I wish I wasn’t such a doormat, dude. I WANT to make him take care of himself, and I’ve been sort of doing it, but the fights have just gotten SO much worse. Like it’s volatile. He punched my car one day, too. He calmed down a little after that, but he straight up stopped doing anything but go to work for WEEKS! I let the dishes pile up after a couple days, and he never touched them. So I couldn’t take it anymore and cleaned the kitchen thinking he threw his fit and now he’ll start helping again, right? He made his point. Nope. It went on for weeks.
This man has been a clean freak our entire relationship, btw. Like psycho cleaner lol. So this was extremely out of character. He also has a habit of micromanaging me whenever I clean anything, so I only clean when he’s at work or not around. It’s ridiculous, I know. Eggshells everywhere. (He’s a LOT like my mother in this way. It’s icky)
It’s just not working. The only thing I haven’t done was make him Uber. At least not every day. I work a lot of events, and he works odd hours, so several days a month he ends up Ubering or catching a ride home.
Idk, it just feels like spending that money unnecessarily is pointless when I’m trying to save. I can tolerate 20 mins a day in the car with him. At least he stopped punching it. I did kick his ass out after he did that though, and he walked to work. I went OFF on him. I think that was actually my breaking point with everything.
unless she shoves an eggplant there, she shouldnt worry.
At least half of it was.
I wish I wasn’t such a doormat, dude. I WANT to make him take care of himself, and I’ve been sort of doing it, but the fights have just gotten SO much worse. Like it’s volatile. He punched my car one day, too. He calmed down a little after that, but he straight up stopped doing anything but go to work for WEEKS! I let the dishes pile up after a couple days, and he never touched them. So I couldn’t take it anymore and cleaned the kitchen thinking he threw his fit and now he’ll start helping again, right? He made his point. Nope. It went on for weeks.
This man has been a clean freak our entire relationship, btw. Like psycho cleaner lol. So this was extremely out of character. He also has a habit of micromanaging me whenever I clean anything, so I only clean when he’s at work or not around. It’s ridiculous, I know. Eggshells everywhere. (He’s a LOT like my mother in this way. It’s icky)
It’s just not working. The only thing I haven’t done was make him Uber. At least not every day. I work a lot of events, and he works odd hours, so several days a month he ends up Ubering or catching a ride home.
Idk, it just feels like spending that money unnecessarily is pointless when I’m trying to save. I can tolerate 20 mins a day in the car with him. At least he stopped punching it. I did kick his ass out after he did that though, and he walked to work. I went OFF on him. I think that was actually my breaking point with everything.
What the fuck?
Unless they were, “I sure would love it if you spat in my face, I'm into that shit.”; How is this at all relevant?
You may feel it's wrong, but it's still a preference. Some may only may midgets or people into scat. It's not your place to judge
Roommate wants you to party with her, you are focused on other things.
She wants you to break up and party with her, she isn't a good friend.
oh absolutely. i bet he wouldn't be “allowed” to game if they got married.
Odds are also high on there being hidden credit card and loan debt as well.