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This Q could have ended at “wh*re”. Don't date someone who makes you feel bad about yourself regardless of what else they're doing in life. You don't have to justify that he's just as bad as he says you are to know that this is a damaging association. You made the (common) mistake of believing that a cheater can change and you didn't identify his “love bombing” for the act of sociopathy it was. This is just a bad guy and you need to try to move on.
Ok but is he a hobo?
Kidding. These parents are delusional!
I initially stopped reading after the fourth bullet, because it answers your question on its own, which is yes.
To back up, I think people have a misconception on what a “rebound” is. It's not just the immediate person or people you date after ending a relationship. A rebound is someone one uses to fill a void when you're not over the other person.
In saying that, at first when she said she was over him, I was hoping to give you a positive response. But then she said that she's still talking to him until she meets someone. That's inherently problematic on so many fronts. It means you're clearly a rebound and what's worse is that it shows you she has co-dependency issues.
In short, run. You don't want to be in a situation like this. To circle back to me saying “initially,” I did in fact keep reading on. Put things into perspective. You both don't communicate or connect well. So why are you trying to force this? Good luck.
Well typing this shit out and rereading it made me realize I’ve just been putting off the inevitable. Now I need to figure out how to do it….
You are being selfish. You’re using your son as an excuse. The reality is that he will suffer being raised in a home as toxic as this. So you choosing to stay is you choosing to ignore the reality and continue on for whatever reason you are determined to.
Is it just that you don’t want to parent? Children go through nude situations like divorce all the time. You know good parents do? Put him in therapy and reassure him of your love.
You choosing to stay is for no one but you.
Welcome to life. I would avoid being in any place you may run into your ONS. If he learns of your indiscretion remind him that he dumped you and you had no idea that you would get reunited and you were vulnerable and not thinking clearly. Let him know it happened out of the blue and you do not even know him. That’s all you should do. Focus on the why you had the breakup and work naked to fix it. I hope you are able to just forget it happened and be a happy couple
Because it's a remarkably bad idea for her to do so.
She's not wrong for changing your mind and you're not wrong for not wanting to change your mind. It sounds like you've always been up front about it. People change their minds sometimes. Unfortunately it just means you're no longer compatible. If yiu get married just to please her you will likely regret it and end up resenting her at some point
Yea I've had a few conversations about it and it just seems to get worse. Also we talked of being poly and tried it once with a young lady but he didn't like he that much. I thought it became stressful tryna find a young lady we both like and ever since then the sex is like once a week. He claims he doesn't care if we're poly or not but it seems like he does. He's a good guy besides this buy it's starting to make me feel like something is wrong with me.
That’s a lot of right’s..
Anyway – he’s obviously being a jealous little baby. Ignore it, don’t give into it. Keep talking to your friends, keep being faithful and loyal, and if he argues, just tell him he’s being unreasonable and to get back to you when he’s done being silly.
Through jeans?
Seriously?
Unless she's Freddy Krueger, you seriously need some time alone to grow emotionally and physically.
That being said, in front of friends isn't cool.
And she has a drinking problem. Experience tells me alcohol isn't the only vice.
There's advice. Apply it.drunken stupidity, puking and hangovers is your future here.
Do you live! together? If so, would you be playing at your place or theirs? How often do you typically game? Have you ever argued about your gaming or other hobbies of yours?
My partner does DnD once or twice a week for 2-2.5 hours at a time with friends and your idea doesn't seem unreasonable to me, but I also don't online with him and there's no history of his gaming somehow interfering with our time together, so I'm just wondering if there's any missing context.
Also would be helpful to know why exactly she doesn't want you to play more than twice a month. Again, I don't think that's a reasonable request of hers, but maybe there's a sore spot or something.
Mainly because if you want a family, the older you get the more risk you will have during pregnancy and that is something many men consider in their choice of partner. You are also gonna compete with younger women who want family and since most men do not care about money or career, you are going to limit the numbers of potential partners not only by age but also by status.
It is something that is deep engraved in us, to be attracted to younger women and everyone denying that this is true for most men simply lies. Unlike a growing number of people believe, that is also not a bad thing. Its just a thing.
Exceptions proof the rule but how efficient would it be to base your future with family on a exception.
You’re throwing away your relationship.
Have good things in your life going on now and you won't be drawn to mourn the past.
Ditch hat bitch. Straight up no elaboration required. She is a HO.
That's just life. If you keep this up, you may end up needing inpatient care too. You could possibly lose your relationship as well and those things are what you need to be more worried about. Well wishes though Hun.
Honestly, this doesn't sound like sleep walking to me. Looking up porn? That's so specific. Sleep walking is weird, chaotic, illogical. His behavior is linear, guided, on point. You might not want to consider this, but “sleepwalking” just sounds like an excuse. What's worse is you seem to be more concerned about this behavior than him.
Please be safe. At least sleep in a seperate locked room for the time being. This can escalate. You're not safe.
Of course. You can’t put a timeline on healing from trauma. Just be straight with them about disengaging from the friendship.
Best of luck with everything
I scrolled down your page and two years ago you posted about dating some guy who wasn't showing effort.
A while back you posted that people ignore you when you're with the guy you're with now.
Now you're posting that you have a time slot three hours before Gizmo has to stop eating.
Why do you keep choosing bad situations?
I recommend starting therapy NOW while you're still under 30, figuring out why you make these bad choices in partners.
Or – hear me out – maybe you could start doing your own thing and taking more care of yourself WITHOUT abandoning your wife and kids?
I meant going to a club sorry in Spanish clubs are called dances. But you’re right he is happy hanging out with me. And true even though I know her I don’t need to hang out with it’s his friend.
I bet not being constantly shamed from childhood for hygiene and your looks adds to that. Looks policing are starkly different between genders. Girls get sent home because of their bra strap showing while boys can take off their dirty Tshirt during class and no one bats an eye.