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So basically you’re an absolute narcissist that’s learned nothing from this post other than you’re going to project your insecurities onto other people because you refuse to take any constructive feedback
why does it matter shes younger and prettier… and cooler? sounds like youre extra insecure. this guy was playing you and you were letting yourself fall for it even though you knew he put you through mind games… I understand you feel hurt, but I feel like you're overreacting by puking and “feeling like dying”. he's just a man, and from the sounds of it not a good one… you'll find another one…
That’s why I think she just is exaggerating her experience.
Yeah her feelings REALLY matter to you..you don't even believe her. Its no wonder you have to date so.eone 15 years younger than you. No one your age would put up with your shit.
EDIT: So, I figured that I would add more context, I do get public transportation when I can to get to my workplace, I pay monthly rent to my parents and also pay for phone/ streaming services, if my parents ask me to pay for food, I do with no hesitation; I even offer even when they don’t ask. My job have very late work hours as I could finish early hours during the morning; so the price for an Uber/ taxi would rise significantly. Also, my work wage is monthly, however it is not fixed as it all depends on how busy my workplace is, how much I earn. I very rarely ask my parents for lift now as Dad will use it against me in an argument.
I think he was into voyeurism, yeah. He was such a bad guy and I don’t know why I stayed with him. He was my first, ahem, adult relationship and I thought I was in love with him. It really set a precedent for the next several relationships I was in.
OP, this guy sounds like bad news. He clearly has issues that he needs help with. It’s not your job to try and fix him, and by no means should you have to settle for this. So sorry you’re dealing with something like this.
If my wife were just recessive for color blindness we wouldn't know and we wouldn't be commenting on her fitness.
Obviously this is all hypothetical but ultimately if someone has a genetic disorder that is recessive the odds of your wife having the matching recessive gene is small.
Even if I'm albino the odds my wife is heterozygous for albinism are slim and if she is she can't really be complaining about my genes.
There's no reason for people with the majority of genetic disorders not have kids as long as their partner doesn't also suffer from it.
Amd in this day and age you can always test to be sure.
would it be an immature move to just let the friendship fizzle out? i honestly don’t know.. If Lara isn’t making an effort that should be pretty easy
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So basically you’re an absolute narcissist that’s learned nothing from this post other than you’re going to project your insecurities onto other people because you refuse to take any constructive feedback
basically, no but you have my thanks
why does it matter shes younger and prettier… and cooler? sounds like youre extra insecure. this guy was playing you and you were letting yourself fall for it even though you knew he put you through mind games… I understand you feel hurt, but I feel like you're overreacting by puking and “feeling like dying”. he's just a man, and from the sounds of it not a good one… you'll find another one…
Her feelings do matter to me.
That’s why I think she just is exaggerating her experience.
Yeah her feelings REALLY matter to you..you don't even believe her. Its no wonder you have to date so.eone 15 years younger than you. No one your age would put up with your shit.
Just move on and forget it ever happened.
OP's edit removes this suspicion.
EDIT: So, I figured that I would add more context, I do get public transportation when I can to get to my workplace, I pay monthly rent to my parents and also pay for phone/ streaming services, if my parents ask me to pay for food, I do with no hesitation; I even offer even when they don’t ask. My job have very late work hours as I could finish early hours during the morning; so the price for an Uber/ taxi would rise significantly. Also, my work wage is monthly, however it is not fixed as it all depends on how busy my workplace is, how much I earn. I very rarely ask my parents for lift now as Dad will use it against me in an argument.
Nobody missed the sarcasm. It's just your shitty tone after being corrected for making a false claim.
I think he was into voyeurism, yeah. He was such a bad guy and I don’t know why I stayed with him. He was my first, ahem, adult relationship and I thought I was in love with him. It really set a precedent for the next several relationships I was in.
OP, this guy sounds like bad news. He clearly has issues that he needs help with. It’s not your job to try and fix him, and by no means should you have to settle for this. So sorry you’re dealing with something like this.
If my wife were just recessive for color blindness we wouldn't know and we wouldn't be commenting on her fitness.
Obviously this is all hypothetical but ultimately if someone has a genetic disorder that is recessive the odds of your wife having the matching recessive gene is small.
Even if I'm albino the odds my wife is heterozygous for albinism are slim and if she is she can't really be complaining about my genes.
There's no reason for people with the majority of genetic disorders not have kids as long as their partner doesn't also suffer from it.
Amd in this day and age you can always test to be sure.
End it rn he won’t change