I donβt know about you but I have become more forgiving as I aged. Especially if people made mistakes while they are under the influence or not in the best mental state. Perhaps you can speak to her in a civil manner several days/weeks from now and ask her how she feels about what she did.
If anything I think you underplayed her feelings. If I was attacked and permanently skared by dog I would be doing my best to try to have him put down. You acted almost like this shouldn't be a big deal. In her place I would expect from not just compassion, but anger at dog for obvious reason and at your mother for having audacity to make difficulties with insurance.
Obviously you don't. You love the fact that he provided you with children and supports you and them. You love the things he provides, but you don't love him. He could be replaced by an ATM machine.
I completely agree it doesnβt matter. Just I feel like if I was a girl picked up in a new Mercedes with all the interior lights and stuff it would start off the date pretty well and make her feel special I guess. Just adds to the experience.
I mean, op yoi can't force him to listen and it's clear he couldn't care less, he literally ignores you
I donβt know about you but I have become more forgiving as I aged. Especially if people made mistakes while they are under the influence or not in the best mental state. Perhaps you can speak to her in a civil manner several days/weeks from now and ask her how she feels about what she did.
If anything I think you underplayed her feelings. If I was attacked and permanently skared by dog I would be doing my best to try to have him put down. You acted almost like this shouldn't be a big deal. In her place I would expect from not just compassion, but anger at dog for obvious reason and at your mother for having audacity to make difficulties with insurance.
You have my respect
And I can honestly I love the guy
Obviously you don't. You love the fact that he provided you with children and supports you and them. You love the things he provides, but you don't love him. He could be replaced by an ATM machine.
I spent many years stuck with someone like this
Kids kept me tied there both emotionally and financially
When I was finally able to end things without leaving myself destitute, the exact words I heard were
“Yeh, I knew I was just using you, I told you what you wanted to hear so I got what I wanted”
It only confirmed what my gut always knew, reading your post tells me your gut is doing the same
If you think/feel you're with a leech, you most likely are
You have zero holding you around, kids and marriage will be your prison if you're mad enough to carry on
That is fucking condescending and I don't think i could recover from that amount of disrespect tbh. Dude acts like a child, u deserve better.
I completely agree it doesnβt matter. Just I feel like if I was a girl picked up in a new Mercedes with all the interior lights and stuff it would start off the date pretty well and make her feel special I guess. Just adds to the experience.