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I agree that op needs to stop lying, that is step one. Even aside from an addiction, just out of respect for their partner. Lying is never acceptable in a relationship. Period.
And yes I agree with the dopamine issue, however in my again anecdotal experience, it works better to stop the addictive substance and find alternatives rather than continue using. Other things that give that dopamine, a hobby, or even medicine like an ssri to help regulate emotions. If you were addicted to gambling they wouldn't suggest weaning off of it. Because you're an addict and can't control it.
For my husband, he quit and found healthy coping mechanisms with the help of his therapist. He also started an antidepressant. Rather than weaning, since he knew he couldn't control himself and that I would no longer tolerate his deep addiction.
So I actually did talk to my sister about it today. And I think our relationship will be stronger for it. She is a co-steward of the land and per our traditional protocol the rest of us have the right to be informed of activities that may impact us as it is shared land on which we all live!. She cannot, therefore, “bloody well bring whoever she wants.” It is ignorant to say so. She agrees with this actually, and apologized for how she handled things. This relationship strain you seem so concerned with didn’t materialize.
I was involved in planning last year. I was unable to be there because I was busy caring for an elderly family member. My dad understands this and often tells me he is proud of me for this.
It seems a lot of people misunderstood what I meant by being comfortable with my dad being present. I was referring specifically to the ceremonial aspect. I never considered banning him from this because he is my dad and he has a relationship with the land. That doesn’t change the fact that he doesn’t have the right to be present while we are doing it as our ceremonies are closed practice unless you have been accepted into the community. This is a family activity so it is fine for him to be there. If it was community wide it might be different.
There actually is no ceremony without me. I am the only person in my family learning our indigenous language. I am the only one capable of putting through the ceremony. I also have the knowledge of how to do it because I have put in the effort to learn.
No one is trying to dictate anything here. Protocol exists so situations like this don’t occur. My sister broke protocol by failing to inform/consult.
My dad doesn’t have any rights on the land. He is a guest himself and he doesn’t have the right to invite anyone. My sister invited him. My dad consented to him being there to learn. Me and my brothers were left out of the conversation in violation of protocol.
I agree that op needs to stop lying, that is step one. Even aside from an addiction, just out of respect for their partner. Lying is never acceptable in a relationship. Period.
And yes I agree with the dopamine issue, however in my again anecdotal experience, it works better to stop the addictive substance and find alternatives rather than continue using. Other things that give that dopamine, a hobby, or even medicine like an ssri to help regulate emotions. If you were addicted to gambling they wouldn't suggest weaning off of it. Because you're an addict and can't control it.
For my husband, he quit and found healthy coping mechanisms with the help of his therapist. He also started an antidepressant. Rather than weaning, since he knew he couldn't control himself and that I would no longer tolerate his deep addiction.
So I actually did talk to my sister about it today. And I think our relationship will be stronger for it. She is a co-steward of the land and per our traditional protocol the rest of us have the right to be informed of activities that may impact us as it is shared land on which we all live!. She cannot, therefore, “bloody well bring whoever she wants.” It is ignorant to say so. She agrees with this actually, and apologized for how she handled things. This relationship strain you seem so concerned with didn’t materialize.
I was involved in planning last year. I was unable to be there because I was busy caring for an elderly family member. My dad understands this and often tells me he is proud of me for this.
It seems a lot of people misunderstood what I meant by being comfortable with my dad being present. I was referring specifically to the ceremonial aspect. I never considered banning him from this because he is my dad and he has a relationship with the land. That doesn’t change the fact that he doesn’t have the right to be present while we are doing it as our ceremonies are closed practice unless you have been accepted into the community. This is a family activity so it is fine for him to be there. If it was community wide it might be different.
There actually is no ceremony without me. I am the only person in my family learning our indigenous language. I am the only one capable of putting through the ceremony. I also have the knowledge of how to do it because I have put in the effort to learn.
No one is trying to dictate anything here. Protocol exists so situations like this don’t occur. My sister broke protocol by failing to inform/consult.
My dad doesn’t have any rights on the land. He is a guest himself and he doesn’t have the right to invite anyone. My sister invited him. My dad consented to him being there to learn. Me and my brothers were left out of the conversation in violation of protocol.