Press right there to start video
Room for online video chats Wet_shy_holly69
Wet_shy_holly69live sex stripping with LIVE Cams
15K Share
Press right there to start video or
Room for live! sex video chat Wet_shy_holly69
Model from: de
Languages: en,de
Birth Date: 1993-10-11
Body Type: bodyTypeAthletic
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
Subculture: subcultureGlamour
Im so sorry. It’s so hot especially when your lives are so intertwined. All the love to you ❤️
If he’s so insistent on comparing you to his mom, he should just marry her. He chose you and should support you for who you are and what your needs are. If copy cat mommy is the goal, he should just go with the og.
Maybe try those period simulators on him to show him what you experience. Ask him to do a full days work at level 10. I bet he taps out at 4.
I’m concerned that if he’s waving the “when you’re a mother you can’t” before a kid even exists. If he’s this harsh about period pain what’s he going to be like during a pregnancy? Labor? Post partum? don’t let him bully you over a bodily experience he has no way of understanding.
Speak for yourself. Every body is different, why assume people are exaggerating instead of just telling what it feels like for them? Just because it's not earth shattering for you doesn't mean that's true for all people.
Leave, do not tie yourself to a gaslighting liar.
Im sorry to say but breaking up might be the best issue, for your childrens sake (if you eventually DO have them) it’ll be better for you and your partner to both find people more compatible with your future life choices, maybe she might change her mind in the future, but you dont want her to have kids for your sake otherwise she might end up resenting you and/or your kid, i wish you the best of luck
have a serious talk. with your minister if not with a counselor.
Hello /u/KnowledgeOk2143,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles use the following formatting:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
I don’t understand how you keep misinterpreting this exchange. Unless this is a novelty account for you and you’re doing it on purpose, which is possible, I guess.
Relax, it's a shower with the grandma. This doesn't require a big discussion. The kids will be alright
So was she cheating on this guy with you? Or was she just dating around.
Listen people have pasts and you have to get over that, but the general lack of honesty and openness is a problem.
I also get the Italian thing. Not sure why she wouldn't be honest, unless she was cheating on this guy with you.
?????
Run girl. He is emotionally abusing you so that you don’t leave him. By constantly putting you down and then saying that ‘he still likes you’ he is conditioning you to think there is something wrong but he likes you so you should stay with him.
You need to break it off and then spend some time working on yourself so that you can build your confidence and conquer your eating disorder. Therapy would be a good place to start.
Only when you feel happy and confident should you consider dating again as, in your current state, you are probably incredibly vulnerable to arseholes like your boyfriend.
Good luck darlin’
Call shelter/ police … Don't confront him alone.
Make a lie that you need your papers for some legal stuff, go to social services if He wont leave go alone ask for help there….
Sounds like you already know what you have to do mate.
Not necessarily. Not having to try as hot can mean multiple things. With my very much toxic ex I had to tiptoe around him all the time, I had to rephrase things in my head before I said or texted them 10 times to make sure no words were triggering or might cause misunderstandings causing him to blow up or feel attacked. I had to bend over backwards multiple times so he could be somewhat satisfied and not take his dissatisfaction out on me.
In comparison to this, literally anyone remotely healthy and human and kind will be “less effort” and I won’t have to try as very hot. This means I don’t have to call 30 people to go get weed from my own money in the middle of the night because he gets insufferable without it, it doesn’t mean I don’t have to put in any effort at all.
Ofc, it sounds hurtful to hear that your s.o. As implicated tried harder for his ex than he does for you. But as long as he’s putting in a good/healthy amount of effort and work for OP, it should be enough.
If you’re monogamous and don’t really want to open the relationship then don’t, it never works out when one person goes against their core beliefs in the hope of saving a relationship.
If that’s what she wants tell her she’s free to go but that an open relationship wouldn’t work for you.
Nah, you showed fortitude. Balls. Leave it alone. Move on. If she tells you yes to coffee accept but don't keep your life on hold while she decides.
It's your decision, not hers. Nothing you did is wrong.
You done cheated on that guy then made a post so when it comes out you can deny it… touché on playing 3d checkers
There’s nothing wrong with keeping score – you’re only doing it because he’s failing at being a partner.
You were broken up at the time. She was free to do anything she wanted with other people.
Don't have “breakups” if you aren't 100% serious about it.
But it takes time and money to prove abandonment, OP cannot just go to court and say “she left, I can’t find her”.
Sometimes it’s better to not antagonize the deadbeat parent with a court summons. She might have tried fighting for custody because she doesn’t want to pay child support..
OP had a much better abandonment case now than he did 5 years ago. It made sense to wait in this scenario.
Your wife does not love you. I’m sorry… but love happens even in difficult situations. She unilaterally made a decision with no regards to you. This was all about her and her feelings. That’s not love. Sometimes love doesn’t feel good. My husband and my relationship is not as perfect as you stated yours was and while I may feel hurt about this situation (which we were contacted by one of his exes for paternity.. and I had no intentions of leaving either way the test came back), it’s not a reason to just call it quits. Call me traditional, but when I make a vow, I mean them.
As for advice, I have none, but to protect yourself legally. Obviously promises don’t mean much to your wife if she’s breaking the most important one.
I have read this comment 4-5 times now because its so on the money its scary. Your 5 points about the visa, i can apply all 5 of them to different scenarios.
When it comes to the problem solving its not so much me with the problems that need solving, its her and it mainly revolves around her work, which she said to me the other day is the only thing thats really going on in her life. I came to her with a problem last week for the first time in a long time, i don’t even remember the last time i did, probably more recent than i think it was. However when she comes to me for advice on problems with the people she works with, i used to be very reluctant to help, i’ve since changed that since starting therapy, but my problem with it is, that when i do offer advice its met with no i’m not gonna do that, and then later she making comments like i don’t know why i ask u these things. Which then makes me feel like whats the point cause anything i offer isn’t good enough for her. So again like u said that leave her solving the problem herself. I’m sure there are other scenarios where its not just work related but thats the big one.
I’m fairly sure i’m focusing on this one little thing, and not the wider picture of problem solving that doesnt involve her work.
Thanks for your comment was a real eye opener
Welcome to reddit. One of the largest echo chambers in existence ?
Nope nope nope hell nah.
Definitely NOT normal, and it's also EXTREMELY disrespectful to you and your relationship. She's keeping him around for a reason, most likely as a backup. She knows you're uncomfortable with this and she still does it? Nah, fuck that. He's gotta go. And if she doesn't wanna cut him out, break up with her. I wouldn't tolerate that shit for one second.
Check what steps you need to take to evict her according to your local laws. You need to break up, but she may not be gone immediately.