If you’re both happy and get along well and you’re in agreement on timeline for marriage and children (if those things are in the cards), then stop worrying. That’s all that matters. This is not a significant age gap.
It hurts and destroys so many relationships, not to mention how much it contributes to human trafficking and non-consensual content. And yet, people act shocked when others set boundaries over it, because somehow we have normalized prioritizing sexual gratification over the wellbeing of others.
Whether OP sees porn as ethical or not, his wife set a clear boundary and made her beliefs clear. He claims to be so “honest” but was not upfront about something that he knew was a dealbreaker for her.
Sadly, society is so porn dependent that it doesn’t matter if loved ones and the exploited people in the industry are hurt along the way.
Almost definitely can get a job as some kind of counselor, go on indeed and put your degree in and it should generate suggestions for you. Start there. So many fields now just want experience because there's issues of lack of education, so a 4 year degree in psych, can go very far.
As for daycares, there are many safe ones. You're anxiety is understandable as not having had to use daycare before, but you'll always here the horror stories on the news. You'll most likely qualify for assistance to start, including daycare assistance! If you have any family that may support you through this, reach out and ask for help.
Immediately file child support even if you still live! together. Go live and look up DSS to apply for snap, see if you can find information to qualify for free representation in custody/divorce proceedings.
OMG get away from him! He basically wants you as a back up. Do better, you deserve it.
If you’re both happy and get along well and you’re in agreement on timeline for marriage and children (if those things are in the cards), then stop worrying. That’s all that matters. This is not a significant age gap.
It hurts and destroys so many relationships, not to mention how much it contributes to human trafficking and non-consensual content. And yet, people act shocked when others set boundaries over it, because somehow we have normalized prioritizing sexual gratification over the wellbeing of others.
Whether OP sees porn as ethical or not, his wife set a clear boundary and made her beliefs clear. He claims to be so “honest” but was not upfront about something that he knew was a dealbreaker for her.
Sadly, society is so porn dependent that it doesn’t matter if loved ones and the exploited people in the industry are hurt along the way.
Almost definitely can get a job as some kind of counselor, go on indeed and put your degree in and it should generate suggestions for you. Start there. So many fields now just want experience because there's issues of lack of education, so a 4 year degree in psych, can go very far.
As for daycares, there are many safe ones. You're anxiety is understandable as not having had to use daycare before, but you'll always here the horror stories on the news. You'll most likely qualify for assistance to start, including daycare assistance! If you have any family that may support you through this, reach out and ask for help.
Immediately file child support even if you still live! together. Go live and look up DSS to apply for snap, see if you can find information to qualify for free representation in custody/divorce proceedings.