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“Excuse me friend, this was extremely inappropriate and I am not comfortable with this behavior. I don’t care that you were drunk, that’s no excuse for such disrespect for my marriage or our friendship. If you’re unable to control yourself from stepping over this boundary then remove him from your phone and social media so this never happens again.”
A crush is harmless but disrespecting boundaries (even while drunk) is not okay. If someone cannot control their impulses like these while drunk they shouldn’t be getting drunk. Either way there are consequences like damaging a friendship and making you lose trust in her when these things happen, alcohol or not.
(I’m polyamorous/non-monogamous and still wouldn’t be okay with this behavior from a friend. Drunkenly sending nudes to someone who doesn’t consent is wrong period. It being a friend’s monogamous partner just makes it that much worse.)
Cut her off … block her number … tell ALLLLL your mutual friends because she won't stop at trying to nail just your husband
Yea we still live! together and he doesn’t sleep in bed with me by choice he sleeps on the couch 🙁 every time I try to have a discussion with him he doesn’t want too. Especially cause I get emotional and then he get emotional. I’m trying to learn to be happy alone it’s just nude everything reminds me of him.
I don’t really think this means anything and she might not even know she’s doing it. Hands have to go somewhere
I don't see how it's my fault and why I should have to password protect it from my husband who normally respects my privacy and especially when I specifically told him to leave it alone.
I expected him to be mature enough to bring it up to me outside of a fight. Also, this isn't new to him. We've talked more than once about what I mentioned. I don't think it's relevant whether he knew about my mom or not, and remember this was a multi-page thing and what I said about our relationship was like 5 sentences. I already mentioned this next part in the actual post, but I'm not sure if you missed it or not so I'll reiterate: In said thing, I included that I had been having really distressing thoughts about self-harm and self-delete. I would have expected him to be more concerned that his partner was having those thoughts especially since I've struggled in the past, instead of something that wounded his pride.
If you feel like that and she is not responding for your feelings, invalidating them and even blocked you… To me that's bad.
She is not worth your time and specially your love.
If you like the consequences of the feelings then by all means. You can choose to lead with feelings if you're content with the outcomes of leading with feelings.
After 3 years together, you should be the one who knows how to talk with him about such topics…
He only had fuckbuddies, because that is ALL he wants. This relationship stuff, is BS, so he can get BJ's off random women. It's part of his MO.
This seems like she's trying to project her own insecurities on you i.e., “maybe he's not getting boner because he no longer finds me attractive?”. In any case, you already tried explaining to her. Maybe to start you should apologize for the hurtful things you said as well, just reiterate that this isnt something you are in full control of.
I have always hated beards. My boyfriend recently grew a beard. I am still wildly attracted to him because my feelings for him are not based on facial hair. If 12 inches of hair is the difference between you being interested and not you're infatuated, not in love.
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You may want to consider a paternity test.
Even if she’s lying, other subtle signs of problems existed.
Be courteous, say hello, but don’t engage in a conversation.
Like, acknowledge her presence, show that your polite but that’s it.
Ugh… just ugh…
if shes asking, shes already had the affair and now needs a way to fix the situation.
You ended a seven year relationship with the mother of your children because of texting? Then double down on being a prick when she tries to make it right.
Speaking, man to man, I am disappointed in you.
Oh well, she is young enough that I hope she finds the good person that you never have been: a 26 year old with an 18 year old (gross). And if you complain about paying for your children my estimation of you will get lower (and it is already rather low).
RUN FORREST, RUN!
Tell her that she either needs to stop asking you, or believe that when you answer that you are telling her the truth.
And if she doesn’t believe you, then the next time it gets like how you describe in your post, stop her. Tell her that you are answering honestly, and her continuing to question it is making you think that she doesn’t believe anything you say.
Then if it happens again, tell her no. Say there is a mirror in [where ever the mirror is] and you are not answering any questions like this again. Tell her that her insecurities are her problem to deal with as she hasn’t valued you enough to believe what you say.
Not everything is abuse. Yes it’s childish and toxic but not every little thing is abuse
So, being able to tell the difference between a fuckboy and a dangerous man is admittedly not easy, but we’re…not supposed to prioritize our survival? K. Just say that you don’t believe or gaf about women and move on, you’re not teaching anybody anything and your take is not nearly as novel as you seem to think it is
It sounds like a double standard. I would make sure to have a discussion about the unfairness of her comments. If you allow this to continue you will begin to feel resentment over her control of your spending, and not keeping the same standard for herself.
I totally get that buying it for yourself is commemorative. but I think the way you handled it wasn't very tactful. I'm assuming from what you said, that you mentioned the watch to her and didn't tell her it was important and symbolic that you buy it for yourself. from her perspective, you mentioned something you wanted, and she probably saved for a while to get it for you to celebrate this milestone. I know for me, when I plan and save to get someone something I know they'll like, I'm really excited and happy beforehand imagining their smile when they open it. she probably built up this whole scenario of making you feel happy, and then you just dumped on her. that's got to hurt.
I would definitely think about that, put yourself in her shoes, and give her an honest apology for how you talked to her. because that was objectively mean.
that said, of course you have the right to actualize this important moment for yourself. I think if you really take responsibility for being mean and making her feel bad for trying to be kind, and then explain exactly what purchasing the watch for yourself means to you, she'll understand.
I just wanted them to reach out to my husband at minimum and send a text. That shouldn’t feel like asking too much. My sisters are younger and texted him
I agree, this is really baaaaaaaaad.
Hun why are you still with him?
Are you happy? Besides this very disturbing controlling aspect is he a good husband and partner?
You are really young to be tied with someone that doesn’t makes you happy, just try to come up with an scape plan if you want to leave
I would ask her out and not suggest coming over. A dinner out is a break. Dinner with kids is just another night. If she’s interested, she’ll happily take a night for herself.
Op stated above that she's not sexually attracted to him and if she was, her “conditions” might be different.
Op is a piece.
Three years? The patience of a Saint. I would say you are very special to him. Look at it that way.
Yeah, for sure.
Good perspective. Honestly feel better about the whole situation just talking to y’all on Reddit and putting it into words. Thank you kind people
Dude you're both adults dating for three years. Just talk with her, she can definitely stop.
First:
You married an unsupportive toxic b… who went well with that former toxic abusibe boyfriend.
Have her move out. She us able to work, so let her!
With regards to your job:
being dismissed is a normal thing in todays job market. No big deal.
Where I don't agree with you is already lowering your standards to jobs way beyond what you used to do before!
That speaks of a total lack of belief in your own capacities!
Don't do that right now! It's just been two months!
Pachecks may be paychecks but lowering yours to such a degree may cause you harm, as the next employer may ask himself, why on earth you took such a low level job rather than aiming at a position like the one you had before!
Those benefits you had gotten wheren't for nothing!
Be a bit more confident and proud of yourself. And have a try at calling companies close to you requiring your kind of services, even if they have no job adverts out right now.
Dress up a list of companies.
call their HR
introduce yourself and explain what your job had been.
ask if they have a vacancy right now.
if it's a “no, sorry” ask, if your profile otherwise is interesting to them and if you can send your cv in.
ask, if you can call them again within 6 weeks to inquire if anything had changed.
if it's yes… send cv. (have cv ready) Note company, name of the person you spoke with (maje sure it's some staff responsible you spoke with!), count 6 weeks onwards, note it in your calendar.
punctually call them after 6 weeks and ask for the person you had last spoken to.
It needs tenacity and not taking “no vacancy” for an answer.
See to it that your wifes spending/ credit card becomes non of your business. If need be… make it unusable. (magnet? Oopsie.)
And do get therapy. You don't sound like you are in a good shape of mind right now.