So you didn't ask a question – like what should I do ….?
So, here you are. You have a bf that told you his truth: he is attractedvto a gorgeous girl, he goes to gym with her, and he messaged her, and would have sex with her if he could.
Girl, that is the truth – he is into her.
You got mad- correct reaction. You broke up with him – correct reaction. Then you got back together with him – eh, what? Why? Why did you get back together with him? Especially since she is always going to be there, he's always going to be into her, it's always going to upset you. Way?
You deserve someone who's into you.
If your question is what should you do? Dump him, find another gym, pick a better boyfriend.
If your questionwas how do you get over being jealous of this girl? That's more tricky. You are always going to find someone prettier/sexier/more gorgeous out there, just as they might be more successful/richer/younger one day. You cannot change that – what you can change is how you feel about yourself (because he clearly made you feel less attractive) so look for your good points, your strengths and remind yourself of these good points every day. It would also be a good idea to dump the guy that made you feel this way and find someone who values you.
Why do you keep excusing his absolute lack of responsibility? Fine, he finishes work at midnight, at a job 7 minutes away. I would expect him in bed no later than 00:30.
Given your lack of employment, it would be utterly stupid to ask him to quit his job so that he can be there with you. What’s more than reasonable, is to tell him that he comes to you after work, whenever that is, to be there in case you go into labor. It’s not a rocket science.
No truly, intimate deep meaningful relationship survives an open relationship experience. It’s not meant to those are supposed to be sexual experiences and you lost her the minute. You ask her to do it. I hope you learn from this and never do it again because they all in badly like this keep your D…k where it belongs in your relationships, and you’ll have less of a problem in the future.
Do what is right, my fellow brother.
Damn girl your bar is so low it’s in hell.
So you didn't ask a question – like what should I do ….?
So, here you are. You have a bf that told you his truth: he is attractedvto a gorgeous girl, he goes to gym with her, and he messaged her, and would have sex with her if he could.
Girl, that is the truth – he is into her.
You got mad- correct reaction. You broke up with him – correct reaction. Then you got back together with him – eh, what? Why? Why did you get back together with him? Especially since she is always going to be there, he's always going to be into her, it's always going to upset you. Way?
You deserve someone who's into you.
If your question is what should you do? Dump him, find another gym, pick a better boyfriend.
If your questionwas how do you get over being jealous of this girl? That's more tricky. You are always going to find someone prettier/sexier/more gorgeous out there, just as they might be more successful/richer/younger one day. You cannot change that – what you can change is how you feel about yourself (because he clearly made you feel less attractive) so look for your good points, your strengths and remind yourself of these good points every day. It would also be a good idea to dump the guy that made you feel this way and find someone who values you.
Fr he's literally just using her body to get off to other women. I don't get how some people think that's okay or normal.
Why do you keep excusing his absolute lack of responsibility? Fine, he finishes work at midnight, at a job 7 minutes away. I would expect him in bed no later than 00:30.
Given your lack of employment, it would be utterly stupid to ask him to quit his job so that he can be there with you. What’s more than reasonable, is to tell him that he comes to you after work, whenever that is, to be there in case you go into labor. It’s not a rocket science.
No truly, intimate deep meaningful relationship survives an open relationship experience. It’s not meant to those are supposed to be sexual experiences and you lost her the minute. You ask her to do it. I hope you learn from this and never do it again because they all in badly like this keep your D…k where it belongs in your relationships, and you’ll have less of a problem in the future.