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he was all stressed out with school and i felt like he didnt make time and sex stopped for 2 months. he kept saying i didn’t understand even when we met recently he was like “SEE THATS HOW STRESSED I WAS!” and smirked.
i am now in the same program as him. he graduated.
In a fresh relationship, the probability of having had better sex before is pretty high. Voicing it in that way is not a nice thing to do.
But take it as something to fuel your motivation to become better. Get to know her more, find your sexual vibe and have the best sex possible together.
That just be the case. It’s just that small chins as a point of concern for women is a new one to me!
Lots of people in this thread blaming the women in OP's story, instead of the literally POS brother-in-law. Women aren't responsible for the actions of men.
Couples counseling then. Maybe a third party can help you communicate better
It doesn’t sound like you bought a house “together” which works out great for you
Late 20s?! Try teens
My thoughts are, you're dating a weirdo at best, a not terribly subtle racist at worst. If that's his idea of radical, he's either got some… interesting views himself, or unbothered enough that any level or concern in this to him looks like a radical belief. Though I wouldn't bother figuring out which one it is, he sucks either way. Does he always accuse you of being unreasonable?
If you know your therapist will tell you that he's abusing you then I think you already know you're in an abusive relationship. So if that's the case why are you posting here? You're going to get the same answer whoever you ask.
This isn't a normal relationship and everyone else posting here is quite shocked at how much its not sinking in for you. What are you waiting around for to change exactly?
Well… I am a huge advocate of respecting people while they're in a reletionship. The heathiest solution would be to wait until their reletionship ends on their own accord (no 3rd party influence). And then try to spark something afterwards.
However… people cope with break-ups differently. For him to get things going with a 19 year old while he is 28… is strange IMO. If this is something he is using as a rebound, someone far less mature than he would be… that is to be taken into consideration.
This too:
he sent a message asking if his girlfriend could join in on our shared hobby
Is a wrong move on his behalf. It's kind of a slap in the face.
I don't know… this seems messy. It's as if he is going through some things of his own and he is lost himself.
Before you make any decision, what do you want out of the conversation? I don't think you should approach it unguarded and on a whim. You need an objective for sure.
Strange spot this is indeed.
If you both feel mutually lost, like your split turned your worlds upside down. Both trying to function and failing. I would be rooting for a conversation that turns positive (from a 3rd person perspective).
Your boyfriend sucks and location shit is super controlling and you suck for cheating, just end it and move on.
I was a bouncer one summer and saw this as well. But I sort of expect that from club girls. I did not expect it from my very level headed wife. It can happen.
No way this doesn't end in hurt feelings and broken friendships.
I just wouldn't go since they aren't respecting your limits. It is also unfair to the trans friend who is being made to feel guilty for their gender identity.
I can't find it, have been looking for it since I made my comment.
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I didnt say its not normal, I was giving my opinion that its not that bad on the scale of things. You and many others seem to be a bit triggered. “Barely risque” not “its not normal to be uncomfortable with their partner doing underwear modeling”.
This is partner abuse, and drunkenness is not a valid excuse. If it was, all of the women who repeatedly forgive the men who beat them wouldn't really be the victims.
Yes, that's true. He should still drop her and leave her to it.
I was just displaying concern for this (also young) woman who has such an insecurity… for her sake, it really needs to be addressed.
She's not a monster… she's a young woman who needs help!
But you're right – not his problem. I hope she asks for help sometime, though.
Thank you for sharing it’s not my intent to have a trauma dump on-line but I’m pretty frazzled right now and just want to get the idea across that I’m not bad I’m just confused
Hey there… Reddit freaks over infidelity.
You must understand why you did what you did.
And, your job now is to be a super amazing husband, father, friend, etc. You must do this to reset (heal) the relationship (if you want to be happily married).
No more thoughts about the other one… she is controlling & I guess you did not see that coming. Maybe explore that in therapy – after you focus on your wife & family.
“Fatal Attraction” is the movie to see.
I offer option 3:
Break up with this cheater that clearly gives zero fucks about you and be happy! 🙂
Yeah, this is pretty typical behavior when something is prohibited by one partner in the relationship. She was bound to lie to you about it so she could preserve your status as a couple.
It ultimately comes down to how strongly you feel about lying. This isn't likely to be the only time she's ever lied about it so there's that to keep in mind.
Comfortable enough with someone to let them blow their load on your face, but not comfortable enough to ask about stuff you're noticing at their house.
You're kind of missing the point though. It might not have meant anything to him, but because she didn't know about it because he didn't feel it was important enough to say anything about it, definitely meant something to her. If I was giving a male coworker a ride home 3 times a week you can bat your ass my husband at the time would have known about it.
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That almost sailed over my head ?
Hope she's dealing with perpetually bad karma for that, dang
Am I out of luck?
For now, I think this is a gray area. I’d say it’s like porn, where some couples would be okay and some wouldn’t. Right now, I see it as porn which I don’t mind in a relationship, but I could see the opposite perspective.
As AI develops more in the future, I’d have more concerns about it. I’d be worried about my partner getting emotionally connected or enjoying talking the AI more than me.
Ive said this before, my ex cried a lot. He had a lot of shit he was dealing with. Not once did it change how I felt about him or how I saw him. He is human with emotions and I'd rather see a man cry than seeing him have violent out bursts
Or OP is trying to come up with a good cover story for how this happened and is hoping the community will solve her problem. OP could be the cheater.
But like why would MY boyfriend find it weird that I was complimenting myself? Like if you love someone, you would want them to love themselves yknow?? Like why make confused faces and stuff. Doesnt sit right w me tbh
I don't feel like your fears are as bad as your making them out to be. The first fear seems overstated, like hiding your silverware or going for a rebound (as long as you didn't wish intentional harm on the person you broke up with) is pretty benign behavior in such a chaotic situation.
Your second fear also seems overstated. Subconsciously flirting with someone is not a major issue of concern, as long as you shut it down when you notice it happening, and you do.
You have learned a lot since you were 20/21, so it's likely you won't experience many of the same issues in the future. I feel like you are overthinking yourself out of a good relationship. You are a good person with good intentions. Just go with the flow is probably the best advice I can give you.
Good luck.
How do people get aroused by men with shitty views. Like just reading this made dry
Lose your mom. Keep your brother. Keep your life. She’s gonna drag you down.
Tell her before she quits! For the love of fuking god dude.
I'm sorry OP. But from experience if u need to ask. Then she is cheating
I can see your quandary. I would have trouble squaring her telling you she loved you with promptly hopping in bed with someone else, AFTER having told you. Either she lied when she said it, or it doesn’t mean a lot to her to say it.
Also the fact that she has been comfortable maintaining the lie over several months means she’s not trustworthy. To the contrary, she’s a demonstrated liar. You aren’t wrong to be rethinking whether she’s for you.