your other kids are gonna need some therapy too – just to be safe. they just saw their parents hold a life altering secret about one of their siblings. if i'm in their shoes, what secrets about me are they taking to their grave?
it's not about love, it's about trust. she knows you love her. she doesn't trust you anymore tho. that needs to be rebuilt. and you have to acknowledge it first that there isn't any trust and stop talking about love, she knows you love her.
“We sleep in the same bed together, we eat together, shop together, etc. We even fool around sometimes.”
If you aren't in-love with him, then stop acting like a girlfriend & find someone your own age.
your other kids are gonna need some therapy too – just to be safe. they just saw their parents hold a life altering secret about one of their siblings. if i'm in their shoes, what secrets about me are they taking to their grave?
it's not about love, it's about trust. she knows you love her. she doesn't trust you anymore tho. that needs to be rebuilt. and you have to acknowledge it first that there isn't any trust and stop talking about love, she knows you love her.
Nothing for you to do but be supportive and hope she seeks therapy.
You should be allowed to stay in her hotel room. If not; she needs a really good fuckin reason. A rationale one. Good luck… cuz there isn’t one.