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I agree with you!! Something is up! My husband and I have been together 11 yrs and he still tells me I’m sexy, beautiful ( to him) haha. All the time.
I think the question is why he wants to say cruel things to make you feel insecure.
Dear OP,
If you want to cuddle, come, cuddle with me. I love cuddling too ???
Bringing him over tomorrow to give him all what I have. Printed out everything.
thank you so much for this I really appreciate it this is great advice!
I'm going to try my best 🙂
Usually I say dont contact when a relationship is over. In your case i suggest Send him a copy of the letter. Hopefully he will learn what his mom is doing to his relationships moving forward
Yay! I’m above average in something!! But seriously I didn’t know that, huh, thanks for sharing that.
He always liked to do his own things with friends or alone, but we did a lot together as well, and I also had my own things I did alone, I think that’s pretty normal. It’s honestly like something snapped inside of him, all of our friends and family are a little shook that he just took off one day, nobody saw this coming. So no, there weren’t any signs I think, to me it seemed normal to have your own activities as a couple.
He's extremely comfortable with unprotected sex, boys can't get pregnant after all.
Ultimately if you don’t want to go, don’t. But there is something you should consider.
A very large majority of events held by adults are drinking events. I don’t like it either, but that’s how it is. Alcohol is very ingrained in our society. Maybe you just want to wait until you’ve been sober for longer to go to such events, but the problem will remain. Eventually you are going to have to come to terms with the fact that you’re gonna be going to a lot of events with people drinking. And you are either gonna have to be able to live with that, or not go to any event anymore.
Also ask your SIL if there are any non-alcoholic beverages. Maybe specifically ones you want. If shes any kind of family material, she’ll arrange it for you.
It’s time for you to get well acquainted with your hands
I just want to say that moving in with a 20 year old boyfriend is an outright terrible idea. As far as your dad, I think it greatly depends on your culture and other factors to get a better picture. He sounds overbearing, not I'm sure in his eyes he's looking out for you.
Damn.
I guess I needed this. Everyone close to me has always told me to not be such a sucker, but…
Should I at least try reaching out again, to get confirmation? Or should I just… stop talking to them?
You realize he could seriously hurt you, right? If he’s in the state of mind where he might shoot himself it’s very possible he’d try to take you with him. Go to the police. Immediately.
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I can accept that, yeah. We were putting away groceries and I found it and before throwing it just looked at it. I know she hates Red Bulls and I was just curious. But I do see how that could be the case. I need to work on myself on that part. Prior to this with our rocky month we both agreed that therapy was a good idea for us both to be better with our habits and behaviors.
“I asked her if she cheated on me”
Of course she did, and is likely why she moved out in the first place.
Well I hope you learned a lesson and you put that ex way back in your past and block her . mosca muerta right there. She probably spun a huge story because she may have thought you wanted to rekindle something and was angry.
Send your ex a letter apologizing and explaining everything on your side and maybe that will thaw her. Or you could go big and send musicians to serenade her with an apology.idk.
You obviously dump her my guy
Sense* come on, get it together.
This.
You can try and work on it but odds are it will never be the same. It might get better but i wouldnt count on it.
Lot of women saying things like doing sexual things without wanting sex or do more chores lol…like if im doing all these things you want am i getting what i want in bed?….probably not. Its always the same. Men do this dance and pony show in hopes they will get whatever affection the women can be bothered to give. Dont have needs because men aren't allowed those we have to repect boundaries and put our desires in a box and bury that shit in the backyard.
Truth is if they still desires sex and their partners they would put more of an effort in as well but so many women willing to let their sex lives fail if they dont get everything they want.
Sexual desire he to be their for both parties to want to work at it. If one shuts down they didnt fight very naked did they? People invest their time in whats important to them…enough said
The reason why she ended it is because i was to heavy and she can't handel it.
If you do reach out, keep in mind what she did wasn’t ok either. when a friend is struggling you help them, and if they need more help then you can give or if things get to heavy and they’re leaning on you too much, you speak up for your needs, work out a compromise, or set boundaries, you don’t end the friendship. If you become friends again, make sure moving forward that she agrees to that or next times things get rough again, she might bale on you again, and then what’s the point of having a friend if they bale every time it gets hot.
Yeah this is the way.. the predator isn't committing a crime, but if the brother seriously hurts him or kills him, then he's going to jail.. then the predator will just swoop back in.. the issue is with OPs sister being vulnerable to grooming and that's where the focus should be.. even if the predator gets spooked out, OPs sister is still vulnerable to being preyed on by other older men
I agree with this. Going back is more of the same and you'll end up walking on eggshells for the rest of your marriage
Do you think she'll get back to me or do you think I'm being ghosted?
I’ll say it like this. If it were me, I’d have no reason to talk to Alex, there would be no need for me to even question it. If Alex tried to talk to me I’d give him weird looks. If he kept pressing I’d say fuck you Alex and walk away with Alex standing there wondering wtf did I do. ? Alex.
Yeah maybe sex drive is just crazy LOL I don't shave so yeah I think it was a pretty big difference
You should probably let him break up with you and move on with your life. It doesn’t sound healthy at all…maybe try again later on if he realizes what a d bag he’s being rn…
This is a good consideration, and shouldn't be downvoted, but ultimately that's the wife's problem not OPs. I suppose the safest and most honourable thing all round is to find a way to tell the wife discreetly so the guy isn't alerted to the fact. Then the wife can decide what to do with the information.
The wife's health and safety is already at risk. Who knows how many women he's cheating with, he could give her an STD and she wouldn't suspect him
Make her take a pregnancy test. She's likely lying that she's pregnant, telling you that condoms don't matter in the hopes that she will actually get pregnant after the fact.
I know you don't want to think the worse of her, but I have dated someone who tried to do exactly this to me before and the whole thing was in fact a fabrication. Get proof, do not let up, do not let her make you feel guilty for wanting proof. If she doesn't comply, leave. If a baby actually does materialize then you can get a paternity test and make decisions about how to handle it then.
The only downside is that X(32) is homeless and lives in his car, and is in the country illegally (I am in USA), and needs marriage papers so he can start working legally
I stopped reading at this point. You are still hooking up with losers who only want to use you. Please wise up. I don't think you understand human relationships very well, and I think you will find disappointment again and again. Have you considered just being single your whole life? It would be better than what these guys are doing to you.
I think it's more about the sudden, coincidentally timed LACK of a previously there, super common phone setting.
Summarized:
You had (and continue to have) an emotional affair with another student from school. Your boyfriend probably picked up on this, or at least on the idea that something was going on with your learning group. You pushed him away because you are no longer interested in him; he is pushing you away back because he detects that lack of interest.
In addition, your boyfriend wants to be a househusband, but you don't want a househusband.
You should have broken up long ago and saved everyone the anguish. The least you can do is break up now and tell him why so that he can move on.
I hadn’t thought of it like that before. However, I think they probably see it as a “no harm no foul” situation since it doesn’t negatively affect me at all to get a present I don’t want, right? So I don’t think it stems from them ignoring my desires, thankfully
I have a cert from an Ivy League program. It was a shorter program than the masters which I did in full elsewhere.
Thank you. I appreciate the positivity. So there is no chance she will want to ever get back with me or at least be back in my life? I appreciate keeping it positive once again. I am not doing this for her. I'm doing this for me. I just would like a chance to show her I am back to being who I was originally and for me to get to see the dogs again. If there's at all anyway to get her back I would do anything to prove it to her I want her back.
She’s bullying you and eroding your self confidence. Time to say goodbye to her
But he just kissed you or you woke up during sex?
You missed part of that story, you mean “your father got me pregnant but because I got pregnant just after he caught me sleeping at another man’s house he assumed the other man was the father and then I blocked him on everything and left town so he didn’t have the choice to see you grow up, but remember kids he’s the bad parent”
it honestly depends. Most of the time, the guy gets the hint after not getting a text, gets angry, and then gets over it before he sees her next. It works pretty well. I've only had a handful of men who come back around a few days later and demand to know why I never texted them.
She’s cheating.
She will never admit it.
First, focus on accepting to this reality. This will take time. Once you have accepted this reality, just let go.
Dude, it’s over. The talk was her letting you down gently. A lot of people get the “It’s not you, it’s me” talk, you are getting the “It’s not you, it’s the medication.”
She stays hours on end at this guys house, even overnight, and you are “scared of inserting drama”? She obviously isn’t. If they aren’t fucking already they probably will be very soon.
You’ve been together since she was barely an adult, people change over that time even without medication and mental health issues.
It’s time to move on. If you really care about her you would let her go. It’s time to talk openly.
She should feel bad if she let you down. It’s healthy. You suppressing shit like this, secretly holding it against her. That shit is gonna make things worse.
It’s not supposed to be comfortable
Thank you, yep I agree! To make things even just… i don’t know more confusing is that when I’m NOT working they sleep and chill!!! It’s just whenever I bring out my work stuff esp if it involves food, they won’t leave me alone.
No, not even a tiny bit
“He feels like I'm trying to force him.”
Because you literally are. He has told you how he feels about it, that he doesn't really enjoy it or want to do it and yet you keep bringing it up to him over and over. Why would you do that unless you wanted him to do it? Especially again, when you know what the answer is. That's sexual coercion and it's fucking gross.
Leave him. If you can't kick him out quite yet, do everything so that you can do it, or move out etc, however long it may last.
Do not stay in relationship with him, and do not act like you are with him anymore.
If he tries to reconcile, tell him you can consider, only once he quits this job. If he argues tell him, it is his choice, whether he wants to he with you or not, and he made such demand necessary.
Misophonia
Several things.
Tell landlady you will vacate apt. Move out, don't let dad move with you.
Your 30 years old, you don't listen to or pay for dad. He doesn't let you leave? How ? Just go.
If he physically stops you, call the cops.
This reads like a bad watt pad short story. I can’t believe how many people are eating this up.
I'm saying this the nicest way I can, but this way of talking here is probably very similar to the way your friends talk. You simply do not “hate racism” enough to see the kind of obvious racism that drives people away… As a reason to be driven away. Nothing you may say about how much you hate racism can fix that. As you said, your friends have many good qualities. They're not rotten to the core. If only “bad people” were racist it'd be much easier to put them together on an island and be done with it, they wouldn't have gotten to be your friend in the first place. That doesn't mean they're not so racist that they, I can not stress this enough, drive people away they've barely met. And you are racist enough to let them.
Seen a lot of posts in this sub recently that are along the lines of “my relationship is completely and utterly fucked, what do we do Reddit?”
I’m not really sure what you’re expecting here, or what answers you’re looking for but absolutely nothing in life should be this naked unless you want it to be.
Reddit isn’t qualified to fix these issues. Get professional help. If you don’t want to do that then just take the easy option and break up. There’s no shame in it, in fact the happiest I’ve ever been in my life was after a breakup of a toxic relationship that I forced myself to stay in and ‘fix’.
Anyway, good luck.
He was talking to womenswear very late at night on a social media with a bad reputation. He also agreed not to use it anymore when his gf mentioned not being happy about it. He admits even though he agreed to that, he still goes on it to talk to women. No wonder the gf has a trust issue. We are getting trickle truth out of him.
And no, you asked me if I was an adult as an under handed ad hominem. I am adult enough to notice that. I will tell you what else I am adult enough to do. I am adult enough to have learned a long long time ago not to be a black and white thinker. Therefore I am adult enough not to assume the following:
She obviously went back because of a bruised ego after being used. You read ALL this into the sentence “the guy trashed her. Then she come back to me”. Most adults where I come from see the statement as vague and full of multiple interpretations. Your interpretation is one of them. It could also mean she was abused by guy, and eventually got back with op, the guy could have cheated on her, she made her way back to OP, and so forth. We have no idea what she was thinking or why. Your interpretation is not the obvious one, the paragraph is absent of details necessary to demand it as the obvious one. We don’t even know the time frame between relationships, or who asked who back out.
”It’s obvious OP has low self esteem because he says he just can’t leave her and is doing everything to make her happy after she made it clear he is her backup plan.”
Only in a black and white thinking world is the phrase I can’t (which is all he said) an “obvious” indicator of low self esteem. In my half a century worth of adult experience, I have encountered many couples where one felt they couldn’t leave for numerous reasons, self esteem being one, but not the only one. I knew a very confident alpha male, A personality guy who didn’t leave a person he should have either, because the woman lived off him and had no life skills. As far as making her happy, after apologizing for being caught talking with women late at night after agreeing to not do that again, he apologized and acted like what a typical boyfriend acts like (for some reason you act like it’s above and beyond) but continued to sneak behind her back and go on the media, and still does. And I missed the part where she or even he made a clear and precise statement or action that showed him to be the back up plan. Could he be? Sure, it is possible you are accurate. But the info provide, which is very little at best, very vague at worst does not demand or beg your opinion and assessment to be the only possible conclusion.
”Any adult with a modicum of life experience would realize this.”
I don’t doubt that an adult with a modicum of life experience would have a very rigid sense of thinking. An adult with an abundance of life experience would not usually be so black and white, with such stringent room for interpretation, and take a post as vague as this one, and think they know with great certainty, all the ins and outs of this relationship, what someone did not share their side of the story is thinking or motivated by, diagnosing an OP because they simply can not perceive other possibilities for why they stay, demanding that only their interpretation is the only possible one with such great veracity that they try for sly back handed ad hominem when they realize another adult won’t get on board with it.
Meanwhile, we continue have a vague post, omitting many details, including circumstances of how he even wound up back with the girlfriend, never mind a time frame, who has trickled more facts in by later openly admitted to still doing the night chats with multiple women even though he promised not to anymore. This same person who also thinks singing a song together is cheating, and has yet to provide any proof at all that his gf did any more than singing while in a relationship with him. I don’t find it the least bit absurd or childish, or proof of lack of life experience for anyone to not jump to full on conclusions and interject narratives in this situation. If you want to think otherwise, I do not mind. You are not going to compel me to black and white think anymore than I can compel you to grey think. From this point on, thank you for your thought provoking discussion, much appreciated, but until I see much better quality of details, I will have to stand by my agreement to disagree with you. Good day and good night.
Not a native speaker of English. Does horrid mean horrible/disgusting here?