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He sounds like a Disney villain with that last line. You sort of answered your own question with your last few thoughts: why would a reasonable man want this? Especially when I have nothing to contribute financially? Especially if divorce would damage him? The answer is that he’s eager, because he does not intend for any of those things to be an issue.
If he is as wealthy as you say, he will almost certainly have a prenuptial agreement for you to sign, protecting everything but you.
If you have nothing to offer him, not even the comfort of being a person who knows him well, then what do you think is left of you that he wants? And wants to take?
He may seem sound-minded and responsible but it appears he is only that way with regard to the things he considers important. Like his job, his money, his lifestyle. But he does not have the same kind of patience and boundaries with you…. Interesting.
Saying things like “why wait when it’s inevitable” is….. I cannot emphasize the red flag here enough. He did not say something like “because I just feel in my heart it’s right” (still ?but also admits and owns the feeling as his own) or, ideally, “I am completely enamored with you, but if I’m moving too fast please let me know. I don’t want to make you uncomfortable and I want to continue to grow our relationship regardless.” This is still not perfect because he brought up marriage at all, but since we’re here, he did not express concern AT ALL for your feelings, thoughts, or input regarding such a big life milestone and something you very reasonably questioned because of the speedy nature of this discussion.
Going back for a minute to the point about him having wealth and a stable life and you having “nothing”. First, I’m sure you have much more than you realize. You have family and friends you may care about, hobbies and learning interests, goals, dreams, your OWN personality which seems kind, open to considering others, and with a healthy dose of critical thinking and skepticism (or you probably wouldn’t be here. You DO have something. And you have those things to lose. This man believes he can lure you in with promises of wealth, love, and the false hope “you’ll never have to worry about anything again.” What that really ends up looking like is isolation, ultimatums, emotional manipulation, “after everything I’ve done for you?!”, and potentially much worse. He sees you as his, something he can buy. Not as your own person with your own mind. Reject his premise of marriage outright and he will show you what I mean.
Also keep in mind that at 27 and with such a “rushed” desire to get married, you have to question why he isn’t married already. Or at least in a long term, committed relationship. You might be telling yourself there are many reasons that someone like him could be single, but there really aren’t. If he was single by choice, unmarried by choice, etc. then he would certainly not be suddenly jumping into marriage conversations with anyone. Even if he was commitment-phobic but has changed his mind at some point, he’d likely still have a very strong boundary about when, where, and with whom that conversation is appropriate.
Do not sell yourself short, you have many beautiful things to offer. Money isn’t everything. And do not let this man lure you into his trap with a breadcrumb trail of sweet words and gentle coaxing just so he can slam the door on your cage and now all the niceties can end. You have a whole life to on-line. Don’t throw it away at 20 years old. Do what you want (within reason) when it comes to dating, but do not marry this man anytime soon. You said “I thought people waited like 5 years before getting married?” They do.
Good luck ?
Not that it’s surprising, but there are a lot of snap judgments in these comments that lack a lot of empathy. Yes, this really sucks you learned that he has/had some of those thoughts OP, and I’m sure it doesn’t feel good. But this sounds like he was trying to walk through a healthy therapeutic exercise. This is absolutely classic thinking of someone trying to process a toxic relationship and figure out what a healthy one looks like. Everything he has to say about your relationship in the end really is a positive, and sometimes realizing that a good happy life isn’t constant excitement can be a little confusing. Everyone saying he is terrible for comparing you both etc is baffling to me – what would be terrible is if he said this TO you in a hurtful way; OR if he never processed any of his feelings at all. A few questions, how easy was this notebook for you to find? Did he leave it open on the kitchen table, or were you looking through his personal stuff? It’s kinda messed up to read someone’s journal like that, though I know there’s ways you could have stumbled on it and started reading before you realized. But be honest with yourself, were you snooping a little bit? Also who knows how long ago he wrote this? This might have been earlier on when he was deciding on a commitment to you and some of his toxic relationship feelings were more fresh. He may not feel this way anymore. I think if this is going to eat you up inside you should talk to him about it, but you need to start by apologizing for reading his very personal journaling that quite likely has helped him become a better partner to you.
I think feet are gross. But some feet definitely are prettier than others and some are definitely scary af. I agree with not telling her BUT consider what MIGHT happen if you guys become serious and long term. If it comes out sometime later it could be worse. So instead of saying you don't have one I'd say you just aren't comfortable talking about it just yet.
I absolutely agree that you should take time for yourself. no ifs, ands or buts about it. this is what you want, don't let anyone – especially someone who will basically benefit if he is able to change your mind.
taking it slow DOES NOT MEAN texting all day long! that needs to stop. you need to be living your life, not spending it texting him all day.
you say this new guy is great, but he is not respecting your wishes. i would be very wary of a guy who has sat by waiting for you – and can't wait.
hold him back firmly. i would definitely encourage you not to get physical with him. he seems like the type that would run with it.
“I dont want to have a sex life like this for the rest of my life.”
“Sex gets better after being married”, said almost no one ever.
YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON FOR WANTING A GOOD SEX LIFE WITH YOUR PARTNER.
IF YOU BREAK UP WITH HIM FOR WANTING A BETTER SEX LIFE, YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON.
please go check out r/deadbedroom for what life may be like 5, 10 or 20 years from now.
Good luck and best wishes.