If she’s happy and having fun why does it matter? My bf doesn’t smoke but I do and he’s fine with it. Maybe tell her to give you a heads up? If I were her I’d definitely think you were being unreasonable but I’d accommodate stuff like that.
Does he make sure that you get regular self care time?
I would take this as a positive. He can do kid duty and make dinner when he gets home and you can go for a walk, read a book, have a shower, get your hair done or whatever you want, every day. On his days off, you also take time off. If he complains, remind him that you want to take care of yourself, and this is how you do it. Though he shouldn't complain about parenting his own children of course.
it absolutely wasn’t her place to tell and it definitely wasn’t your place to expect that information from her, regardless of how close y’all are.. YTA
Definitely agree. Because ur supposed to know this shit is unacceptable. I may not be able to stop him at the time bt lord knows I'd probably kill him as soon as he sleeps.
This makes the naive solution mire likely but the devil is in the detail and there's a whole list of things you would need to know. I'm assuming you are posting on here because you are struggling to accept what you were told?
Coke addict. I'm not sure what you expect
Then just move on with your life. ..and never turn back…evn though you have to turn back from time to time
He’s a fucking idiot. You are just dumb. Both of you get in the bin.
You sir are a piece of ?
If she’s happy and having fun why does it matter? My bf doesn’t smoke but I do and he’s fine with it. Maybe tell her to give you a heads up? If I were her I’d definitely think you were being unreasonable but I’d accommodate stuff like that.
Does he make sure that you get regular self care time?
I would take this as a positive. He can do kid duty and make dinner when he gets home and you can go for a walk, read a book, have a shower, get your hair done or whatever you want, every day. On his days off, you also take time off. If he complains, remind him that you want to take care of yourself, and this is how you do it. Though he shouldn't complain about parenting his own children of course.
it absolutely wasn’t her place to tell and it definitely wasn’t your place to expect that information from her, regardless of how close y’all are.. YTA
Definitely agree. Because ur supposed to know this shit is unacceptable. I may not be able to stop him at the time bt lord knows I'd probably kill him as soon as he sleeps.
When do you see her?
This makes the naive solution mire likely but the devil is in the detail and there's a whole list of things you would need to know. I'm assuming you are posting on here because you are struggling to accept what you were told?