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If she was into, say, golden streams and you were not, what would you do?
There's no such thing as too old to date. Not sure what your age is but I started over again at 30 and my mum started over again at 50. She's happily married and I'm happily engaged. It's never too late
Yes. It will only get worse if not addressed/changed and from what you're describing he doesn't seem like the learn and change kind of guy. Sorry you're in this OP 🙁
The concept of a “body count” is so gross.
There is so much wrong here. The whataboutism is absolutely unacceptable IMO. The discussion was about the chores and your son, but your husband completely turned it on its head to insult you and close it. Did the chores thing ever get properly talked about? I'm guessing, no. Whataboutism is a manipulation tactic, and an insidious one. Please do not let him derail the conversation from what needs to be talked about, go back to the chores and son thing.
Second, the fact that he is not okay with discussing things but instead gets offensive and hostile is a problem. That I think also needs a discussion of it's own.
And his comment, in general, was awful! You say you don't know how you could forget it – well, you shouldn't. When someone says something hurtful it's IMO not useful to forget about it, it's useful to talk about it. I'm not saying “always angst over it and never let go” but… What I am saying is: he needs to explain this. And understand how hurtful and unfair this random insult was. And that it's not okay. And he should apologize, because that comment was absolutely not in any way similar to what you said to him – you had a reasonable expectation and stated it. In turn, he closed the conversation completely, derailed it, and offended you. I think all of this needs a serious – calm but firm – talk.
Honestly, end the relationship and cut contact. You can't go backwards in a relationship like that. She can't expect you to wait around while she explores her other options. That's not fair to you and she's not respecting your feelings.
Going no contact will give you the chance to move on and find someone who's ready to commit NOW/
This seems nice
She’s not wrong. It’s a little gross to non dog owners
life is a journey and you do this journey with people who are also taking the same path and in terms of partner he needs to take the exact same path as you so you both can have a good and fulfilling life but it seems like he is walking a different path it seems like it is time to say goodbye to each other not because you or him are at fault because you guys are walking different paths this causing both of you to struggle you guys will not be happy
Someone told me “if you don't know it's because it never happened”
A sexologist can help (I'm not sure of the word in English but I meant a psychologist specializing in sex)
You should uh, you should break up with him.
she belongs to the streets. that's not a girl you put a ring on or want to be as a serious girlfriend.
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Could you two take a cooking class together? Pick out some recipes on Allrecipes.com or in a cook book and cook together? Get one of the meal prep services for one dish a month?
Or maybe leave the grilling to him and you prep the sides?
I dunno. My partner would grill something every night for dinner and that would be that if I weren’t around. No side, just meat. He eats a salad at lunch and calls it good. So I hear you. I enjoy cooking and do the majority of it. He actually can make some pretty good stuff but it’s one pot kind of thing—no juggling stovetop space or oven temps or coordinating so everything is done at the same time. That’s a skill he just doesn’t have.
Drop it. You can't make him like your boyfriend. You can't make him be his buddy. So change your expectations of your dad and your boyfriend's relationship otherwise you're going to drive yourself crazy.
Intentionally deceived? Using deceived is carrying your statement pretty naked.
If he is going through therapy and actively seeking help for is diagnosis and there was no actual serious issues that can be linked to his diagnosis then she is the issue and he is the victim.
Clearly there was no signs of this before he said it and if I knew someone who over reacts this badly I would not ever want to tell them anything. So now that she knows of the diagnosis (the one she had too look up and even see what it meant and is using google to do all the heavy lifting) she calls him a monster and even thought her kids were monsters? Even subverting every minor problematic thing he has done to the diagnosis.
If you really think she is a victim because he withheld some info that literally had no relevance quite obviously then you are wrong. Asking what else he feels justified hiding is such a dumb false equivalency to this situation I’m not even gonna entertain it.
Thank you this is very helpful! My bf gets along great with my mum and siblings which is great! And yeah I really don’t want my bf to be rude to my dad so this is very helpful!
Maybe she is projecting her infidelity on you?
Take a string and wrap it around his right finger as he sleeps. that'll give you his size.
You got…well we call it autism
Doesn't sound like an unreasonable boundary to me, and WTH does he have a pic of some other woman on his lock screen?!?
Sorry, even as a guy, to me this sounds VERY disrespectful.
But he’s been pretty clear to her that he doesn’t want it. Pushing him into a party or even a dinner that he doesn’t want is pretty much the opposite of supportive. Some people are genuinely happier with a weekend alone watching movies than any sort of social event. He deserves the bachelor party he wants, even if that means no party.
But he’s been pretty clear to her that he doesn’t want it. Pushing him into a party or even a dinner that he doesn’t want is pretty much the opposite of supportive. Some people are genuinely happier with a weekend alone watching movies than any sort of social event. He deserves the bachelor party he wants, even if that means no party.
Agreed ?
Thank you, I appreciate the kind thoughts.
We are having a party tomorrow and making it into a kinda family reunion. His side of the family is still invited.
As for the honeymoon, my friend group (8 including myself) are scrambling to get plane tickets and someone is renting out an air bnb villa for 2 weeks. We're a going on a vacation.
No. They were separated after before we met
Just curious… was it a men vs women sort of argument?
The worthless ones.
You just gotta find a way to realize/believe that it doesn’t matter what she’s done.
She didn’t have to work. She spent $$$$ and lived in a beautiful house in a beautiful town. She got everything she wanted.
Her days consisted of hanging out with other moms while the kids played with each other. I came home to screaming cranky kids who I bathed, read bedtime stories to and put to sleep after working a 16 hour day.
She responded with contempt and an absence of affection. No affection, I mean no hugs, no holding hands, no kind words.
What are you talking about?
If he had not kept it a secret she might be more understanding. But as it is, she understands that he will not only spend “alone time” with a single woman, but will hide it from her.
Your wife has jealousy issues, I use to work overnight and always gave my coworker a ride home if they needed it
B.S.
I don't buy that she didn't tell you bc she didn't think anything of it. She knew it would upset you and I'd bet her exes were not so ok with similar situation.
Doesn't matter if he's unattractive. How's he feel about her?
After a few glasses. Why's it so cold in here? Conversations about love life and complaints. What's your ideal partner? Positions? No one would ever know.
See the escalation.
We all have best intentions but most of us know better than to put ourselves in situations such as this.
Tell her if you were gay that she could be the beneficiary of that as you bring other men into you relationship to rail both of you. Tell her that constantly calling you gay will just make you more gay.
Well life is messy sometimes. There's no guarantee you'll get married in the future.
Not ever, not once in my existence on this app have I ever been truly flabbergasted. This waste of a man has some GD nerve. F him. F his family. F aaaaaall their shit en peace out of there NOW. He ain’t worth shit. Don’t you give him one more minute off you time. Not one more thought. Not one more tear. You go online for you and leave him in the trash where he belongs.
I fear that this kind of help may harm my mental, like I start to think I can only do with a pill and stay like that for the rest of my life
She was suffering. I could see her pain, she was trying to stop and she didn't want to do it. She couldn't help herself and I saw that and I still see that. But it became too much for me that I couldn't handle it anymore. I was just consumed by her
Go through…what exactly? This is why doctors are, to investigate any health related, POTENTIAL issues! I would not speculate any further, just convince her to get a test.
Um ya.. not guaranteed.. smaller percentage than bc. Read up on birth control sub.
I thought this was going to be a Heinz vs Hunts argument…. The only acceptable fight about ketchup is tossing Hunts in the trash.
…..you don’t get pregnant like that….
I’m not going to read a word of this and offer probably good advice. Whatever you did, you thought it was the correct thing and that makes it okay.
Nope, she told him after she fucked him, and said not to tell me so that she could.
Yeah, I get it now. I can't let this consume me. I already have too much going on by myself, I can't carry with this too.
Thank you for your answer, I'm sorry if I came off as rude.
Damn, so ready to bash on men that you didn't even realize that OP is a woman.
He’s an abusive man child, leave him. You’re a doctor, you can afford to get out. Stop trying to fix your relationship, there is no fixing it. Tell him to go suck on mommy’s tits since he wants to run to her every time things don’t go his way.
I had 5 say it to me & I return the smile & u havent been appointed speaker for all. Go be miserable human elsewhere
From what you wrote here, getting a dog would put a strain on your relationship and your own mental health. You do not want the responsibility of a dog. Your bf just wants the fun of a dog without the responsibility. And if he brings a dog home, you will end up training it because it sounds like he has no idea what a dog needs. This will not work out well. Put your foot down and say no.
Sounds like negging to me. He is either trying to lower your self esteem or is clueless about empathy.
He's being a jerk, isn't he? Mean & petty. I recommend dumping this guy & hoping he doesn't have something to hold over you.
If I try to tell a story he tries to rush me through it or somehow it turns into him talking. He wonders why I don’t engage at times. I just don’t have the energy and I also don’t care about the names and family history of everyone he went to elementary school with.
I don't know that I would trust a condom she had been around unsupervised.
Do you even like your daughter?
Let me just make sure I understand what's currently happening, you're crying your eyes out and he's…playing video games? That's not appropriate, at all. We don't just play video games while our partners are clearly distressed.
Honestly, I don't think it's unfair to want to spend your last night together. You're fine with him going to the concert and seeing his friend, but you're in a long distance relationship and spending your last night together should be important to him too.
I would just show him this post, if you can. Hopefully he reads it and sees where the problem is.
I agree
He's an (almost) 50 year old man, he's unlikely to change and even though I don't know you I'll say you can do better than someone who values porn over you/your relationship.
I find it sad that after 2 years of you not being there (I mean dealing with depression, etc), that she isn't more willing to go 'ok lets see'. I would think after 2 years a partner know where they stand or feel about the others absenteeism. What does she need to be alone to figure out? In a way she already spent 2 years alone.
Watch the Netflix episode of “The Mind, Explained” on brainwashing – it features an ex-Neo Nazi who has fallen out of that cult.
It sounds like your cousin is probably experiencing some extreme emotional distress and isolation, and this is how she can feel part of a group.
It sucks, but I would talk with your cousin about how damaging her views are and that you will cut off contact with her and her husband if they continue (and they will). Send the kids cards or letter to keep in touch, but otherwise, get the hell out of there. Sorry OP!
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Seems kind of off to me. Given the choice, my wife would definitely prefer to be in her own bed in her own home. She's not a big fan of hotels, though either.
I personally know 2 people who have died in the past 2 years and their profiles are still there. You're right, who knows how many are actual, live people. Plus, that is my only FB profile, I loathe non-private social media. I stay on Reddit, with the sane people. *cough