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I told him that if he wanted to fight for us he would visit therapist. That was my final request. I feel like he has unresolved trauma that makes him act that way and he could hardly help himself alone. However, he said he doesn’t want to lead me on and say that he will when he won’t. I still couldn’t let go of all the good things about him and i yet again said to take some time and think about it. At this point it is obvious what the next step should be, but I just don’t feel ready.
Well its concerning he could be horny AFTER he found out WHY you were crying. sometimes sex makes some people feel better maybe thats what he was trying. otherwise you really need to work on communication or there will be more problems later on too.
Do you think the above behavior is treating him like a child?
A lot of therapists will work on a sliding scale if they know you need help.
Here's a really easy way to get a girlfriend, most guys my age are still scared to do this and it's the one thing that guarantees I always have a date. You'll be scared to do it at first, but you don't let your fears rule you, if you don't conquer rhem they'll dictate what you can achieve in life.
You go to the gym every single day, lift weights even if you don't want to everyday without fail. Eat a high protein diet. And whenever you see a girl you're interested in, approach her, be polite, hey I thought you were cute. And Id like to get to know you more, there's a starbucks up the road, if you're free how about we grab a coffee together? . You're now in the top 5% of men.
He's making a lot of this about him. Your trauma is awkward for him so he has the right to joke it away despite your discomfort? Sex is meaningless but priority enough that he cheats because he needs it? He understood your situation before hand but not enough when he needed to confirm that your relationship is based on an emotional connection as well? When confronted with a partners confusion and obvious discomfort he decides it's time to take a moral high ground “I wasn't getting what I wanted so I got it elsewhere without your input because, need. You're overreacting.”?
I can't tell you what to do but consider how much your words, feelings and wishes are actually valued in that persons eyes.
Keep healing yourself, that's top priority. Don't hurry or push progress. It will all come in due time. Those who value will wait ?
Thankyou so much! I needed this 🙂
I feel the same way! There are ups and downs. It’s a thankless (until they’re older) job, but it’s also a ton of fun. You get to watch a human develop their likes and dislikes, personality, and dreams in life. You have influence over those things and must facilitate those interests. It’s a big job to be taken seriously. But you should have all the joy and fun you can find while you do it. From the movie Interstellar, when it comes to your kids, you’re there to be and create memories for them.
I think you're projecting or else the daughter wouldn't be this distraught over having a present grandmother in her kids life?
Brah. It's been 3.5 years. If you don't know now, what do you see changing that will decide you one way or the other? Because right now, it really does look like you're stringing her along until it suits you to break up, which is incredibly selfish. If you know it ain't forever, let her go so she can find someone who actually wants to be with her, and you can find someone you're certain of. Right now you're wasting both of your time. It's a shitty move to pull.
Well I mean I’m not attracted to guys I don’t think. Like I wouldn’t kiss a guy ya know not even try it. I’m definitely into girls as far as I know. I get what you mean though about preferences. Thanks
I didn't call her vanilla. I called their sex vanilla vanilla sex. He was telling her that he likes elements of kink (male anal play, pegging etc.) I provided the inside as to why he might want anal play, an opinion on what should be done in terms of communication, especially in terms of boundaries/rules/limits and I told her to do better. Her husband really wanted to explore that part of his sexuality with her and it was not taken very well and I wonder if it has to do with a certain level of distaste in terms of male anal play. Either way OP could do better in terms of communicating with her partner, especially in regards to sex because it's such a intimate and vulnerable setting.
She apparently went to therapy for it and opened up to you about it. I'm not telling you to stay, I'm just saying if you leave, leave in a way that allows her to stay honest in her next relationship and so she doesn't try to hide this.
No. She did something heinous and hasn't paid any consequences for it.
There's a show on Netflix about manners you might want to watch with him.
I might just set the personal boundary that you will not be going with him to these places until he works on his manners. Because it's really not that very hot to use your eyes and ears and realize you're the only person acting this way.
Abortion or adoption aren't only options for unwed teenagers.
I don't think he did I stood my ground with him and I'm keeping it that way, thank you
Thats really childish. If you dont want to get married especially without prenuptial then dont do it. This decision should be mutually agreed on. Not something only you compromise on. A prenuptial has nothing to do with trust.
Stand your ground here. If shes really willing to end things because she wont agree to a prenuptial then maybe thats for the best. Dont rush into marriage. Did she say why shes so insistent on this?
You're right, it is certainly unhealthy. The leaving the door ajar is because if we weren't attached and our nervous systems are no longer dysregulated by each other, we actually might be able to be friends (unlikely), or just have a good cathartic chat about it one day. She's a psychology student and a self described “personal development junkie”. Though I'm generally guilty of always wanting to see the best in people and have an optimistic outlook on things despite the nature of wickedness… I have given up on the relationship, but I don't want to give up hope for her as a person. She's very damaged by her childhood bs, but she's not a bad person, but she is responsible for her side of things. Maybe I wouldn't even want to. I just embrace possibilities. I am still friendly with ex partners from the past. Who knows with this one…
Thank you. Perhaps she was testing the waters and seeing if I still felt something for her, but as I said in another post, we were friends long before we were lovers. She used to ask for my opinion when she was having guy troubles. However, all that changed once we got together and I don't think it's a dynamic that I would be comfortable with reestablishing. At least at this moment in time.
She seems to have a thing for younger guys. She's dated a guy who was 25 years old, but she admitted to me she couldn't keep up with his lifestyle. He wanted to party and drink too much. Her logic was that he had the potential to mature if she stuck it out with him. Of course, the relationship never lasted. She's broken up with him twice. What do you think's going through her head when she's making these decisions?
(Now I’m having horrified flashbacks to that story of the woman who woke up to her partner trying to pull out her IUD while she slept.)
wat?
thanks guys, i already knew the answer really but i’m just so dumb to this situation. I don’t know how i will afford to rent without him so that’s what’s been keeping me really. I have 2 dogs and staying with family isn’t an option so the thought of breaking up and trying to sort that situation out is scary ?
The fact that you’re hiding it from her is shady. You really didn’t think it was a big deal? But it’s enough of a big deal for you to argue against her way of thinking. If it wasn’t a big deal to you, you would stop giving her rides now that your wife is uncomfortable with it.
But you’re obviously lying about that.
I agree that 4 months isn't very long to date, which is why this has been a bit conflicting for me. 2 months, though, does feel like a big chunk of time. Either way, I want them to do it because it's important for them and would make them happy. I just personally think that big things like this are important to discuss in any relationship. I.E. “Hey, I want to do this thing. I recognize that it's a long time, so I just wanted to touch base with you re how you feel about stuff like this.” I guess it just seems a little… haphazard as is. We've also discussed marriage and kids and even a timeline on those things. We haven't talked about travel, though. May be good to talk about at this point!
sounds like a bit of a racist
I just don't want to give up… I really will blame myself if I let him go. He has been nothing but a good partner to me. He never did anything wrong. I just have so much regret
Why does that matter to her? It was paid off by a PARENT… not by drug money
Is there something else about going to a game that may have her upset? Do you get blackout drunk and brawl with the opposing team's fans or something? Come home and piss yourself? Did her ex do these things? If those aren't regular occurrences, y'all should be able to enjoy time without each other – whether that's alone or with other people. My husband goes to concerts all the time without me, but always gives me a heads up in case I want to join him or we have something else planned that he forgot about (I'm almost always glad to have a night to myself once in a while). If you do, indeed, want to occasionally do things with your friends/family/by yourself that don't involve her or that she's not interested in, tell her that, and why it's important to you. You should both have things that enrich your lives outside of your relationship.
i’m not serious anymore bruv i’m on my way out LOL
sorry i should put this in the post but he’s been struggling with stuff and when he came home he was completely fine and we were laughing and smiling but after the deed he became quite and just keeps on leaving the room for over 30 minutes and when i ask what’s wrong he says “nothing” but clearly there is .. and i haven’t seen a therapist in years but have been considering going again from past child abuse issues that i haven’t fully felt with
His financial problems aren’t your problem. If he is financially dependent on you he should have kept his d*** in his pants. ??♀️
Alright, thank you for the advice
Don’t do drugs you are going to have a tough road you already have I would work my ass off move away cut contact and build. New life and family.
Having kids together doesn't make you a family. You already have 3 kids between you, that should be plenty. This has nothing to do with the ex. He's done having kids, and that's probably a good thing if his kids have special needs, as that's likely to be expensive. The age gap is an issue, but I don't understand why you're desperate to have more kids at your young age. It's like you think you need to combine your genes to make the relationship legitimate, and that's really disturbing.
I'm really thinking that there may be a medical reason for this. Hormones, brain issue, something else, I don't know, but it sounds like there's something interrupting her ability to rationally function. But I also get that it sounds completely futile for you to try to convince her to seek medical help.
My advice is to see a divorce lawyer and separate from her as soon as possible, while also asking her parents to do anything they can to try to convince her to see a doctor, as well as checking on her as much as they're able.
I think you and Sami should load up a car and get out of there. You deserve to be happy. These men you've found ain't it.
What, and I cannot stress this enough, the fuck?!
This is why I don’t read other people’s private conversations
I wish I was your boyfriend so I could feel the weight of the world come off my shoulders as I dump your sorry ass.
Are you seeing a therapist? I think you need a therapist.
Thank you for these constructive thoughts and for taking the time to leave your comment.
A child is not an emotional support animal that exists to fulfill your needs. You can write however many paragraphs you like that you are not controlling, but you absolutely are. You feel entitled to his time and affection because you gave birth to him and you act as he owes you. He doesn't. Children go low contact with their overbearing parents all the time, and for good reasons.
My gf and I literally just chit-chatted in my truck all day when we first started dating. I wasn't financially set so spending on dates was kind of out of the picture.
(It helped that my gf was super shy and anxious and didn't like being in crowded places so it wasn't like I wasn't giving her something she wanted )
Eventually my family got cool enough with her that we just spent time on the couch at home watching movies and stuff.
If your partner needs to constantly go out and doesn't find quality time in just being with you, then she's not the one