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She's also pregnant so her poor bastard boyfriend is screwed no matter what.
Addressing this is like addressing any other major problem in life. If you focus on the problem rather than focusing on what caused the problem the problem will just repeat itself.
Just step back from the physical part for a few weeks to focus on loving her. Go on some dates without physical expectation. Be kind to her. Start taking some time with the day to just talk to her. These are probably the same things that you did to initially win her over.
You might think that you're doing enough but something is obviously wrong.
Thank you for your honest opinion. I have started actively looking for a therapist to help me set some things straight in my head.
Thank you for the pillow advice, actually very helpful because he keeps rolling and making himself dizzy.
And thank you for the advice as well. Sticking him on the couch if there is a next time sounds much better. I honestly doubt he will drink like this again though, he is not having a fun time.
Yes this! Op this!
Is this a case of the guy marrying the next gf in 2 months?
Sweetheart, if you are really really set on being married, leave this guy. He wont propose. If he really badly wanted to marry u like u want to marry him, it would have happened by now.
My ex was almost the exact same way with me. Relationships and life are never perfect, and shit often just happens. There will be many many times where one or the other won’t be able (emotionally, physically, whatever) to have sex. Your partner is showing you two things; one, they are unable to communicate their feelings to you; and two, that they think their needs are more important than yours. This attitude WILL bleed over in to other aspects of your relationship. It is possible to overcome these things if the individual is willing to listen and learn and grow, but many people don’t. In my case, my ex did not listen learn or grow, so it ended. I unfortunately wasted 4 years with someone who didn’t deserve my time. 10 months is not all that long, so think long and naked about whether or not this is the kind of person you want to commit your life to.
You should cut your losses (time). Don't fall for the sunken cost fallacy and don't waste your last healthy child bearing years with this guy.
Let's be frank, you know it's not going to get easier to raise a child from hereon.
I waited until I was 28, had my daughter when I turned 29. I'm 30 y.o with a 1.5 y.o and she's kicking my ass (in the best and worst way). I used to play soccer and other sports and my SO (29) used to compete in martial arts (MMA), she's faster and stronger and more energetic than us both combined!
If you truly want a family and you want to be able to raise your kid and be there with her or him growing up, playing and running and learning, the longer you wait, the more you'll be resentful towards your husband.
To me yes it would
how did he assault you?
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I think you misunderstood the post. OP is no longer pregnant
Yeah this isn’t looking great on either side. You’re insecure, he’s crossing boundaries. It might be best to let this one go
The heart wants what the heart wants. I've known loads of couples who dates for so many years only to realize they never even loved their partner, not once. Don't settle for someone you have no genuine, romantic love for. So many people settle nowadays because they're too scared of real feelings, because it might be “too complicated” and end up being so fucking miserable later on for the rest of their lives.
I'd definitely tell your partner right now how you're feeling. And that you're confused and need to think about what steps to take next. So you don't blindside him if you do decide to leave, that'd be unfair. Hell, maybe he has noticed you feeling this way for years already. Just talk about it, for both your sakes.
Yes, they are different, which is why I said the sex or the gender associated with it wherein “it” = the sex they were assigned at birth and the gender associated with it = the societal expectations of that gender. I am not conflating the two.
I am done trying to elaborate as it is clear to me that you refuse to understand it and not that you simply do not. Goodbye.
I'm guessing he didn't want his buddy to be confused the next time they meet and dude is dressed like a dog.
You gotta man up and tell her straight up if she can't cover 50% she has to go
Um no.
most people who open marriages up don't think about if they can handle it.
they just want a free pass to cheat and think their partner will remain monogamous even though it's now open. they don't actually think their partners would sleep with other people meanwhile they get a free pass to cheat.
then they get surprised when their partner actually sleeps with someone. LMFAO.
hmm yeah maybe so. But i asked her about it because i also told her it probably won't work out and he just fell in love with a girl that was taken and she was unhappy with us and liked him a lot too..first as a friend and once she knew his feelings she began liking him in a different way.
Your girlfriend is an idiot
This has to be troll bait. Too obvious.
I assume you will choose your girlfriend over your friend, because you're obviously going to have to choose.
Yes yes yessssss!!!!! All of this! What’s the hobby?!
To him, I’ll know if he isn’t actually mad because he’ll just end up talking to me like normal. He said he’d ask me why I wasn’t talking to him, and I’d just say oh i thought you were mad at me. Then if he is mad, he’ll probably ignore me and act cold for a bit. But after he gets his space, he really will circle back to the issue and explain himself once he’s got time to cool down and get over it. I guess the part that bothers me is that in that span of time, could be a few minutes or hours, and if I’m particularly sensitive that time of the month, I might have already cried my eyes out. After that fight though, I’m now kind of terrified whenever I mention or allude to him maybe being mad, sometimes it slips my mind when I’m normally talking and I get anxious because he told me not to ask him that. But he doesn’t get mad at that though in normal conversation, just if he actually is mad.
SO FUCKING TRUE!
Hall passes aren't real you dope. Well done, you failed the test and will soon be available to date your colleague, guilt free (also, another bad idea.. don't shit where you eat)
This is honestly so fucking gross. He won’t see a dentist. He won’t see a doctor. He’s just actively rotting from the inside out. I don’t know why you are waiting until June. Jesus Christ.
Means she cant take his money by divorcing him doesn't mean she wont whilst with him
Then don't.
Hey OP. I won’t bother reiterating all the good points other commenters have made.
But I do want to say that I would have raised my eyebrows at your gift too. Fitness related gifts can be really touchy because they are the sort of gifts guys suggest other guys buy as a way to hint their partner needs to lose weight. You see it quite a lot of this thread “My GF is getting fat” “But her some nice workout clothes and suggest you go hiking together”.
Your post gave me those vibes.
Now I get that $600 perfume is insane. But if I were you I would have got her a cheaper perfume instead.
Is it possible your girlfriend would have been satisfied with that? Maybe it’s not the $$ but the fact you got her a “fitness” gift?
Say this to him
Calm animal service and make sure the dig isn't with this guy anymore.
Who does this to a puppy?
Report him for animal abuse because you have witness him. Hear him. You have seen the dog.
If you can't take the dog, then let animal service place the dog somewhere else.
This guy can't be around this dog a second longer. Don't wait. Do it! F this GUY!!!
NTA but also not compatible and you are being taken advantage of. She sounds like a spoiled brat, especially for making you feel bad because she says you made her feel bad. Don't feel bad and control your finances. Unless you want a life where you will constantly struggle with finances, move on from this one. Most marriages fail because of financial strain and differences on how money is spent or saved. You aren't even married and it's already a huge issue. It doesn't get better!
Don't forget to dump the “best friend” who OP was scared was going to have an affair with her husband
It's nice that you're able to talk about this with him and be supportive. It's not uncommon for a man to lose his erection when wearing a condom. But, I'd definitely recommend seeing a doctor. I started having ED when I was in my early thirties. It was naked on me and my wife. I was in good shape, and we were both scared it was a mental issue. I went to the doctor and asked to try viagra. My doctor made me do a complete physical prior to subscribing me to an ED medication, and I found out I congenital hypertrophic cardiomyopathy. After I started treatment, my erection problem was gone. I'm 46 now, and when I look back on the experience, I feel blessed that I had a supportive partner like you who cared. And I'm happy to say we're still together and our sex life is amazing.
I’m not sure where you’re getting the idea that I’m religious. Human life is sacred especially from a scientific standpoint. Moreover, when I use the expression hate the sinner not the sin I’m using it as an expression.
“I don’t want to break up because god knows how long it will take to find a new girlfriend”
D!ck move OP. Sorry. But it is.
You aren’t a bad guy for not wanting kids.
BUT you are a bad guy for trying to keep a relationship with a woman who clearly does, whose biological clock is ticking, while knowing you may not want them at all… and why? BECAUSE YOU CAN’T BE BOTHERED TO FIND A NEW GF.
Like I said, d!ck move.
Do her a favour, and break up with her. She needs to find someone who is on the same page as her, and that ain’t you.
As an older brother to a younger sister in her 2nd year residency:
CONGRATULATIONS, DOC!! You better walk that stage! And hire a photographer to take some bad ass graduation photos of yourself to look back on!
Also, be nice to your x-ray technologists 😀
Do you wear prom dresses for graduation? Which country are you from?
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When you feel like you two are flirting, does she also think that it’s flirting or what makes it flirting to you? Sometimes girls are more affectionate than men are with their friends, do you think it’s possible she doesn’t think she is flirting or is she acting differently than how she is with her other friends?
Tell him to become a mumble rapper, then no one will know what he's saying.
Why is these issues common with age gaps of 5+ years.
It’s best if you remove yourself from the situation. Don’t feel bad about it either. Most people would not be able to handle something like that.
The one penis rule is bullshit and sexist. I won’t even date men with this sort of thinking.
First, I want you to know that I understand how hurt you are and that finding out your husband used to “lend you out” to his brother is a huge shock to you, and that you might feel like you have been raped/tricked into sexual activities that you would not have consented to had you known it was in fact his brother, not him. I want you to know these feelings are valid, and you have all the right in the world to feel that way.
With that being said, though, I feel it's important to factor in that the male brain works a little bit different than the female brain. Most females tend to have the right side of their brain as the dominant side, while most men tend to have a dominant left side. What this means, easily explained, is that women tend to see things from an emotional perspective, while men tend to see them from a logical perspective.
One can from a logical perspective argue that since you weren't able to tell the two brothers apart when the brother was pretending to be your husband back when he slept with you, it was consensual on both parts (you and his, and also your husbands) and therefore no big deal. If you see the situation from a more emotional perspective, and factor in the fact that you were in fact tricked, and that this act now makes you feel betrayed and lied to, it becomes a very big deal. But from a logical, non-emotional perspective, it isn't.
The same can be said for the argument about having a child with your husband's brother. Would your husband be fine with you sleeping with a stranger, or a friend? Most likely not. But he's fine with you sleeping with the brother, because in this case you're not sleeping with him for pleasure, but for the sake of getting pregnant. From a logical perspective, your husband's twin brother is the closest thing to your husband genetically, and if the two of them are identical twins (one egg literally clones itself in the womb thus creating an exact copy of itself), then the baby will genetically be just as much your husband's DNA as it would if it was his actual baby. No one would be able to tell if the baby belonged to your husband or his brother, because the two brothers share the exact same DNA. So from a logical perspective it makes perfect sense to use the brothers sperm to create a baby since your husband's sperm can't be used.
The only problem is the emotional part of it.
Just so we're absolutely crystal clear here, I am not in any way trying to tell you that you should do something you're uncomfortable with. Nor am I trying to tell you that your feelings are wrong.
Also, before making a decision to have the brother's baby, you all need to think about the following:
Should you and your husband ever divorce, which of the brothers will be paying you child support, assuming the child lives with you? It is, after all, the brothers who is the child's biological father.
If your husband wants to be the child's father he will have to legally adopt the child. This means that his brother will have to sign away his rights as the child's biological father. Are you sure this is something he's comfortable with?
Say the brother has children of his own. These children will then become your childs biological half siblings. Do you tell the children that they are siblings or do you keep the secret? How about the brother's wife?
Another reason is that IVF and sex aren't the only option, and if they'd have gone through 7 rounds of it they would know by that now.
IUI is a thing. Men ejaculate in a cup at a clinic, it gets “washed” and is then injected into a woman, via a syringe like device, after taking an ovulation stimulating shot. With the drugs and no insurance, it's like $700-$1200. A far cry from the $15000-$20000 that IVF costs. There are also at home versions of it that cost like $200. I smell BS as well.
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Same situation here – we moved in together after a month of talking and two months of exclusive dating. Very impulsive for me. After dating for 9 months, we got engaged. We eloped barely a year after we started dating.
Not a single moment of doubt on my end. If there’s doubt on his end, my husband has never raised it. We’ve also had some growing pains, but nothing significant that comes to the top of my mind.
If OP is having doubts, there’s a good chance they may not be compatible long-term.
This. Op, women have posted on here that their husband of 10+ years was caught recording their niece in the bathroom. That’s a decade of marriage. You’re in a brand new relationship.
You’re still at the point where you’re both showing off your best sides to each other. You don’t actually know him deep down yet.
We had agreed on him getting a vasectomy years ago, this just pushed him to finally do it