Wait what, you struggle with trauma and he decides to cheat on you, make jokes about rape and manipulates you to think you’re too sensitive? This will only cause more trauma. This guy is AWFUL! Run!
Your girlfriend is lying about having slept with other people while you were apart. Being diagnosed with gonorrhea could ruin her lie, so instead she immediately jumps to blaming you to throw you off.
He did borrow some money from my parents (around 2k) because of some unpredicted circumstances, but he is mostly independent and does plan to pay back that money.
Probably not. You could try rectifying it by agreeing to seek therapy and couples counseling but even then you fucked up bad dude and she probably won't stay with you.
Why would you tell anyone this information? If you needed to work through something then you could have worked through it with him. No need to ask Reddit.
You're not being selfish… he obviously is doing something he deems more important (for some reason I want to guess playing video games…)
I’m sorry but “I think my standards might be a bit high yet than yours” Is sending me ???
Wait what, you struggle with trauma and he decides to cheat on you, make jokes about rape and manipulates you to think you’re too sensitive? This will only cause more trauma. This guy is AWFUL! Run!
She is def playing psychological games to ensure OP doesn’t have the confidence to leave.
Your girlfriend is lying about having slept with other people while you were apart. Being diagnosed with gonorrhea could ruin her lie, so instead she immediately jumps to blaming you to throw you off.
He did borrow some money from my parents (around 2k) because of some unpredicted circumstances, but he is mostly independent and does plan to pay back that money.
I mean, if you're open to hooking up with other people you could consent to her “sneakily” fucking someone else. That's not for everyone though
Giiiirl, if writing that TLDR didn’t give you all the reason you need to leave idk what we could possibly tell you that would break through to you.
Probably not. You could try rectifying it by agreeing to seek therapy and couples counseling but even then you fucked up bad dude and she probably won't stay with you.
L E A V E.
Men can’t be this awful all of the time, it’s really getting exhausting. Just sheesh.
Leave him. Your life was threatened and you had a gun pointed to your face and he calls you dramatic??
If he plays videos, especially on-line or any that you can have upgrades or dlc or anything for, little gift cards are great for gamers.
Ahh. This again. ? How many times do you plan to post this?
You agreed to stop and she said if you picked it up again she was out. And…you fucked around and found out.
Why would you tell anyone this information? If you needed to work through something then you could have worked through it with him. No need to ask Reddit.