It's a no. He is in a different stage of life and life experiences compared to you. If you were 25 or 25, that age gap might be ok. Right now it's a no.
I broke a bone a few months into dating my boyfriend and he essentially became my full-time caretaker during recovery, calling my mom with updates, keeping track of my medication schedule, waking up with me in the night when I was in pain even though he couldn't do anything but hold me. He jumped to attention every time I so much as moved asking what I needed and always had me in his peripheral anticipating my needs.
I know exactly what kind of father he's going to be when we have kids. I never wanted them before him and wouldn't have them with anyone else, but every moment of his behavior has shown me what a boundlessly empathetic person he is. My relationship isn't rare, it's just that as women we are often pressured to settle for so much less specifically out of the fear that men like my boyfriend don't exist. Don't fall for the fear.
And honestly, being single is better than being with someone who makes your life harder.
Dude is married.
Just how long are you taking in the shower that your bladder is empty right before going in but full in the middle of it?
It's a no. He is in a different stage of life and life experiences compared to you. If you were 25 or 25, that age gap might be ok. Right now it's a no.
It's not.
I broke a bone a few months into dating my boyfriend and he essentially became my full-time caretaker during recovery, calling my mom with updates, keeping track of my medication schedule, waking up with me in the night when I was in pain even though he couldn't do anything but hold me. He jumped to attention every time I so much as moved asking what I needed and always had me in his peripheral anticipating my needs.
I know exactly what kind of father he's going to be when we have kids. I never wanted them before him and wouldn't have them with anyone else, but every moment of his behavior has shown me what a boundlessly empathetic person he is. My relationship isn't rare, it's just that as women we are often pressured to settle for so much less specifically out of the fear that men like my boyfriend don't exist. Don't fall for the fear.
And honestly, being single is better than being with someone who makes your life harder.