You should try to record him. Pretend you are trying to make peace , and tell him something like ” last time, when you said i was …. ,It really hurt I love [your SO] , I know you also care about her, but i want you to know that I am not a… And I'm not going to break up with her like you said i should When he repeats it ,or calls you worse things, you have them show it to her in getting off him and make him deny it
What does that even mean? I know you’re not saying you don’t think therapy exists. You think it’s not effective or helpful at all?
You should try to record him. Pretend you are trying to make peace , and tell him something like ” last time, when you said i was …. ,It really hurt I love [your SO] , I know you also care about her, but i want you to know that I am not a… And I'm not going to break up with her like you said i should When he repeats it ,or calls you worse things, you have them show it to her in getting off him and make him deny it