I agree with your feelings on this. Hectoring your lover to get what you want is nasty business – some would call it abuse – and your GF has a mean streak. Bow to her on this, and there will be more hectoring – just not over gym attendance.
Your options are to suck it up, break up, or bargain with her, for something she won't give you just for the asking, but might be willing to give if you agree to go to the gym in return. I don't like your odds – if GF feels as entitled as I think, she won't take it well – but I see no fourth option.
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I agree with your feelings on this. Hectoring your lover to get what you want is nasty business – some would call it abuse – and your GF has a mean streak. Bow to her on this, and there will be more hectoring – just not over gym attendance.
Your options are to suck it up, break up, or bargain with her, for something she won't give you just for the asking, but might be willing to give if you agree to go to the gym in return. I don't like your odds – if GF feels as entitled as I think, she won't take it well – but I see no fourth option.