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Yes, it still makes you a disgusting POS.
I had a long-term FWB with severe psoriasis; it simply wasn't a deal breaker, in fact it made me sad that he wasn't comfortable undressing more than he would. It's a non-contagious skin condition and mature people shouldn't care.
Leaving is a must, you know that. Not matter what, you are not responsible for him, you cannot control him or how he responds to your leaving. Consider being upfront about it, or leaving a letter but giving no idea it was happening or just ghosting him and dropping out of his world. What fits best for you, your safety and future? If he can find you at work etc… that last one is not possible. Leave on friendly terms if you think he won't harm you or he would allow you to check up on him weekly\monthly – then follow up on that so long as it is safe for you to do so. I hope you have some friends or family, someone to make sure your okay on a daily basis at the start of this, if not consider a shelter for help.
Hopefully, he would never take anything out on you, and you can check up on him and try to encourage him to straighten out his life for himself. This could be the time for it. You need to look out for #1 for a time and get yourself in a healthy living situation, too, and only you can control you and make it better for yourself now. GL.
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The worst part is his birthday is December 12th which I’m sure will be used against me but I don’t think I can just sit on this till after
He got physical with her. Throwing a pillow? Only going to escalate to fists.
I really hate that everyone thinks that because of my age I'm easy to manipulate. Do you think I wouldn't realize their intentions? I know that 2 years and 6 months is a lot but in the time that I have known him I know that he is a good person (even though he is respectful, he is more immature than me) but hey
Any advice?
Yes, wake up and smell the impending abuse.
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Sounds like you're having a healthy dialogue. I dare say things'll work out in no time. ?
If seeing your ex outside your house was all it took to destroy your relationship then it wasn't much of a relationship. Learn from this and move on.
Make sure you have a clear understating of your finances. Make copies of records and know how to access all accounts. Prepare yourself to divorce him and get full custody with child support. This is so messed up.
So.
limerance is usually a mental illness, or a symptom of one.
From what you've written, it's unlikely that he'll get any mental health help – and honestly, even if he does – you've already checked out.
See a lawyer, get the divorce, and be happy.
Hey friend, join us as r/bipolar we might be able to help more than relationship advice. Consider it an anonymous live support group
Do not be a home wrecker. Go get involved with someone else.
I don't see the connection between income and inheritance.
Income in a marriage is jointly owned. If one spouse makes all of the income in a couple, it's not like they have claim to where all of that money goes. I think they have to work out how to dispose of their assets upon death. Who earned the salary has nothing to do with how it's disposed of…it's not like one spouse has higher standing than the other.
Think of it this way…if they get divorced now, how is it split?
I don't see the connection between income and inheritance.
Income in a marriage is jointly owned. If one spouse makes all of the income in a couple, it's not like they have claim to where all of that money goes. I think they have to work out how to dispose of their assets upon death. Who earned the salary has nothing to do with how it's disposed of…it's not like one spouse has higher standing than the other.
Think of it this way…if they get divorced now, how is it split?
So… she does use the kitchen then? The way you spoke was like she spends all day in bed and then comes in demanding that you clean the floors
From OPs comments it sounds like they haven't explained nearly enough to know for sure what's going on. For instance if OP is only in their room and never enters joint areas in this attire he's being incredibly weird. However, if she is entering joint spaces then that can be rude. As another commenter said it's ok to have boundaries of what you are uncomfortable with for instance I'm not attracted to my grandma but would be uncomfortable if I saw her in her underwear and T.
It's very likely that OP would go into joint areas even if only to use the restroom real quick so I can see how that could be uncomfortable.
Also expressing your boundaries isn't toxic however if someone's boundaries make you uncomfortable then you need to do what's best for you. No matter what anyone here says if his boundaries make you uncomfortable then you need to look for a new arrangement or have a serious talk about finding a new place.
I would say 25 is a good number 🙂
His age. The punctuality. The fact he comes back at 6 AM not drunk.
Cocaine. He's doing Cocaine.
Babe, you know this is wrong, and you don't need Reddit to tell you this. Do something! Men will only do what they can get by with. He is getting by with being controlling. Seriously do something, whether it's leaving, try to discuss everything with him, just something! Get off of reddit and take control of your damn life.
Devils Advocate, i'm sure plenty of us talk to multiple people at once just chatting until something serious pops. It happens.
Smart/rational, Starting a relationship on doubts and knowing he did go with someone else even if you two were still super early to make a firm choice. I say plenty of fish in the sea. Cast another line. It may be able to work out but its a gamble ya know.
If he lies to his mother about going to college how fo you know he doesn't fo the same to you?
This is something that needs to be discussed with delicacy and tact. You should have a very romantic evening to ease any possible tension and make her aware that you love her regardless. Afford her an opportunity to say something about it first after dropping hints. If she doesn’t talk about it first then you need to be honest. Be reassuring and supportive. Most people have a past and getting it out in the open helps.
Well for starters you should encourage him to get them all cut. I reckon you won’t even notice if he just gets one cut.
Also note that she was able to get herself to an appointment to speak to a lawyer about this but couldn’t manage to transport herself to the hospital or to visit her grandkids.
Absolutely, this is the best advice. Being in love is a constant choice. You’d be amazed at what a difference it makes in a relationship when you can wire your brain to routinely compliment and take time to notice things about your partner.
Long term partners begin to feel like extensions of ourselves, and it takes effort to pay mind to their individuality. It’s always worth the effort to slow down for your partner.
You know what he wants. And he's willing to break up over it.
So you either leave him. Or do it.
again, this doesn't seem healthy. If he doesn't trust you, why would he agree to move in together and sleep in the same bed? Did you have problems with cheating in this relationship?
I see it like this from your side: he goes out as he pleases, you can't do the same though you could before living with him, you can't even have sex that often. You also seem to be walking on eggshells a lot. This could be a wild assumption on my end, but the relationship is starting to seem controlling, but maybe you need to clarify.
This person is clearly in crisis but unless they ask you to drive them to the acute psych intake center there's not a lot you can do about that. So focus on yourself and beginning to process the breakup. This is bigger than just her cheating on you. Forgetting to submit important work, disappearing, becoming promiscuous without a history of that. It sounds like she's experiencing a manic episode of some sort.
I think it’s ok to feel calm instead of wired with a bf. “Watered down” can mean that there’s not a lot of reciprocation when you’re silly or not a lot of appreciation for your silly side from him.
Have you tried starting the silly/goofy behavior with him? What happens if so?
It's just you wasted four comments on language than on the topic we are discussing on. So it's not necessary to try to correct others always , chances are it's autocorrect or suggestions or they could be in hurry .