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That's very true, I don't think it would be a very well kept secret, either that or he wouldn't believe me at all. I never knew the way I grew up wasn't normal until a few years ago and didn't know the full story until my parents split so maybe finding someone to talk to would be a good idea and might help me sort my head out, I just wanted to quickly vent. Thank you :))))))
He can just be downright nasty sometimes and honestly, it depends on what kind of mood he's in. It's always a crapshoot. If everything is going his way and he's super happy then nothing I do is wrong. I brace myself for some kind of criticism but he's just super sweet. Yet on days when something went wrong at work or his back hurts (like it did last night) then watch out. Everything I do is wrong. I walk too loud, I keep too much stuff on the bathroom sink, I load the dishwasher in correctly, fold clothes incorrectly.
Hi there, verbal abuse is a really bad sign and if anything he needs to self reflect on that thoroughly and until that happens you two shouldn't be together.
However i cannot say that hes wrong in saying you've cheated on him. Take this information as more so for your next relationship rather than this one. Emotional cheating is a very common thing that most people undermine, sharing your deep affection like that can easily get messy and in a monogamous relationship no one should be having bonds like you did with that friend. Flirting whether it be “light” or “obscene” is still flirting, its like saying you didn't cheat because it was only foreplay and playful cunnilingus that never went anywhere. It was simply something you wanted to keep doing that while not okay and definitely on the subtle side was still a nono for a relationship.
You also lied about it by saying you got rid of this friend showing that you acknowledged it wasn't okay and then going behind their back and talking to them anyway.
Currently with all the information you've given in the paragraph i do not see any avenue to improve the relationship…he is negatively impacting your mental health with his undeniably abusive way of communicating to you. Ultimately if you two do resolve your current hickup you'd have to:
Get him to acknowledge his way of communicating to you is abusive and make him strive to change.
Acknowledge that you absolutely did cheat on him and strive to improve yourself as well.
Thats just my two cents though, hopw i was able to help with an outside view
You got suckered.
You're fucked dude.
Look, this thing probably should have ended four years ago. I’m sorry to be this harsh but no one is meant to be with the person they were with in high school for the rest of their life. I’m genuinely very sorry this is so very hot for you — I went through something similar, and it sucks. But it’s time to go out there and have some fun. In a few years you’ll meet the actual person you’re meant to be with after you’ve lived life a little bit, you’ll settle down, and you won’t get divorced at age 30 like you would have had you stayed with this person. I know it’s very hot but it’s over with her, it’s time to seize the day and find out who you really are and what YOU want for yourself.
Was there any date on this note. Could be something from his past that he forgot it was there.
you could also talk with him asking if he ever had a strong crush on someone before and how he dealt with it. Just chatting back and forth he then could mention her name..i just had an idea pretend he said her name while he was sleeping and ask him who is this person.
Okei, easy peasy. Leave him. Show his mom the texts and tell her your relationship with his son is over. There is nothing for you to stay on his deathbed for. Seriously, he is dying you are THE LAST PERSON HE WSNTS TO SEE, THE GIRL HE CHEATED ON.
I think your third point is most likely. Didn’t see it that way. Thanks for the advice. I know what i gotta do know
That was a shithouse move on his part. You have every reason to be upset over this.
Tomorrow once he's sober, you need to sit him down and tell him in future he can't be changing plans last minute like that.
First, I think your sexuality bears examination as you seem to be bisexual but heteroromantic, not “straight”. Second, this is why even tho I have the same sexual/romantic outlook as you I don’t sleep with friends. It always gets messy IME. Good luck OP.
Break up with him bc he’s raping you.
It always takes time after having a baby to get back to normal. My partner and myself barely had any sex the first year after having both our kids.
It's a really weird adjustment to go from boobs are fun and sexy, to boobs are milk machines and now belong to my baby. I breastfed for 17 months with my first, and 23 months with my second. I was very glad to get my boobs back once I stopped breastfeeding, but while they were feeding my babies, I didn't really want my partner grabbing at them aswel.
It takes a lot out of you when you feel like your boobs don't belong to you anymore. No matter what you are doing, baby being hungry comes first.
Once your wife has felt like she has all of her body back, it will be able to make that switch back to boobs being fun again. You are still allowed to like boobs, but it's just too much for her right now that her baby wants her boobs all the time, and so do you. She just wants her boobs to belong to her.
She has not shut down your sex life. She has said she is still open to sex, but that she's uncomfortable with her boobs being used in a sexual way right now. I think that's a perfectly normal request while breastfeeding. It is her body after all, and you need to respect that. A year is not a long time in terms of your lifetime together. Her body has been through a lot.
Run don’t walk.
What kind of guy would want to get serious with the girl who would do this to a sister? Plus then he would have to see the sister around? No guy wants that. She's delusional. He probably slept with her bc she resembles the sister who won't sleep with him and he's using this as a way to cut her off.
Remind me! 30 days
they’re all sharing a room, so this wouldn’t be an option for OP. that said, this is good info to share, thank you.
If a man has to pick between 2 women, unfortunately, the majority goes to easier and less intelligent. It can leave you a lil vulnerable and ego-busted, but smart girls like you will realize that you'd never settle happily for being an option or feeling 2nd best so, men like this do you a favor. You smarter girls or just high-value women do have a tougher time dating because y'all know your worth and y'all know that if y'all's an option, y'all not the ones. These kinds of women know the shit they're willing to deal with and will allow their heart to break in the present to insure a happier future with people more compatible. So, while it may be a bit more difficult when you do choose people, you choose the ones that are usually the best people for you at the time. You have more fulfilled relationships in this respect, so there's that to think on if it's you or somebody you care about that's going through this. Big hugs, do not let 1 out of billions change your self-worth.
Yes of course, no one said it was going to be easy. If you are not willing to step up,be ready to be a doormat the rest of your life, buddy.
It creates an argument because you allow it to. There is no argument there, she's messing up with your work, you take action. She starts an argument, you state that you do what you do because of her and her irrational and unreasonable ways. She can either improve, or suck it up, but you dont argue, yo stay firm.
catfish…
??? Thank you.
I believe OP has blocked me. OP is too deep in The Fog to see clearly. I hope the veil is lifted from their eyes soon, for the sake of of the mental health of everyone involved in this situation.
Girl….really now? Make that man eat the box daily and see how his tune changes.
I earn a little less than the established minimum wage, which in my country is about 600 dollars a month, I earn 540 dollars, I know it sounds little, but hey, we all know how currencies change
I'm from Mexico, more precisely a state called Sinaloa, here mental health is almost a taboo and it's generally very expensive, about 50 dollars each session, again, it doesn't sound like much but it's 10% of my salary just per session
And obviously if there is someone in this thread who can help, I am more than open to trying to change this, which is what I want the most
I could understand a ONS or something short but 4 years. No way there is no affair fog that lasts that long.
Yea he’s a creep.
Both of you need to stop stringing each other along.