comment! No, they're not easy to find. He's young and unfortunately, yeah immature. For me, friends are an integral part of my life. My closest friends are the people who have been there for me in my darkest of time and I to them. Real friendship is the most important part of your life. However, I've been extremely fortunate. Because of this I know a good friend from a bad one and I don't think he has been blessed with friends the same way I have. I don't really think this choice was choosing his friends over me by not defending me but more choosing his own comfort over anything else.
So far we've remained friends, not sure if that's for the best or not. He understands it to an extent but not entirely. I would say he's trying a lot more but no changes when it comes to the friends
She’s 30 and still acting like her dreams make you guilty of cheating as though she’s 13?
Wow
Look I know you want to help your wife but you cannot. This is her problem and she is the only one who can stop herself from acting like a crazy jealous insecure person.
They’re DREAMS. They don’t mean anything. SHE needs to stop making demands of you and smothering you and accusing you of cheating. Frankly I wouldn’t stand for that for a second. But that’s me.
Lmao a lot of men want nothing to do with you with that attitude. I would rather watch you drown that even pay you a cent.
And im just saying but you're only in your mid 20s. Your bf is 36. I dont know why you'd want to date an almost middle aged man when you can date a younger guy with no baggage that doesn't make you feel this insecure. You're supposed to feel good and loved in a relationship. Dont be a rebound or someone's 2nd choice.