Hold up. She called you weak and immature for leaving??
YOU ARE DONE.
You are dealing with an adult woman who will not get therapy to deal with her own issues and she resorts to namecalling?
I don't think the kids got their bad bullshot behavior from Dad.
I think Dad left this house of hell.
I'm sorry, but you need to tell her:
“I am sorry, but your kids don't want me around and after they called me names you decided to pile on top too. I do not need to be in a relationship where me bowing out of a fight you are having with YOUR unruly children out of respect for your parenting results in you calling me names. This relationship just ended. I wish you and your family all the best.”
Walk the fuck away.
I would bet money that you didn't even hear her say “Don't call him a douchebag”.
There is shitty parenting going on here and it is wayyy above your pay grade.
She needs to NOT be in a relationship and focus on her kids for a few years.
Please. Please do not stay in any relationship when you are being verbally abused. Because that is what is happening.
Now you know why that marriage ended. She learned nothing. Step away.
Please if he said shit like this about his ex you would feel a way.
Hold up. She called you weak and immature for leaving??
YOU ARE DONE.
You are dealing with an adult woman who will not get therapy to deal with her own issues and she resorts to namecalling?
I don't think the kids got their bad bullshot behavior from Dad.
I think Dad left this house of hell.
I'm sorry, but you need to tell her:
“I am sorry, but your kids don't want me around and after they called me names you decided to pile on top too. I do not need to be in a relationship where me bowing out of a fight you are having with YOUR unruly children out of respect for your parenting results in you calling me names. This relationship just ended. I wish you and your family all the best.”
Walk the fuck away.
I would bet money that you didn't even hear her say “Don't call him a douchebag”.
There is shitty parenting going on here and it is wayyy above your pay grade.
She needs to NOT be in a relationship and focus on her kids for a few years.
Please. Please do not stay in any relationship when you are being verbally abused. Because that is what is happening.
Now you know why that marriage ended. She learned nothing. Step away.