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He’s coming off as a hypocrite then. Maybe he’s been too afraid to tell them his true feelings, or he’s been lying about who he is because he’s simply too lazy to get you something.
Me and my friends don’t celebrate birthdays or Christmas with each other anymore. It’s expensive to give everyone gifts when we have bills to pay, so we stopped gift giving a long time ago.
Our exception is our other halves and children get gifts.
So it seems strange that he chooses to continue to gift give friends but not you. That from the other comment, that he was extremely happy with his gift.
Yeah, he’s lying about not being a gift giver or receiver, he just doesn’t want to gift you.
You don’t want to break up with her because you love her and know that her issues aren’t her fault and you are afraid that if you do break up with her she will kill herself. That’s understandable.
But you need to understand that cheating is inexcusable no mater what the circumstances. That is a big fat red line that is never to be crossed and she crossed it. With that has to come consequence. Additionally, if she truly loved you back, she wouldn’t try to manipulate you by threatening suicide.
You need to encourage her to get help and break up with her. Explain to her that you can’t be with someone who can’t or won’t help themselves.
Do not blame yourself if she decides to end her own life. It’s not your fault. She had problems long before you got together with her. If anything you kept her alive just a little bit longer, and I applaud you for that. But you couldn’t do it forever. Nobody can do that but her.
I’ll pray for the both of you.
Pew, your GF's abusive behaviors cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no chance to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If it is an issue for your GF, you likely would be seeing 4 other red flags.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — or tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members? She would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing them over her. Moreover, she usually would hate being alone by herself.
Second, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes/mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” her victim status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Third, you generally would not see her directing her anger at casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be directed against a close loved one (e.g., against you, a sibling, or her parents).
Fourth, you are convinced that she truly loves you. But you frequently see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells around her. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. A few hours or days later, she can flip back just as quickly.
Pew, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?
What do you mean she was being flirty? I’m curious as to know if she was just being nice or something or if she actually liked you but is now upset you didn’t wanted to date her but not be fwb or if you misread her somehow and she wasn’t flirting.
Or he just has a life. He’s 40.
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