OP offer her a compromise. Discuss that if you get the urge to view it you can go to her and she will do whatever it takes to stop the urge. You should also think of why you view it and explain this to her to see if her reaction would change. Or get her to watch it together at least once and interact over what is going on in the video. Now you have dialog to work constructively on hopefully repairing the damage done.
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OP offer her a compromise. Discuss that if you get the urge to view it you can go to her and she will do whatever it takes to stop the urge. You should also think of why you view it and explain this to her to see if her reaction would change. Or get her to watch it together at least once and interact over what is going on in the video. Now you have dialog to work constructively on hopefully repairing the damage done.