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I have done this even before meeting him, I have ADHD and depression and dealing with things is just difficult for me, I can’t sleep, eat or even get out of bed when I feel really bad like yesterday
That is a very good first set of steps, since getting the other person to do the work is often a big part of the battle. My final piece of (getting) old lady advice is, always listen to your gut. Even when sometimes it tells us things we may not want to hear. I truly wish you luck.
It sounds like you're having a naked time with a few issues. Not just the gift giving, but you feel like your giving 100% all the time and not getting the same effort. That's a super fair feeling. I don't really get the other commenters a bit. I don't think this is an unrealistic ask at all, getting your spouse a gift on a holiday is super basic. Having ADD is not an excuse to just skip out on this. Especially since it sounds like you have made it clear it's important to you.
I think saying “don't bother” was a bit much but I can understand how your upset. you might want to just say I'm giving you a seven day grace period to make this shit right. Your an adult and if you don't treat me like you care I'm going to stop thinking you do. I don't know. That sucks. It's fine to be upset just try to not say anything you'll regret.
Being caught masturbating is embarrassing, regardless of the situation. There’s a good chance he’s embarrassed about being caught. If that’s the case, just move on. He may go to a different room to avoid waking you up. However, if you suspect he’s having video sex with another woman, that’s a huge difference. Don’t start throwing accusations Willy-nilly, wait until you have more proof. For the time being I’d take this at face value, you caught your man jerking it, and he’s embarrassed.
Her betrayal says nothing about your worth as a person. Many people struggle with object permanence wherein without the person right in front of them, they might as well never know them. For example, someone angry will still respect their partner. Someone with a lack of object permanence will throw respect out the window and make you their biggest enemy just because they’re upset with you.
I reckon she had some resentment from you being gone or things she never knew how to talk to you about, some personal or emotional issues that she doesn’t know how to handle on her own, and decided to try and get validation from someone else.
You are worthy, deserving of love, and just as good as anyone else. Don’t let this hurt your spirit because you are better now without someone who can’t see you wen you’re away.
I wish in the future for you to find someone who values you regardless of absence and will respect your autonomy and isn’t a codependent, external validating type. You deserve better. She is deserving of her own sympathy in different ways, as nobody plans to be a bad person, she had her rationalizations and remember they say everything about her actions and decision making and nothing about who you are as a person.
Cool opinion, but to redirect, this thread is about OP, not you. Not sure how to interpret your comment as advice other than “just think the way I think”, or something like that. ?
She’s an adult, you can have a relationship with her in any capacity you wish. Want her to move in with you if you leave? Ask her, not like her father can legally stop her, might be financial issues or something but you’re both grown women. You don’t need his permission.
I have done this even before meeting him, I have ADHD and depression and dealing with things is just difficult for me, I can’t sleep, eat or even get out of bed when I feel really bad like yesterday
You do whatever you have to do. There are support systems that will help you.
That is a very good first set of steps, since getting the other person to do the work is often a big part of the battle. My final piece of (getting) old lady advice is, always listen to your gut. Even when sometimes it tells us things we may not want to hear. I truly wish you luck.
It sounds like you're having a naked time with a few issues. Not just the gift giving, but you feel like your giving 100% all the time and not getting the same effort. That's a super fair feeling. I don't really get the other commenters a bit. I don't think this is an unrealistic ask at all, getting your spouse a gift on a holiday is super basic. Having ADD is not an excuse to just skip out on this. Especially since it sounds like you have made it clear it's important to you.
I think saying “don't bother” was a bit much but I can understand how your upset. you might want to just say I'm giving you a seven day grace period to make this shit right. Your an adult and if you don't treat me like you care I'm going to stop thinking you do. I don't know. That sucks. It's fine to be upset just try to not say anything you'll regret.
Just throwing this out there – lots and lots of women like, or even prefer, a little extra on their men.
Being caught masturbating is embarrassing, regardless of the situation. There’s a good chance he’s embarrassed about being caught. If that’s the case, just move on. He may go to a different room to avoid waking you up. However, if you suspect he’s having video sex with another woman, that’s a huge difference. Don’t start throwing accusations Willy-nilly, wait until you have more proof. For the time being I’d take this at face value, you caught your man jerking it, and he’s embarrassed.
Her betrayal says nothing about your worth as a person. Many people struggle with object permanence wherein without the person right in front of them, they might as well never know them. For example, someone angry will still respect their partner. Someone with a lack of object permanence will throw respect out the window and make you their biggest enemy just because they’re upset with you.
I reckon she had some resentment from you being gone or things she never knew how to talk to you about, some personal or emotional issues that she doesn’t know how to handle on her own, and decided to try and get validation from someone else.
You are worthy, deserving of love, and just as good as anyone else. Don’t let this hurt your spirit because you are better now without someone who can’t see you wen you’re away.
I wish in the future for you to find someone who values you regardless of absence and will respect your autonomy and isn’t a codependent, external validating type. You deserve better. She is deserving of her own sympathy in different ways, as nobody plans to be a bad person, she had her rationalizations and remember they say everything about her actions and decision making and nothing about who you are as a person.
Good luck friend
Cool opinion, but to redirect, this thread is about OP, not you. Not sure how to interpret your comment as advice other than “just think the way I think”, or something like that. ?
Want a sure fire way to make it up to her?
Give up the drinking.
Because as she has found, when you get drunk you turn into an arsehole. And no one wants to be around an arsehole.
She’s an adult, you can have a relationship with her in any capacity you wish. Want her to move in with you if you leave? Ask her, not like her father can legally stop her, might be financial issues or something but you’re both grown women. You don’t need his permission.