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You are clearly one of those desperate old timers that will happily spend money if it gets them some female companionship. Just go buy another one with the money you got back. I'm sure another woman will love you as long as you pay.
Just tell her sorry you got spooked by the hoodie story. Keep them if she wants to. Now where shall we go out shall we try few bars together..
“…I’m the only friend he has and […] if I wasn’t in his life, he’d have nothing to live! for (which he’s told me before).”
Your “friend” is emotionally blackmailing you. They are 30 years old, which is more than enough time on this planet to accumulate more than one friend. They clearly want a codependent relationship with you (the weird “hypothetical” game) and it seems pretty obvious that you’re not up for that.
You’ve already put some boundaries out there – I think it’s time you enforce them a little more firmly. Tell them you need a break from them for a while. If you’re ok with being honest about it I think that would be the best approach. But if you’re not ready for that or are afraid of how they might react feel free to come up with another excuse – you have a really big project you were just given at work, a family emergency came up, etc. You just need some time. And then take that time completely without them – a few weeks or a month or however long it takes you to feel like you actually want to spend time with this person again.
And on the off chance that they decide to escalate and start messaging you about dark thoughts or suicidal ideation redirect them to professional resources – you are NOT their therapist, even if you do have professional expertise in that area. This person has invested a lot of effort into trying to make you feel responsible for their mental health and well-being, and that’s not your job. Unfortunately, that means that they may do something drastic when you withdraw – but that is their choice to make. Trying to reshape your life in order to prevent that from happening means putting yourself at the mercy of their wants and needs, and that’s not fair to yourself. Don’t make yourself smaller just because they’re not willing to put in the work to get better.
From reading through your responses to other people, you are in major denial. No one is insulting you. They are being honest with you, and you're arguing with them because you don't agree. You don't have to agree with these people, but a lot of what they're saying is probably true. They've probably already done the deed. They want to get your “permission” so they can continue doing it without feeling the guilt, meanwhile dismissing your feelings.
Personally? I'd dump both of them. Yes, I understand you've spent years with these people but sometimes when people show themselves for who they really are, you take it and move on with your life.
I'm sorry you're going through this, it's not fair to you or your mental state. I'd get rid of them both because they sound like garbage people, get some therapy, and continue with your life. I hope it gets better, but these people are not your friends nor do they care about you. If they cared, they wouldn't be pushing you so very hot to sleep with each other, which is super icky.
I’m so glad you got him back and fuck your ex for doing that! I’m so angry for you haha