I'm very sorry that you lost friends and sacrificed your academic career for someone who seems was never ready to be in a relationship in the first place. We should be allowed to have friends and do activities without our partner, we need hobbies and friends outside of our relationships in order to be healthy and balanced. Yeah you enabled her insecurities but she started all this. Is she in therapy yet?
I mean, no offense but giving her the benefit of the doubt when she's demonstrated several times that she isn't trustworthy isn't nuance.
Is it possible that she didn't expose the affair to protect his feelings? Of course. It's possible that I might be president some day.
But like my prospects of getting into the oval office, her reasoning for lying about it are shaky at best.
I'm very sorry that you lost friends and sacrificed your academic career for someone who seems was never ready to be in a relationship in the first place. We should be allowed to have friends and do activities without our partner, we need hobbies and friends outside of our relationships in order to be healthy and balanced. Yeah you enabled her insecurities but she started all this. Is she in therapy yet?