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I mean, I asked him so many times why he just didn't just texted me before that he wasn't into me anymore. Made me move and cry like that. Was like almost he enjoyed doing it.
I know it wasn't really your question but do you and your roommates took in consideration while sharing the fridge shelves like this that the temperature is different in the fridge? It is on the warmest in the uppest shelf and the coldest in the lowest shelf (not included the veggie storage). So whoever had the uppest shelf, while mostly have problems with storing meat, except you turn the temperature up overall.
There are a few fridges for which this doesn't apply, but most have this temperature zones.
I’m sorry you are experiencing this. I understand the need to be in a relationship, but is having a girlfriend worth what you are going through to be with THIS girlfriend. I know it’s easy for others to say to leave her, but I understand your fears if you’ve had difficulties in this area. I’ve always been of the mindset that you need to work on you, regardless if you are in a relationship or not. Become the best person you can be. Be comfortable and confident in being alone. Want to be with someone rather than needing to be with someone. Learn your worth. Seek meaningful activities and friendships. As you work on these things, you may find the right person for you. Or you won’t, but you’ll be happy in life. Even if she’s willing to compromise and isn’t dependent on her family, she’s not going to fill whatever need you think she’s filling. If you stay with her, know what you are getting yourself into. And this will be a lifelong commitment of this. Best of luck to you.
She said she has met his family. Very few families would support the mistress in that situation.
More likely he is either embarrassed about dating someone that could be his daughter, or he wants to keep his options open sexually. (OP might be the main partner, but not the only partner.)
You just reminded me of a memory I’d repressed about an ex. He got upset at me one day and brought up the fact I’d sent him less nudes and asked if I didn’t love him anymore. He had calculated the frequency of me sending them over time saw a decrease as some kind of betrayal. The way he described it was like a board meeting explaining a qtr making less profits than forecasted or something. Gave me the creeps and felt abusive but I wasn’t sure if I was overreacting.
I was really confused and hurt because I mostly sent them for his benefit, it’s not something I usually do with partners.
It was a big red flag at the time, I probably should have taken more notice.
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TLDR: I got accidentally pregnant after 3 months and I don't know how to tell him.
I (F25) had an appointment at my gynecologist today and she determined that I am most likely pregnant. (Wasn't the reason I was there just some basic checkup) A blood test was done and I will get the official result on Tuesday. (It was already visible tho)
My boyfriend (M30) and I have only been together for 3 months and I'm just scared right now. We are both still in university. He's the man of my dreams, but I'm afraid it will destroy our relationship. I don't want to tie him to me because of a child. I can imagine life with my current boyfriend, but I'm so scared to tell him. Maybe he isn't ready or he doesn't love me as much as I do. We meet tomorrow evening and then I'll tell him but I don't really know what to say. I can't stop crying. How can I tell him without risking my relationship or scare him off?
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Why don't you trust your boyfriend?
I mean, I asked him so many times why he just didn't just texted me before that he wasn't into me anymore. Made me move and cry like that. Was like almost he enjoyed doing it.
I know it wasn't really your question but do you and your roommates took in consideration while sharing the fridge shelves like this that the temperature is different in the fridge? It is on the warmest in the uppest shelf and the coldest in the lowest shelf (not included the veggie storage). So whoever had the uppest shelf, while mostly have problems with storing meat, except you turn the temperature up overall.
There are a few fridges for which this doesn't apply, but most have this temperature zones.
I just want to say since most forget this.
Take care ❤️
I’m sorry you are experiencing this. I understand the need to be in a relationship, but is having a girlfriend worth what you are going through to be with THIS girlfriend. I know it’s easy for others to say to leave her, but I understand your fears if you’ve had difficulties in this area. I’ve always been of the mindset that you need to work on you, regardless if you are in a relationship or not. Become the best person you can be. Be comfortable and confident in being alone. Want to be with someone rather than needing to be with someone. Learn your worth. Seek meaningful activities and friendships. As you work on these things, you may find the right person for you. Or you won’t, but you’ll be happy in life. Even if she’s willing to compromise and isn’t dependent on her family, she’s not going to fill whatever need you think she’s filling. If you stay with her, know what you are getting yourself into. And this will be a lifelong commitment of this. Best of luck to you.
She said she has met his family. Very few families would support the mistress in that situation.
More likely he is either embarrassed about dating someone that could be his daughter, or he wants to keep his options open sexually. (OP might be the main partner, but not the only partner.)
You just reminded me of a memory I’d repressed about an ex. He got upset at me one day and brought up the fact I’d sent him less nudes and asked if I didn’t love him anymore. He had calculated the frequency of me sending them over time saw a decrease as some kind of betrayal. The way he described it was like a board meeting explaining a qtr making less profits than forecasted or something. Gave me the creeps and felt abusive but I wasn’t sure if I was overreacting.
I was really confused and hurt because I mostly sent them for his benefit, it’s not something I usually do with partners.
It was a big red flag at the time, I probably should have taken more notice.
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TLDR: I got accidentally pregnant after 3 months and I don't know how to tell him.
I (F25) had an appointment at my gynecologist today and she determined that I am most likely pregnant. (Wasn't the reason I was there just some basic checkup) A blood test was done and I will get the official result on Tuesday. (It was already visible tho)
My boyfriend (M30) and I have only been together for 3 months and I'm just scared right now. We are both still in university. He's the man of my dreams, but I'm afraid it will destroy our relationship. I don't want to tie him to me because of a child. I can imagine life with my current boyfriend, but I'm so scared to tell him. Maybe he isn't ready or he doesn't love me as much as I do. We meet tomorrow evening and then I'll tell him but I don't really know what to say. I can't stop crying. How can I tell him without risking my relationship or scare him off?