If BOTH of you are still harbouring feelings for your respective exes, what the fuck are you doing. Neither of you are ready for a real relationship, plain and simple.
I don't think she's toxic, she just has healing she needs to do. She really wants love, but wants the right kind of love, so puts everything into it. It's common and easy to think women can be 'crazy', but we all are/can be to some extent. If I were you, I'd encourage that independence and therapy. She's still very young, so physically emotions are still higher than older years and therapy can help sort those emotions out.
Tell her you'll comfort her over the phone because of her holding you hostage and you can't trust her
I didn’t say in my comment I think this is sexual assault. Clearly they both are into it. I’m more incredulous, If anything.
If BOTH of you are still harbouring feelings for your respective exes, what the fuck are you doing. Neither of you are ready for a real relationship, plain and simple.
I don't think she's toxic, she just has healing she needs to do. She really wants love, but wants the right kind of love, so puts everything into it. It's common and easy to think women can be 'crazy', but we all are/can be to some extent. If I were you, I'd encourage that independence and therapy. She's still very young, so physically emotions are still higher than older years and therapy can help sort those emotions out.