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Lmao, I went as Wednesday Addams some years ago, when the portrayal of her was as a white child.
I was in my 30's, 5'8 and 155 lbs and super Mexican.
Tell him he should go as Fester.
Maybe you should learn to deescalate and just ignore when she's being a bitch if you know it's going to happen once a month. Sounds like you're happy with her because she's usually agreeable, nice and, I'd bet, the one to deescalate when you start shit.
It takes two people to have an argument and one person can't always be the one avoiding arguments by being agreeable. Sometimes she's going to be a bitch or easily upset and you have to be the one to avoid the argument by letting it go or being vulnerable instead of hostile.
Sounds like you both need to work on healthier communication styles for when things aren't perfect.
Oh well makes sense but yeah dude it’s been a while, she clearly doesn’t spend a second thinking of you, don’t spend all this time thinking of her as much as it probably hurts
Of course, I was just spit balling to get the OP thinking.
How would her friends even be aware that she had a condom in her underwear?
I dont feel that way because the level of emotional intimacy we have i feel is much deeper than I’ve have ever had or have with anyone in my life. Even family.
Being suspected of SA can be extremely stressful for the suspect as well.
Would you treat this differently if this was a guy going down on her? Don’t for a second think this is different. Disrespect in the highest order from her.
It isn’t about you and it’s a work thing. Leave it be.
Ok
The DJ! If the party is big enough for a DJ it’s definitely not the small private party you are talking about. And beeing part of something big. Just as I said in my first message
Has he told you he’s not attractive to you? You need to tell him how you are feeling. If you have already and he doesn’t change then you should decide if you want to be with him instead of withholding sex. That just is immature and doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship to be in.
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Ahh yes, punishment by removing sex works so great and is so healthy in relationships
She sounds more insecure than “toxic” imo –
I'm so lucky to have you. You're so handsome. I love your eyes
You are far too creepy to be dating any woman. Work on your issues and grow up a bit before you, reading this made my skin crawl.
20 pounds and that's how he reacts?! He seems superficial. Maybe need to drop the weight of him and find someone who's not like that.
If you want to try to get that little bit of weight back off for yourself though, you don't need to spend 3+ hours daily in the gym. 30min-1hr of some sort of workout/exercise a few days a week is plenty. Even just going to for a walk counts.
That's also if there's nothing like thyroid disorder or something else medical happening too.
If you do want to stay with him, I'd suggest couples counseling. His lack of communication (and in your end too) for a year is not what makes a good relationship.
There's so many steps someone has to take to have sex with someone. It's not like she tripped and fell for one second. She talked to him, she saw him flirting, she went back with him, etc etc
Drunk or not is no excuse
Sorry
You are a young dude, always ask for consent, period. You can probably get her back though, make a grand gesture and be as apologetic as you are. And be better in the future.
They are all jealous because your glow up has been/ still is fantastic. Keep your foot on their necks while you live! a wonderful life. Their jealousy will eat them alive. It's time for a new group of friends.
Take this ad somewhere else
Is there no chance for her to forgive me? I’ve done nothing but good the whole entire year I just want one more chance to prove myself
Can't resist pointing out logical deficiencies that try to mask themselves in weird gaslighting claims.
Given that when you bring these things up she shows absolutely no interest in meeting you half way, I think that hoping to change these behaviors is unrealistic.
Consult with an Attorney and see if they can handle everything with the sale of the house and have all communication go through them. Then block him everywhere.
That's not a healthy, two sided relationship at all and you need to address it, and he needs to work to fixing it before it becomes an even bigger issue.
Accepting someone cheating on you is like rewarding a toddler with candy for bad behavior, all it does is set a precedent that you'll forgive her cheating.
I mean she got away with it for 6 years without OP knowing anything, what makes you think she won't step out again and OP will never know?
All legit suggestions. I hope OP takes this advice
Told you. Don’t worry, you’re young, that happens. Move on, hit the gym, study very hot, and everything will be ok.
No, I clearly said date.
UPDATE 2.0 He just packed a bag and left the house without talking to me further
I'm giving myself 2 weeks to wait and by then I'll at least just have a talk with her and come to a conclusion
That’s completely unacceptable and toxic behavior on MIL’s part.
Fiancé needs to deal with HER mother. If she cannot respect you in your own home, she is not welcome there. Boundaries. Set them and enforce them now, or she will only get worse.
Yeah, you kind of sound dumb
It’s very hot to hear and even harder to accept, but you cannot fix this. He is gripped by addiction, and since he seems unwilling to change or get help, he will likely drag you down with him more than he already has.
You really should leave this relationship. Love isn’t enough in cases like this. He needs to get professional help, and it’s not healthy for you to stay. I’m sorry.
No, because Betty chose to move away with Amanda, not OP or Amanda's fault. Betty made the choice for whatever her reasons were.
Oh good grief, the edit. WHAT THR HELL IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE?!?!
Well I would dump her because she's a manipulative liar. She lied and also made it a whole thing. It could have been forgotten if she hadn't dramatized the whole thing. I'd consider this a major red flag.
There really isn't many options here for you. You either pick the Instagram account or the Boyfriend. Pick wisely.
Let’s breakdown what happened.
So you’re asleep. Unable to move as someone who is having sex. Unable to have a conversation. Unaware of what’s going on.
He didn’t see how any of those things are necessary for having sex with your partner. He didn’t want any of those things. If he did, he would’ve woken you up. If he cared to have you involved, he absolutely would’ve woken you up.
…But he didn’t because you were just an object. You were just a way to get off.
Im so sorry babe. It’s rape.
I would absolutely talk to someone about it. While there’s some great comments and everybody seems to unanimously agree, actually talking about it helps you cope.
and it’s you want to get a group of people together to kick his ass, just let us know.
If you decide to stay with husband and deal with that horrible past thing. You can do a basic turkey Baster type thing.
I’m sure they must be some instructions live! somewhere. Though I wouldn’t be surprised if a doctor or other healthcare worker was willing to guide you.
I was going to post something similar but your story highlights my point. Some guys say they can get psst it but never do. And there is a good chance it will come up if they were friends.
Boundaries are not negotiated. They are things you state, and if they are violated, YOU are the one that has to do something. It’s up to you to enforce your boundary, usually by removing yourself from the situation where the thing you will not tolerate exists. If your boundary was something like not allowing people to curse or yell at you, you could enforce it by removing yourself from the room. But in this case, you would enforce it by removing yourself from the relationship. If you don’t, then it’s not a boundary. It’s just a request you’re trying to give more compelling power to by calling it a boundary, but it isn’t.
100% remove him from your social media. Keep that separate from your work. This is a solid life pro tip for everyone not just this guy
Start doing it back and say “I’m a woman. It’s gonna happen”. Or tell him that again no you’re not gonna tolerate that and if he wants to check out other women he can while single
She sounds like a sociopath. Don't date sociopaths. They will ruin your life.
This post is utter BS. There's no magic lookup app that could somehow search this woman's name in OP's phone, to find any of OPs contacts who have added her. Because the app then said that one contact had her added as John T. How would this app supposedly know what false name that a contact had added her under? No app can search that, nor return that kind of info
Prenups don't protect you anymore.
Does he imagine that women show up in family court, flash their tits, and the judge just makes it rain? Shit, maybe I should have tried that.
But seriously, as a divorced women in 2023: you don’t end up with money after divorce unless you have a legitimate claim on that money, regardless of your gender. It doesn’t work like that anymore (if it ever did.)
My feelings took over and I didn't want to lose him but lately I've been second guessing giving him that second chance but still I don't know how to let him go, I probably have a little abandonment issues
Recognizing that her behavior knocked into your trauma is a good start. Have you discussed this with her- that there are choices she makes in expressing her anger that make you feel unsafe? And that make your brain go into overdrive while you handle fight, flight, freeze, and fawn reactions because she's prioritizing the expression of her upset over your feeling of safety? Is she willing or even able to hear that because of your own trauma history some of her behaviors will make your reactions seem unwarranted, but are that way because she is acting in ways that remind you of past hurts?
Not saying she shouldn't be upset, or express her feelings- but there must be other ways for her to do that which are less likely to result in your curling up in a protective fearful ball.