Looking past the age issue, you should definitely tell your boyfriend before his brother flips it and says you were the inappropriate one. Seen it happen may times before
OPs GF strikes me as the kind of person who grew up very sheltered and has never had to face or witness difficult decisions around caring for someone and the day to day scenarios that entails.
Reminds me of a girl I went to highschool with who refused to do CPR because it's “yucky” despite the fact it can and does literally save lives.
Suggest to him to see a doctor. If he doesn't want that, there is nothing you can do. You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. If he doesn't want to be helped you need to put yourself first and do what's best for you, whatever that might be.
Say something funny “I can’t decide this. You are both perfect. You’ll have to fight to the death. And go…” ??
Looking past the age issue, you should definitely tell your boyfriend before his brother flips it and says you were the inappropriate one. Seen it happen may times before
OPs GF strikes me as the kind of person who grew up very sheltered and has never had to face or witness difficult decisions around caring for someone and the day to day scenarios that entails.
Reminds me of a girl I went to highschool with who refused to do CPR because it's “yucky” despite the fact it can and does literally save lives.
Suggest to him to see a doctor. If he doesn't want that, there is nothing you can do. You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. If he doesn't want to be helped you need to put yourself first and do what's best for you, whatever that might be.